Why does every girl on here say that they don't like muscular guys?

[Anonymous]

99% of the girls on here say they don't like muscular guys, but I know they are lying because most girls do. The ones who are telling the truth are unattracted to them because "they scare them" which is dumb because how are you gonna be so scared of muscles? Cmon, lets all admit that the majority of girls love guys with big muscles. I'm a skinny guy and I know it for a fact. Why are all these girls on here lying about that?

[Anonymous]

I just read something about this the other day!
First, personally I like muscles and being toned, but there are guys whose biceps are the size of my head and all of the ones I've encountered have this ego with deeply rooted insecurity which is a scary combo.

But for what I read, more women are actually attracted to toned, strong lean guys not really big, steroid looking muscles because of evolution and survival with a mate. Toned guy would be able to run and climb quicker with a higher endurance whereas a guy who spend all of his time weight-lifting would actually have a lesser chance of survival. Nowadays, the ideal mate body image is more based on societal standards rather than survival and the threats are different so girls are more likely to find either attractive.

[Leimarie]

I'm definitely one of the girls on here guilty of saying I don't like the heavy body-builder type. My rationale would be that 1.) the dude would spend an extraordinary amount of his time in the gym, 2.) he would likely be on a health kick so he might judge me for eating junk food, and also 3.) the possibility of roid rage comes to mind.

At least for me, my preference for body types would be toned, slightly fit, or even a bit fluffy lol.

[Asker]

He "might" judge you, keyword might. He "might" have roid rage. Not all of them do. Actually most of them don't. If you want to hug a toned and bony guy like me then you would be very uncomfortable

[Leimarie]

You're right. There's a lot of "mights" in my statements. But I'd rather err on the side of caution in my opinion. Plus it's just my preference, not a rule anyone else has to live by.

[Leimarie]

PS I'm sure your body type is fine, but if you think you are unhealthy please consult your medical provider. Some folks have the ectomorphic body type, so it is just in their nature to have trouble gaining muscle or fat. ✌🏻

[Asker]

No I'm healthy, but women do not like my body type. It's the reason I can't get a girlfriend, or a girl to sleep with me, or a girl to even be attracted to me. I know it's a fact and most girls cover it up

[Tessajane]

i actually do prefer skinnier guys. All my crushes/boyfriends have been quite skinny, and I've just never been as attracted to muscly guys. My friends don't get it, we'll be watching TV and they'll be admiring Chris Hemsworth and Ryan Reynolds and guys like that, but I don't think buff, muscly guys look that nice, definitely prefer skinny guys

[Tessajane]

Don't know why just always have

[MermaidMotel]

I do like muscular guys, but most of the time, they always come with a catch. In my PERSONAL experience, most muscular guys I've met are so full of themselves that it turns me off completely. I could go on and on about this aspect alone, but I'll just leave it at that...

[Ayte_Lex]

I think girls like guys with an athletic build.. Not so much bodybuilder.
A guy who hits the gym
With his buddies every once and awhile..
Has a slightly noticeable six pack?
Plays a sport like soccer maybe..
Guy is also 6'2
Brownish Blonde hair,
Hazel eyes..
Oh wait, I'm describing myself.. 😝😅

[azzntittiz]

mmmm right you are.

[Anonymous]

Hate to tell you man, but each woman has her own type. I'm a really skinny guy myself, and I've never been wanting on the romantic front. Maybe you should chill out.

[Asker]

Yes, but the attraction to muscular guys is almost universal. Every attractive girl I've seen so far is with a muscular guy.

[Opinion Owner]

A man doesn't have to be muscular to have a relationship. He may have to be interesting or decent, or to have something that makes him bearable.

[Anonymous]

what's your definition of muscular?
I find this body type attractive
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and this off putting
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[Asker]

The bottom pic is my definition of muscular. The top pic is more of a toned out look, but he's still skinny and unattractive (body wise) to most girls.

[Asker]

I've met a girl who wouldn't date me unless I was above a certain body weight and below a certain body weight

[Opinion Owner]

well she was clearly not worth it, please tell me you didn't date her lmao I don't like big guys the muscle proportions kind of weird me out
I don't find the 1st guy unattractive body wise -at all- he's lean and fit = perfect

[Asker]

No I didn't. I didn't plan to she was only a friend, but she was very attractive and told me that. The fist guy is too skinny for most girls they want someone who looks like they can protect them, not someone who looks like they'd ditch them in the event a fight was gonna break out

[Opinion Owner]

yea no.. I'm not sure many women think like that, let's make a poll haha link a picture of a muscular guy and I will pick one of a lean/fit guy and let the girls of gag decide 😝 also I've got a pink upvote lol

[LenoreBeadsman]

I've never been attracted to a muscular guy. All my crushes were skinny or average and my boyfriend is skinny. I don't have anything against muscular guys, anyway ☺

[Asker]

Why not date a musclar guy? Are yoU intimidated by him? Snuggling with a skinny guy would kinda hurt wouldn't it?

