How many times have you been "ghosted" by someone?

[PrincessPie]

Has it ever happened by someone you thought cared about you or someone you were close with?

Yes, i have been ghosted before.

No, i've never been ghosted

Yes, but never by anyone that actually mattered

I'm the one who usually ghosts.

[DizzyDesii]

I try not to keep count lol. But there's only 1 whos the most memorable. I was so into him and he seemed so into me. We skyped for like days and stuff and talked about marriage/kids/fam. But he told me his phone would be off because he couldn't afford the bill. Our date was in 2 weeks and i didn't hear back. Finally he texts me 2 months later saying his phone was back on. I was so hurt that i ignored the text and deleted him

[shelbyturtles]

Only once by someone who mattered. She was supposed to be the love of my life. But then she stopped all contact, deleted all social media, and I couldn't find her... Out of nowhere, too. No warning at all. I thought she had actually died at one point. Who knows, maybe she did and I'll never really get closure.

[Anonymous]

Once... he was my best friend... it really really hurts...

[PrincessPie]

how long were you friends with him for, what happened?

[Opinion Owner]

Three or four years... we met at a week long program and were pen pal BFFs for yesrs... then, last year, his emails and texts were fewer and farther between... last year around Easter we admitted we both had crushes on each other... but he just started dating a different girl... he said he’d be a bit distant because he didn’t want to cheat on her and I said by all means... but that I hoped we’d still be friends.. they broke up not long after... and I didn’t hear from him for months... we had one normal text conversation for three hours on Friday the 13th in October... and he hasn’t read many of my messages since... I think two... but he hasn’t read any of my fb “happy holidays” or important messages like when I was suicidal and I was scared (I’m not anymore, thanks to a good counselor)... he hasn’t read any of the messages... so, I’m assuming he is ghosting me...

[PrincessPie]

So he hasn’t deleted you on Facebook just hasn’t read your messages? Sounds like he could come back at some point

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe eventually... but it really hurts...

[just_tired]

Yeah, but they weren't anyone important, didn't really care.

[2opaz]

Me IRL

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[ittybittyninjapanda]

Eh it's usually because I won't give then what they want and more recently an old friend of mine but that's the only one that mattered to me though.

[Cosytoasty]

Nope, never happened. But the time I’ve cared about someone enough to call it ghosting, they wouldn’t do it.

[aa180]

This happens to me with EVERY person I meet online. If I was to put a number on it, I'd say maybe 15 times? Anyways, it happens to me a LOT.

[shephardjhon]

I think I might have ghosted MANY MANY MANY people.
I don't even say hi to people unless they say it first. Social anxiety.

[winterfox10]

I had my therapist ghost on me. It turned out to be one of my funnier stories.

[Coconut_Man]

That has never happened to me. I usually stay friends with people i'm close to.

[weaponsdude]

So, just temporary ghosting? Is that what you mean? Like, you always get back in contact with them?

[Coconut_Man]

@weaponsdude There is no Ghosting. We always stay in contact.

[ghostqueen]

No one ghosts the queen.

[PrincessPie]

can't argue with that!

[drewbaby1616]

People I care about ghost me all the time. Used to it.

[loveyou34]

by two girls in a row. possible 3 fuck my life haha

[TheScream]

I ghost people all the time. But im the one that never actually matters lol

[anmari2001]

Only once I cared enough to notice, it was spooky

[ladsin]

A few times I think. Idr

[Ionlyeatramen]

Probably about 4 times

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, i have been ghosted before.

[xZoeyx]

Don't think I have

[Redstang88]

Only once that I cared about

[Dxk007]

A million times. It didn't work tho

[llorando]

No, I've never been ghosted.

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Let’s just say I can count it on one hand

[clampfan101]

Not as far as I know. lol