Is an 8 year age gap bad?

[Ruby666]

Im with this guy, been with him for a few months. he's 28 and im 20. 8 years ain't that bad isit?

[Tractorbeam]

It hardly matters, if you get along well.
Normally, I'd say a minimum age limit is about (1/2 + 7). For him, that would be (14 + 7) = 21.
Nothing is written in stone, so 20 is close enough.

The older you get, the less it matters (if it matters at all).

[Klaatu51]

who cares? even if he was 68 it'd be fine

[Klaatu51]

thanks!!1

[electromagnetic]

Personally, I couldn't do it. But I never discourage others. Especially if you find yourselfs compatible and get along well. If he makes you happy, nothing else should matter.

[Anonymous]

No, it's not. You're both adults, so there's no problem. Plus, he was a child when you were born. It would be bad if he was a man at that time.

[JustMeYeah]

Nope. 8 years I nothing. Unless you're in middle & high school. Stuff like that. But high school and college, college and so forth is fine

[ilovchipmunk]

Yuh, you got a great rift.20 - 30 is the most volatile period in life stage and he's already a cocoon. you couldn't image what would you be in your 28 could you? i found it would be perplexed if developing a long term.

[SkaterDude]

if you feel it's bad you shouldn't have been with him, you should have thought about before being with him, i mean i don't know why people start thinking age difference suddenly right n the middle of their relationship

[Ruby666]

Age doesn't bother me lol im jus saying is 8 years a big age gap

[SkaterDude]

you shouldn't be bothered by that too, when you start doubting it could only make it worse

[UnknownXYZ]

I don't think that the fact that age gaps are really meaningful. So to me, it isn't bad.

[AlwaysBelieving]

It's fine as long as you're fine with it (something tells me you aren't otherwise you wouldn't have asked). How does the guy feel about it?

[Ruby666]

Im fine with it, i was just curious to know if 8 years is a big gap

[AlwaysBelieving]

As long as you and he are fine with it, that's all that should matter concerning this.

[genericname85]

it´s a bit problematic. since you are in different stages of your life which will sooner or later lead to conflicts.

[Anonymous]

my friend he's 22 his partner she's 40 they've been living together for 2 years she has 4 kids her oldest is 23 lol

[Ruby666]

Thats well weird lol like dating one of her kids mates. Cougaaaar!!

[Opinion Owner]

Yep , I don't know what he's up to tbh. Her daughters are hot too!

[Ruby666]

he's probably banging her daughters

[Opinion Owner]

seeing they don't live at home that seems highly unlikely plius he would tell me if he was

[Maazin]

You will probably be one of his trophies when it ends !!

[coffeprince]

Thats so horrible!

[Ruby666]

Doubt i will be

[Maazin]

I hope not but why would a 28 yr old be so desperate to hang out with a 20 yr old unless if its the girl who makes the move. Anyway your choice !!

[HipHop-Kid-UK]

I'd be with a 28 year old woman if I could, so I don't think so really

[Anonymous]

I personally couldn't date somebody if the age gap is that big

[SomethingWicked]

As long as you're compatible, what does it matter.

[zombiebabe]

there's nothing wrong about it

[kaitlovesyou]

Mope lol, maybe if you were 8 and he was 19 lol

[Ruby666]

Loool haha