[LenoreBeadsman]

I just don't feel attracted to them, I can't choose something like that and I'm not intimidated by muscular guys or muscular people in general

[Asker]

What are the traits a skinny guy has that a muscular doesn't?

[LenoreBeadsman]

Why you can't believe or accept that exist girls that doesn't find muscular guys attractive?

[Asker]

Because I can't believe them. Most of he attractive women I've seen are with muscular dudes and girls say they don't like them so they can hide it

[LenoreBeadsman]

Is it possible, that this thought of yours is the consequence of a rejection by a woman you foud attractive that chose a muscular guy instead of you? And made you believe that all the women on earth are liars and only want muscular guys? Because trust me I wouldn't have problems admitting that I find this type of guys attractive. People have different tastes, it really happens, and I truly prefer skinny/average guys

[Asker]

That has happened to me before, every time I've asked a girl which was over 30 girls. And girls lusting over muscular guys is almost universal. You see it on tv and in real life. It all boils down to biology

[LenoreBeadsman]

Oh my god... So that means I am an alien? I always knew that but now I'm sure. Thank you, now I know that I am the only female alien (with human appearances) that don't find muscular guys attractive. I must say now, that your planet it's quite bizarre. There are a lot of stubborn people and that's now what I wished, by the way.

[Asker]

Haha very sarcastic. Most girls do at the end of the day like muscular men. If that wasn't the case I would have a girlfriend by now.

[LenoreBeadsman]

Maybe, if you weren't so stubborn about something you'd have a girlfriend if not even a harem

[Asker]

I'm not stubborn I'm avoided because I'm skinny no attractive girl in her right mind would want to date a skinny guy

[LenoreBeadsman]

But I truly love skinny guys!!! My crushes in the past, my boyfriend and my everyday taste in guys can prove that. There's always an exception, don't generalise

[Asker]

Ok I isn't say there were no exceptions. I'm saying that most girls like muscular men and that is fact

[LenoreBeadsman]

I don't think so, but where are the proves of this fact? Are there scientific/real biological studies that proves that? However, it may be because a lot of muscular guys maybe are more confident with their self-image and more likely to be extroverted, but it's just a supposition, I knew and know a lot of guys without a muscular body that are confident and many girls find them really attractive. The personality of a person, is also another fundamental aspect when we talk about what we find attractive, so a beautiful personality will always more chances to attract possible partners. But anyway I know you'll probably stay with your opinion, and at the end it's okay if you really think most girls only like muscular guys, become a muscular guy it's not so difficult. Now I should sleep it's midnight where I live and I hope you'll have a nice day/night

[Tessajane]

I wouldn't necessarily NOT date a muscular guy just because of his body, but I just like skinny guys. No particular reason. But again, that's not to say I would never date someone of another body type

[Mishthefish]

We're not lying ,, HUGE muscles are not attractive to us. A normal amount of muscles are attractive to us. Huge muscles don't scare me ,, I just don't find it hot

[Asker]

You prefer a bony guy to hug? That must hurt

[Mishthefish]

Not bony >> a decent amount of muscles. I'm not into body builder muscles

[TheUglyMonk]

@Mishthefish You find a fit well toned guy attractive but not those steroid nerds, correct?

[Mishthefish]

@TheUglyMonk yes exactly,, sorry if I was vague earlier on.

[Pamstah]

I just want someone you can hug like a Teddy bear. Muscles kinda ruin that

[Nihilego]

Well I'm glad I'm huggable, by this definition

[Asker]

How would muscles ruin that?

[Pamstah]

Well muscles dont make you soft and squeezable
I just like it when guys are skinny and healthy.
Just dont like muscles that much

[Asker]

And skinny makes you squeezable? That's like squeezing a skeleton. And this is coming from a skinny guy

[DairyCow]

It's like how a lot of guys say they don't like big boobs, little waist and a big butt.
Someone with That kind of body is too much effort.

[Deydey12345]

Because it's ugly. We like guys that are skinny, slim or chubby that's it.

[Asker]

How is it ugly? That's a straight up lie because otherwise, they wouldn't be attracting some of the most attractive women I've ever seen

[Leinugh]

Muscles are used to hurt people. I'm afraid of it because what if we get married and then you suddenly get mad at me enough to hit me? That would hurt. A skinny guy hurting me would still hurt... but at least I can defend myself. If a muscular comes at me full force, I wouldn't be able to bring him down. I hate muscles cos I learned that people who are proud of their strength use it to hurt and control people.

[GraceArcher]

I like muscular guy's but therrs a point where it's TO much and it's just gross

[Chadly]

I'm fat and get plenty of girls, they like passion and drive like everyone else lol

[Asker]

I wish they liked passion and drive, I'd have two girls on my arms every day of the week. They want a guy who's musclular, especially the attractive ones.

