Why do lesbians make you uncomfortable?

[gaygirlgayworld]

A lot of people seem to be uncomfortable around lesbians... Are you? Can you tell me your reasons? (no judgement)

[Hannaaaaaaaah]

Fun story: I've had bad experiences with lesbians aha. I'm straight and so were half my female friends (or so I thought) about 7 years ago. We were all really close where I'd sleep in my underwear and a top while spooning my friends, changing in the same locker, waxing, underwear shopping, usual girl best friend things. It wasn't until 2 years ago I found out my best friend and another who I knew for about a year at the time both were completely gay. They kept it hidden from the group of friends for years and for a long time (one 3 years, the other a couple months) had a thing for me but obviously it would never be mutual so they both kept it a secret while I'd spend a fair share of my time with them half dressed. And that's why I don't like lesbians (or closeted ones anyway) also, they've ended up hooking up for like 2 and a bit years now

[gaygirlgayworld]

I do all of these things with my straight friends though and we all know it's totally platonic. Are you sure they really had a thing for you, or are you just kinda assuming?

[juststrollin]

I think mostly men are uncomfortable around gay men... Lesbians are fine to general population for sexist reasons.

[PasticheGrizzly]

I don't mind, a have lesbian friends haha.
They're just people.

[Marklaw12]

I get turned on by lesbians. They have lots of options. They don't bother me tbh neither do the gay dudes. This is what happens when you don't think of their sex lives and just see them. However, if they start kissing in front of me that's where I feel uncomfortable.

[gaygirlgayworld]

I get uncomfortable when anyone is kissing around me tbh

[Marklaw12]

Don't be. It's just kissing. It's totally normal.

[gaygirlgayworld]

But you just said you feel uncomfortable when girls are kissing in front of you?

[Marklaw12]

I wasn't clear enough. There's different levels of kissing. You'd know the level where you get uncomfortable.

[gaygirlgayworld]

That's what I meant lol. I don't like it when people get all freaky and make out in front of me.

[Marklaw12]

Just turn your head away and if it gets worse. Yell, get a room! . lol

[JudasTribeca]

I gotta say, this kinda surprised me. I have heard of older conservative people not liking lesbians but I don't know anybody who is uncomfortable with them. And I have no problem with it. Have you had some experience with people saying that?

[gaygirlgayworld]

People have been weirded out by me ever since I came out a few years ago. I lost a few female friends, and my male friends are never comfortable with talking about girls with me. The last girlfriend I had refused to even hold hands in public because she was afraid people would stare.

[JudasTribeca]

I would understand women being a little weirded out if they were close minded and didn't understand that but I actually have a few lesbian friends that hang out with me and my guy friends. None of us have ever felt uncomfortable or anything, nor have I seen this happening with other people. That's really strange. I can't think of why that would be the case

[Anonymous]

They don’t but I have a lesbian friend we will call her Wilma (that is not her real name it’s Breann) she’s pretty dyke and butch. Wears sports bras and baggy clothes pretty boyish and tomboy. She was part of my group of guys for a long time since jr high school.

I knew she was lesbian so I never would try anything with her. Things changed when she introduced me to her girlfriend we will call her Sadie (not her real name) she was bI from my understanding but she was more feminine. It was a pretty stereotypical lesbian couple once she introduced me we got along great. She never brought Sadie along with her with the dudes but for some reason she did bring her to hang out one on one.

As time went on they became very expressive around me. Her demeanor changed a lot as well. Kept telling me how much she trusts me and how open she can be with me. Telling me all this stuff and making very sexual jokes. Don’t get me wrong sex jokes was pretty common in our friend group but it was very different. By this point Wilma never even hung out with any of the other guys anymore rarely ever.

They got very drunk one night and came onto me strong. I never gave in as they were drunk but long story short. I brought it up while they were sober. After profusely apologizing for fifteen minutes and me assuring them it’s okay. They confessed that they really did like me. So…. We hooked up. It was passionate. It was crazy. It was like nothing I had ever experience. I felt a deep connection to both of them. It was nothing ordinary it was just something that’s unexplainable.

But… After a while of doing that it caused some drama. Long story short we became a thruple… We kept it sort of a secret since it would cause a lot of roomers and everything. But we went on dates together and did other stuff outside the sex.

