Why do I attract players/drug dealers/rich jerks?

[Anonymous]

I dont dress or act like a whore, Im always covered , i wear expensive clothes my hair always look good and im 17
I had sex 9 times (im not proud) and only 1 of them actually liked me. I was his seconth, he wasn't rich or a drug dealer. the 8 others were rich guys who just want a one night. players that act like good guys or drug dealers who gets me fucked up before fucking me..
Why do i attract these type of guys?

[MrOracle]

Because (and I'm not trying to be mean, just honest) you're EASY. You aren't making these guys wait, or to give you a relationship first. You are having sex with them with no commitment.

Even worse, you are taking drugs, which is just another means of them to take advantage of you.

If you had better morals and higher standards for both yourself and for the guys you date, you'd have dismissed these guys long before it ever got to that point. But you didn't, because you don't.

Obviously, you find these guys attractive, because in your mind, you can get something from them: money, drugs, access, status, etc. You don't really like the GUY, you like what you get get from him. That's shallow, and so it's no surprise that these guys are equally shallow, and only care what they can get from you.

It's YOUR job to elevate your own standards and morals, or not. No one can do that for you, and as an adult, no one is going to be screening the guys you date to protect you from yourself. It's up to YOU to make good decisions (much better ones than you have been), and you should already know by now that you can't make good decisions when drunk or high (no one can), so if you continue to get fucked up, you can expect to get used, even raped. Unfortunately, it comes with the territory, and the way to avoid those things is to avoid getting fucked up in the first place.

If you want to attract the kinds of guys who would never do those things to a girl, you have to BE the kind of girl who would never be around the kind of guy who would.

[Anonymous]

The sweet guys either have girlfriends already or are to shy to approach. You may also be attracted to the types of guys that are no good for you. Meeting a great guy won't matter if you aren't attracted to him.

[Anonymous]

you are 17 and have had sex with 9 guys. I guarantee word has got out about you within those guys social circles and that's why they pursue you. what you can do is stop spreading your legs for anyone who pays you attention and wait for a man who has proven he cares and treats you with respect

[Eternallylucky]

Look, anyone can get those people if you put out fast for them. You shouldn't be so easily influenced by them.

[Eternallylucky]

But you are young at that age where you easily believe what people say to you... Those guys are smooth talkers/manipulative liars and you shouldn't even consider what they tell you is true.

[israelisevil]

Drug dealers typically look for long term relationship so they have someone to be with after jail if they ever get booked. Stay clear rich people they act entitled. Finding a guy/girl hard a lot times they not looking one night stands its just they thought they liked you but they dont

[jacquesvol]

You're meeting the wrong guys. I'd have to ask acquaintances where I could find a drug dealer: I don't know any. If I suspected omeone of doing /dealing drugs, I'd avoid him.

[Insaan]

It happens because you are easy.
Yes you can downvote me now.

[Anonymous]

>I don't act like a whore
>Under 18
>Fucked 9 guys
>I don't act like a whore

wut.

[Klaatu51]

drug dealers? how did you find them? LOL

[Asker]

theyre everywhere

[Anonymous]

Are you an escort