Am I the only girl who finds muscular guys to be so unattractive?

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I see so many girls who fawn over men with who are very muscular and look like gym freaks and I'm just like eww. 😂 I find the tall and slim type to be more my taste like him, for example.

Tony_1693 · Accepted Answer

Above average women seem to be attracted to muscle. Below average women seem to despise it. This is considering that his physique hasn't extended to the lengths of extreme. I've been an average dude, and I've been a jacked dude. I receive 10x more attention with a physique.

Women also see muscular men as a threat and it evoked an insecurity out of them. Most women don't look at guys like me and think emotional comfort. It's quite the opposite. So women who are seeking emotional comfort tend to stray from getting emotionally invested into guys like me. Therefore, there's almost no attraction from first impressions.

I can shift that dynamic by making her feel comfortable enough to emotionally open up a little very quickly. It sort of works in my benefit because she had your doubts about you, and all of a sudden you present yourself as this well-articulated guy, and it's like that physical attraction of your physique suddenly kicks in for her.

Logically, a muscular and lean physique is universally attractive. It showcases masculinity, protection, high testosterone, health, and the potential to produce a strong offspring. This is just basic evolutionary/biological logic.

Anonymus2017 · Accepted Answer

See, I am about the same build as the picture above and I am plenty happy with my body.

Muscular bodies, not for me, male or female. I may be straight but I can still tell if a guy is attractive or not by looking at him. And muscles just don't seem attractive to me.

I like being tall, thin and little bit toned.

Annie_Mosity · Accepted Answer

I like men in all shapes and sizes... however, crazy over developed muscles I don't really like. It also means he's going to spend a crazy amount of time on his body... which means less time working out in the bedroom... so the look isn't that awesome and the lifestyle definitely isn't something I find an attractive trait.

Astoriana · Accepted Answer

All the body builder types who look like lumpy monsters are deeply unattractive to me. They look like they’re about to snap my neck at any point out of roid rage. I don’t want to fear the person I’m seeing.

splashofyellow · Accepted Answer

I like something in between. Not too skinny but not too muscular. The kind of body you get naturally from manual labor, if you get what I mean. Not the gym pumped type.

Wally48 · Answer

You don't need to be a muscleman, just well toned. And guys (at least me) like toned girls too! Girls need guys that can carry shit for them, open jars, and pick them up when the moment arises. Guys need girls that can keep up with them on hikes, hand them a heavy tool or spare tire, help them move a big piece of furniture etc.

Both males and females should all try to stay well toned for life. It helps us find and keep partners, improves mental health, and increases flexibility and mobility. I was out for my afternoon bike ride yesterday and pulled alongside the Palm Desert high school boys cross country team, out for a 14 mile training run. Those dudes weren't musclemen but they ran 70 miles a week and were in awesome shape. On the other side of life, my Mom played doubles tennis twice weekly until 77; my aunt Helen had a personal trainer until the day she died at 84. It's important.

TheMoroccangirl · Answer

How can you find this unattractive? Fit + tall is just a wet dream 🌚.  As long it's natural and of course not overdone.

Aparnam · Answer

Guys with muscles, to me, seems like walking pack of meat..

I would always go for skinny, though not too skinny, sich that i would be able to count number of bones in their body, like the healthy type

ladsin · Answer

Depends on how muscular for me XP I like toned boys. If you got a professional weightlifter, or body builder... no

th0tsauce · Answer

I usually like muscular types, but right now I'm talking to this guy who is lanky/slimfit lol. I like both!

Saccharissa · Answer

Definitely not the only one, though I'm personally not a fan of the skinny beanstalk type either.

karahiri · Answer

skinny guys are disgusting. overly muscled guys are also disgusting.

AbrahamTheLincoln · Answer

Well, I'm very tall and have wide shoulders. I am close to ripped.  Far from swollen.  Do you find that unattractive?

MuffinHead · Answer

I like guys with muscles 💪 I need someone who can pick me up lol

oriontheking · Answer

Girls that don't like muscular guys (not talking about bofybuilders, just reasonably muscular guys) are usually closet lesbians.

MyAtlantis · Answer

I prefer muscles but I don't discriminate slim guys. Actually the face is what I am looking at first.

TripleAce · Answer

You're born in a different era lol.. an era that currently into skinny jeans, being lean, having tats.. and a little hipster... so makes sense

alice55 · Answer

Majority of women in my country prefer the skinny type of guys. I prefer muscular guys XD I think it just depend on the country.

ElisaPlease · Answer

I prefer toned men. Too muscular is intimidating & skinny looks sickly too me

MayBlythe · Answer

I agree with you so much toned and skinny not big and buff

Imafreespirit · Answer

I LOVE muscular guys, muscles look so incredibly hot but I'm sure you're not the only one lol

Kida317 · Answer

As a heavier girl, I would feel like a mammoth alongside with a skinny and short guy...

cupidkisses · Answer

I like muscular guys but l think u r not the only one

Anonymous · Answer

I believe the muscular dudes, are only a thing in America. Anywhere else, they aren't so big. (No pun intended)

bekkesmash · Answer

You are 14, of course you like the skinny guys, no one your age is truly muscular.

Kuraj · Answer

We call these guys daddy-longlegs, or more colloquially toilet spiders.

Anonymous · Answer

asked my girlfriend and she said some muscles are attractive, skinny is attractive, but having too much muscle is unattractive i actually do agree with her response

ACrazyHaggis · Answer

i would prefer not to be out of shape my personal opinion though but not a huge body builder

itsallover · Answer

Agreed. Slim and toned guys are the way forward.

Sabinath · Answer

Well I mean that kinda made me feel better 😂

BajanBae · Answer

Who told you to post my husband up here? 👊

RachelleDraws · Answer

Muscles are gross. Gimme some nice curvy girls~

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

Muscules freak me out

songwriter19 · Answer

I like chubby guys haha.

tattooedhandfet · Answer

I like flubs and love handles ☺

vargpost2 · Answer

you are not the only lesbian in existence no.

Like-Me · Answer

Is this guy supposed to be attractive?

loveshorro · Answer

I don’t mind both but I prefer a good in between

Bobthesecond · Answer

Love a guy who can't fight back

Dwayne34 · Answer

I don't know are you🤔😂

Spinosauro · Answer

Why nobody likes fat/chubby boys sexy?

Girlie15 · Answer

Same!

rgb008 · Answer

I prefer muscle.

JenDB · Answer

MUSCLES FTW

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

I like muscles

CT_CD · Answer

I like muscles

Insanyx12 · Answer

Rip.

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