Do all bikinis make guys think of sex or of a girl in a sexual way?

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If you see a girl (lets say an average one, a way hot one, and a maybe like below average girl) in a bikini, do you have to think about sex or her in a sexual way? Do you judge her body? If you just met her and she is in a bikini, do you judge her off her body? Also, how do you feel about modest bathing suits (rash guard and shorts)? Would you respect her more? And if you wouldn't mind, (because I know this is a long answered question) giving an answer for all the types of girls :) Thanks!

Roarke · Accepted Answer

I believe the question is stated errantly. The real issue is what girls intend by wearing a bikini, and then from there all the silly ambiguity they raise about the issue.

Fact: girls wear bikinis to impress. I've heard this from women themselves. It is not to get a 'more thorough tan', as has been claimed by some in the past, because those areas revealed and therefore tanned by a bikini are not visible at other times; In short, who gives a shit how complete their tan is.

The silly ambiguity: of course, the attention is sexual. Duh. Is it intense enough to lead to attack? Of course not, at least not enough times to matter. Do guys take it as a 'come and get me' tactic, no. For guys around a pool it is just eye candy to go along with man-talk about other things, like sports and cars.

Unfortunately, there has arisen of late some kind of phantom about 'objectifying' women. Let's assume for a moment that this boogeyman really exists. There is a multi-billion dollar global lingerie industry built on the self-'objectification' of women. Hence if anything, it is a boogeywoman.

I think that says it all. Don your bikini while the weather is still warm and go play with all your pals, male or female, down at the pool. Life is too short for all this bullshit.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I love bikinis and have sexy thoughts about the girls wearing them.
Any of them, it is all good.
I don't mind the more modest ones either, as I have an active imagination.
I would probably respect the scantily clad ones more, as they are showing more.
Just like the girl that said to me that she didn't want to have sex, because I wouldn't respect her in the morning. Well honey, I don't respect you if you don't put out. The act of delivering, not withholding, earns respect.
Quite different than some have been led to believe!!

sirspauldo · Answer

This topic is less about girls dressing sexually as it is more about the mindset of the guy.

If a guys mindset is already dirty/sexual then yes in fact most anything a girl wears will be perceived as sexual, not because of what she wears but because he views her as a sexual object.

Now for guys with clean mindsets, no, they would not see women as sexual objects simply by how they dress.

ARWINGx1 · Answer

"It depends on their behavior"

Or more accurately in my case, the bikini alone would give me mild sexual thoughts, but their behavior "contributes" to the majority of it.

OR, that I can put most of that thought aside, unless (although unlikely) the girl would actually "encourage" me to "show" all of that.

TadCurious · Answer

Your question has a lot of moving parts, so I'll just say this. I like girls in bikinis. I love girls in bikinis. Bikinis are amazing. There's something about a girl in a bikini that's even hotter than if she were nude. (It's a really close call, actually.) There's definitely sexual appeal when it comes to a girl in a bikini.

hawkeye92 · Answer

When I see a girl in a bikini I don't typically have sexual thoughts. Because in that context I'm usually at a beach just looking to relax or have fun.

Though, I never quite understood why typically a girl in bra and panties is viewed as inherently more sexual than a bikini, despite being very similar types of clothing lol.

soe11 · Answer

To me normally no sexual thoughts come to mind. I love seeing my girlfriend and attractive in micro bikini as others in public beach and party. Most occasions she and her mom get topless too with full of confidence and showing off. If we on private beach location, we made love too. Finally when my girlfriend desire on beach and resorts do sex openly.

p0rtis26 · Answer

When my ex had on her bikini, wooooow I needed to leave the room because Mr. Woody was coming out. Depends on the attractiveness of the girl and my relationship with her

Jackblue · Answer

The bikini does have a certain association with sex in the eyes of most guys. We think, why when the girl could have chosen to wear a modest bathing suit like what you mentioned did she choose to wear an outfit that is quite revealing?

ArchDruidMordred · Answer

Bikini's make me think of cuddling more than sex.

helpman · Answer

If she's seductive type then yeah  Or else no

Anonymous · Answer

If you're hot then yeah no doubt about it

beastman88 · Answer

bikinis are hawt

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