It completely ruined my friendship with her eventually especially as drama started. Eventually the girls broke up but kept seeing me which caused more drama. They got back together before breaking up again. Dude it was a EMOTIONAL ROLLAR COASTER! Both girls kept telling me how much they loved me and turning me against the other. It was horrible because I loved and cared for both of them equally. It broke my heart during the split.

Eventually we lost contact…. Sadie married some dude that relationship for some reason failed. Then she went back to women and now she’s with some other guy. Just from her social media I still follow. Wilma. She’s cool as cool I speak to her rarely just to catch up on life. It’s different it’s horrible it’s like talking to a stranger. We used to be some of the bestest friends for many years to a few years of passionate lovers.

I should have never gotten involved with them romantically and sexually. It was a lot more drama then I could have ever imagined. It also RUINRD my friendship

[FloridaOperative]

I know this is just me personally but when I was younger I had a bad experience a good amount of lesbians in my time it’s not because I did anything to her deserve the response I got but a lot of lesbians I have met when I was younger are usually extremely rude to not just me but a lot of other guys as well, I remember my sophomore year of high school I dated this bisexual girl which I didn’t see a problem with it at all but after about six months into the relationship I had found out from a friend of mine that she was having sexual relations with a mutual friend of ours who is lesbian and which I knew her for about two years but ever since that incident and the large amount of rude lesbians I have met in my past I have just voted myself to stop hanging out with lesbians overall it’s not that I don’t like them because they’re lesbian but I feel like every day interaction with any lesbian I have ever met has always gone into shit.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the lesbian. If they are like my friend from child hood they are fun to be around, joke with, have a drink like a normal girl she just has a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend she fine, love her to bits she's a great friend.

Then there are the dyke lesbians that frankly you feel only date women because they hate men so much or they can't get a guy and they decide to be a lesbian instead.

[CurtisR]

Not uncomfortable at all, just find it hawt AF when they're good lookin. Gay guys on the other hand are fine for the most part, but when some of them overdue it with the feminine voice shit, that rattles my cage a bit.

[HGG3805]

No I do not have any problems being around lesbians. People are people. It's interesting and a bit of fun discussing attractive women with a lady that prefers other women.

[sovetskii13]

Never thought or heard about that. I don't mind lesbians. Regular women.

[heimdallr]

A lot of the time they're feminists and I can't stand feminists.

[Intraluminal]

They don't make me uncomfortable unless they're the male-bashing type, which are fairly rare.

[savalisk]

Not uncomfortable, just sometimes they can be more manly than the manliest men I know.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

A fat, man-hating lesbian tormented me and made my life hell the entire time I was in K-8.

To this day I still have an intense dislike for fatties, fishmongers, and especially fat fishmongers.

[gaygirlgayworld]

I am sorry about your experiences, but do you really think all lesbians are like that?

[Barrabus_the_Free]

It doesn't matter. My childhood was... bad. And you can only beat a dog so much before it's never the same. People are no different.

[slyguy24]

a lot have been rude to me. But others are awesome. Depends

[Emilykay54]

Not uncomfortable for me , I'm wondering if lesbias would like fenium men?

[Champloo]

No only lesbian I disliked told me she liked the ending for Mass Effect 3.

[jakeiremonger]

Hot ones don't. It's the butch ones that are the problem.

[gaygirlgayworld]

That's just sexualizing

[jakeiremonger]

Are you hitting in me?

[jakeiremonger]

On me*

[jacquesvol]

Lesbians do NOT make me uncomfortable

[drinkycrow]

Nope they don't more power to you I say.

[ASEXY]

They don't. They make me feel more comfortable.

[huzzo]

Cause being lesbian is so unnatural. God has made for opposite sex

[gaygirlgayworld]

Then why do so many animals partake in homosexual behavior?

[huzzo]

Are you an animal?

[huzzo]

Dear human is the most superior creature of God. So there must be some differences in the behavior or human and animals

[huzzo]

Of**

[gaygirlgayworld]

Haircuts and polyester are also unnatural in the eyes of the Bible. Don't you think that maybe some of the things in that book may not apply to modern day life?

[Anonymous]

They don't make me uncomfortable

[Insanyx12]

I don't judge

[TriTree]

They don't...

[Rubified94]

They don't.