
Am I the only girl who finds muscular guys to be so unattractive?


Above average women seem to be attracted to muscle. Below average women seem to despise it. This is considering that his physique hasn't extended to the lengths of extreme. I've been an average dude, and I've been a jacked dude. I receive 10x more attention with a physique.
Women also see muscular men as a threat and it evoked an insecurity out of them. Most women don't look at guys like me and think emotional comfort. It's quite the opposite. So women who are seeking emotional comfort tend to stray from getting emotionally invested into guys like me. Therefore, there's almost no attraction from first impressions.
I can shift that dynamic by making her feel comfortable enough to emotionally open up a little very quickly. It sort of works in my benefit because she had your doubts about you, and all of a sudden you present yourself as this well-articulated guy, and it's like that physical attraction of your physique suddenly kicks in for her.
Logically, a muscular and lean physique is universally attractive. It showcases masculinity, protection, high testosterone, health, and the potential to produce a strong offspring. This is just basic evolutionary/biological logic.
See, I am about the same build as the picture above and I am plenty happy with my body.
Muscular bodies, not for me, male or female. I may be straight but I can still tell if a guy is attractive or not by looking at him. And muscles just don't seem attractive to me.
I like being tall, thin and little bit toned.
I like men in all shapes and sizes... however, crazy over developed muscles I don't really like. It also means he's going to spend a crazy amount of time on his body... which means less time working out in the bedroom... so the look isn't that awesome and the lifestyle definitely isn't something I find an attractive trait.
All the body builder types who look like lumpy monsters are deeply unattractive to me. They look like theyโre about to snap my neck at any point out of roid rage. I donโt want to fear the person Iโm seeing.
Right! They are so gross looking ๐ท
I like something in between. Not too skinny but not too muscular. The kind of body you get naturally from manual labor, if you get what I mean. Not the gym pumped type.
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You don't need to be a muscleman, just well toned. And guys (at least me) like toned girls too! Girls need guys that can carry shit for them, open jars, and pick them up when the moment arises. Guys need girls that can keep up with them on hikes, hand them a heavy tool or spare tire, help them move a big piece of furniture etc.
Both males and females should all try to stay well toned for life. It helps us find and keep partners, improves mental health, and increases flexibility and mobility. I was out for my afternoon bike ride yesterday and pulled alongside the Palm Desert high school boys cross country team, out for a 14 mile training run. Those dudes weren't musclemen but they ran 70 miles a week and were in awesome shape. On the other side of life, my Mom played doubles tennis twice weekly until 77; my aunt Helen had a personal trainer until the day she died at 84. It's important.
How can you find this unattractive? Fit + tall is just a wet dream 🌚.
As long it's natural and of course not overdone.
Why isn't the pic in my comment shown wtf
Ewwww ๐
Guurrll wtf ๐. Alright slim guys (no muscles) with broad shoulders and a tall height are attractive as well but not as attractive as fit lean tall guys.
I don't know I enjoy the sight of strength, it's a big turn on.
Guys with muscles, to me, seems like walking pack of meat..
I would always go for skinny, though not too skinny, sich that i would be able to count number of bones in their body, like the healthy type
Depends on how muscular for me XP
I like toned boys. If you got a professional weightlifter, or body builder... no
I usually like muscular types, but right now I'm talking to this guy who is lanky/slimfit lol. I like both!
Definitely not the only one, though I'm personally not a fan of the skinny beanstalk type either.
skinny guys are disgusting. overly muscled guys are also disgusting.
Well, I'm very tall and have wide shoulders. I am close to ripped.
Far from swollen.
Do you find that unattractive?
Give me an example. I don't know what you mean.
Strong abs, strong biceps etc
I like guys with muscles 💪 I need someone who can pick me up lol
Girls that don't like muscular guys (not talking about bofybuilders, just reasonably muscular guys) are usually closet lesbians.
I prefer muscles but I don't discriminate slim guys. Actually the face is what I am looking at first.
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You're born in a different era lol.. an era that currently into skinny jeans, being lean, having tats.. and a little hipster...
so makes sense
Majority of women in my country prefer the skinny type of guys. I prefer muscular guys XD
I think it just depend on the country.
And where are you from?
@yourfuture France.
In france they like them androngynous
@bekkesmash are you saying that cuz you're fat? LMAO
Actually I am muscular
@bekkesmash Dude that's so money. I'm skinny ripped, and short, I wish I was muscular. You should be getting a $hit ton of girls man.
I wish.
I prefer toned men. Too muscular is intimidating & skinny looks sickly too me
I agree with you so much toned and skinny not big and buff
I LOVE muscular guys, muscles look so incredibly hot but I'm sure you're not the only one lol
As a heavier girl, I would feel like a mammoth alongside with a skinny and short guy...
I like muscular guys but l think u r not the only one
I believe the muscular dudes, are only a thing in America. Anywhere else, they aren't so big. (No pun intended)
You are 14, of course you like the skinny guys, no one your age is truly muscular.
We call these guys daddy-longlegs, or more colloquially toilet spiders.
asked my girlfriend and she said some muscles are attractive, skinny is attractive, but having too much muscle is unattractive
i actually do agree with her response
i would prefer not to be out of shape my personal opinion though
but not a huge body builder
Agreed. Slim and toned guys are the way forward.
Well I mean that kinda made me feel better 😂
Who told you to post my husband up here? 👊
YOUR husband? ๐ Pshh
Muscles are gross. Gimme some nice curvy girls~
Muscules freak me out
I like chubby guys haha.
I like flubs and love handles โบ
you are not the only lesbian in existence no.
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Is this guy supposed to be attractive?
Don't come for Sammy โ
Chris is a singer. Sammy is a rapper. No Comparison
They are both attractive AF
I donโt mind both but I prefer a good in between
Love a guy who can't fight back
Who said anything about fighting?
I did
Why?
I don't know are you🤔😂
I don't know ๐
I mean looks isn't everything like but it's mostly the muscle guys stealing the show like ok I'm big boned alright n I'm far from hot or pretty or something I don't know but my personality is the thing that shines on me n even then half the time I don't even get a chance I just get put down n rejected like but bottom line is looks ain't errything
Maybe you are too much effeminate.
I just look your pic and it looks borderline gay.
Maybe its me but if nobody tell you it's good to know.
Why nobody likes fat/chubby boys sexy?
Same!
I prefer muscle.
MUSCLES FTW
I like muscles
I like muscles
Rip.
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