What does it mean if a guy puts his head in your lap? And what should I do when he does it?

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There's this guy that I like but I'm not sure if he likes me back. I'm getting a lot of mixed messages, but one thing he'll do sometimes is put his head in my lap.

It's adorable, and I love when he does it, but I'm not gonna lie. I don't want it to be because he sees a motherly side in me or that it's platonic. But I realize that might be a possibility.

Still, what does it mean when a guy does it, and is there anything specific I should do while he does it? Like do I stroke his hair or something? I don't know.

fistofdarwin · Accepted Answer

I doubt it's platonic/motherly. It's an intimate gesture of trust. Yeah, play with his hair, scratch his neck or scalp gently. It's cute and I'd wager he likes you back but is unsure how to express himself.

Anon85 · Accepted Answer

Most guys wouldn't do that with a girl he didn't like, and most guys really want to do that with the the girl they do like. It's like the male equivalent of resting you head on a guy's chest

Kitten967 · Accepted Answer

My guy friend does that sometimes when we are in the car, he'll do it if he's feeling down or tired. I just stroke his hair.

shru111 · Accepted Answer

just go with the flow. u will surely know what he is expecting from you

Bricealan · Answer

Seems obvious to me, but maybe with him it is different. When I was your age, with a 22 year old girlfriend, we were in her car, in her dad's drive on late Sunday afternoon. She was telling me about her 'friend with benefits' that she worked with, and how he would fuck her, for extended periods of time and not ejaculate, and that he had fucked her that past Friday.

That got me hot, and I layed across the seat, putting my head in HER lap, only right away, turning my face to her crotch, and began kissing her crotch through her jean shorts.

After the shorts came off, then her bikini underpants, I then ate her pussy for the first time ever.

Maybe he is hinting at wanting to eat you out?

LickwidSkie · Answer

I think it's safe to assume he likes you. He's probably hoping you'll show a sign of accepting his advance. I saw in another reply you said you were afraid kissing him would be too straight forward, but I think he's waiting for you to do something like that because he's trying to tell you he likes you without risking doing anything he thinks you might find offensive or might make things awkward if you don't accept his advance.

OlderGuy965 · Answer

Stroke his hair. "say" hang on a sec", then take your pants off and let him do it again

Hotchpotchsoup · Answer

Stroke his hair, boop his nose, pat his belly, twist a nipple, wet a finger and shove it in his ear, i meant rear, sing some deathmetal in his face and bite his nose off. In that order.

boobliker · Answer

me I like a nipple put in my mouth, but mostly it is a sign of trust and affection

Christoff92 · Answer

Make him feel more relaxed stroking his hair and massaging slightly his face.

mrperfectbytch · Answer

He might be insinuating I'm giving you head ijs doe...

Crankor · Answer

Yah thats not a motherly affection thing

007kingifrit · Answer

he seeks and finds comfort in you, pet him like a cat

MrKDog · Answer

He likes you, or he is just VERY good friends with you, but I think most men wouldn't try to show their friendship in that way.

Lultoki · Answer

Kiss him next time.

rabbitzzz · Answer

Put boobs on face

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know.

Iron_Man · Answer

He’s comfortable with you pet his head

In_Trance · Answer

It means nothing if that's all that happens

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