[ThyArKai]

I don't like someone who is completely jacked. Them being fit I am attracted to, but not huge muscles. Lol

[thatgirlrosa]

Muscular guys are fine, as long as they don't have too much muscle.

[CanIHabeMemes]

But why they have to be attracted by muscles? It's not like I have to be attracted to something just because everyone else is.

[Asker]

They don't have to, it's just that most of them do because they want to feel protected and have someone to cuddle with. They won't feel very protected against a guy who weighs less than them

[CanIHabeMemes]

Once again, how do you know that they want to feel protect? And truth be told, it's not like they can't feel "protected" with someone that looks physically weak.

[Anonymous]

I think muscle is attractive.
Maybe women say that because a lot of the time it comes with arrogance. I don't know, I guess, to each her own.

[Asker]

Thank you for telling the truth

[Anonymous]

I love muscular guys!! Makes me feel small and protected

[Asker]

Thank you! at least there is one person who is being real!

[CanIHabeMemes]

"One person who is being real"
How do you know that the others aren't real tho?

[Asker]

@CanIHabeMemes Some of the others are real, but most of the girls in this comment section are lying to save their own ass

[CanIHabeMemes]

Yeah but how do you know? Maybe they really don't like muscles, what's wrong with that?

[HugToy]

message me and I'll tell you the truth

[Asker]

Why not just comment it here?

[HugToy]

Wanted to chat private but obviously you don't want to do that's fine

[Asker]

Alright I'll message you

[Asker]

Yeah never mind, I've seen the type of shit you post 😂

[HugToy]

I was only going to say that I must be part of the 1% because I love muscle boys, there is a limit for how big I like but I do enjoy a guy with a lot of muscle..
That's all

[Asker]

There we go. I appreciate you telling the truth

[HugToy]

Doesn't mean I wouldn't like your body too

[ampers]

There's only one muscle that counts m8 ;)

[TuMeManques]

Pffft I love muscular guys!

[Asker]

Thank you

[Asker]

For telling the truth

[joshuafreeman707]

Bitter much?

[Asker]

Yeah kind of. I'm tired of girls saying they don't want a muscular guy, but then go and date a muscular guy and it sucks even more for me because it's impossible for me to gain muscle I've been working out for a year and a half and I'm still skinny

[joshuafreeman707]

It's not impossible. Eat more, get enough protein, and do heavy weight training. Shaping one's body isn't impossible for anybody, you just need to do it more intelligently and continue to be diligent.

[Asker]

I eat four full course meals everyday from the cafeteria packed with macronutrients and still can't gain the weight. I've tried every trick in the book the only thing I haven't done are steroids and I'm considering those

[joshuafreeman707]

I mean, you can keep convincing yourself that your body just works differently than every other human body in the world. But it doesn't. Sounds like you have an extremely high metabolic rate, not uncommon for skinny guys, but there's a healthy way to achieve what you want.

[Asker]

I did the healthy way and it isn't working. So that would mean it's unachieveable. I ride a bike to my classes every day, but that's not burning a whole lot of calories and I can't avoid riding my bike to my classes.

[joshuafreeman707]

Biking isn't the way. That is great for burning calories and dropping fat, but will do basically nothing at all for building muscle. You need weight training and protein.

[Asker]

I do weight training and protein, everyday except Sunday, and all the compound excercises too. And I eat enough protein and calories to surpass my needs everyday

[joshuafreeman707]

Good. Now keep at it, keep adding weight, every single day if you can. This isn't some crazy mystery man. Keep lifting and lifting more, keep up the dietary needs, get a decent night's sleep every night, and keep at it. Eventually biology will win out. If not, you're some freak of nature and you need to be locked in a lab and studied for the rest of your life.

[Asker]

That's not true. There are plenty of conditions out there where it makes it impossible for some people to gain weight and I don't know if I have one of those conditions or not. I've been working out for a year and a half and it only toned me out, not made me bulkier.

[joshuafreeman707]

When you say that, I immediately assume that you're not increasing the weight you're lifting frequently enough. See a professional.

[Asker]

I am, but strength does not equal muscle growth. You can be skinny as hell and lift heavy weights. I do it all the time. People look at me weirdly when they see me squatting 225 and I'm only 5'8 and 132 pounds.

[joshuafreeman707]

225 isn't that impressive on squats. Keep at it man. Persistence and determination are key. Temper tantrums about how girls are liars are unattractive no matter the body type.

[Asker]

225 for a guy my size is though. And it doesn't matter if they find that unattractive because I'm already unattractive to them anyways because I'm skinny

[joshuafreeman707]

225 for a guy your size is not impressive.

[Blitzkrieger]

They are lesbians dont worry about it.

[assley]

I like muscular

[Asker]

Thank you

[Asker]

For telling the truth

[Anonymous]

i like muscular ones