Why Am I such a Fucking Failure?

[Anonymous]

I'm intelligent, I know a lot about computers, I have the ability to read minds (not literally just that I can accurately guess what someone thinking by judging their actions), I even became popular at school for some time. Yet I'm lazy, introverted, anti-social, don't have a girlfriend, don't know what I want to become or what I want to do in the future, my family hates me, can't even go a few minutes without using expletives, I find it hard to be a leader or even socialize with people yet this is something I want to do. Why the fuck do I have these skills and suck so much at life and its like no matter how much I try and change it just won't work...

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+1 y

Wow... why was I so hard on myself. I mean im still sad and depressed but I don't look at myself like this no more lol... my vocabulary has declined tho...

[deric_97]

Dude. You don't suck. You just have a suckish environment. I would say you already identify as a strong person and you know your good points so I won't elaborate but lemme tell you, introvert, anti social is okay, because it means you pick friends which is always good. bottom from my heart, you're too young for a girlfriend. Future? Let it decide by itself. Family? Fuck it bro, if you family hates you, build one by yourself with everyone you love in it. Life is about creating legacy and you're too young to decide that you suck at life. You truly suck at life if you're alone, without anyone you love, sucking that dumbass tabacco by the drain because you don't have a house by fucking age of 80. And I'm pretty sure you're younger than that. And you'll leader soon. Because strong people are meant to lead. I know you haven't lead before, but it doesn't matter, because one day, you'll lead your team in your work and your family. These skills will come in handy when you're older. Just chillax and enjoy your youth. Get into college, graduate that piece of shit. Get a job, then get a girlfriend and everything will fall into place. No worries bro. Take your time.

[deric_97]

You'll be a leader soon*.

[Ded_X]

Same here mate, but I went more out of my comfort zone (I mean actually talked to the most popular kid in my grade and became friends with them) if you want to be more noticed or popular study a popular kid, gain their sense of humor and then try to become friends.

[Asker]

The most popular kid in school was my friend. We fought last year, we aren't enemies now but we dont talk. And no, i can't copy that guy...

[froup]

you're not a failure, you have many good points. like not a lot of people are good at reading people or with computers. and your failures aren't really failures.
1) lazy: can be easily fixed, just do some work
2) introvert: not a failure, just a personalty trait
3) anti social: i doubt you're anti social.
4) dont have a gf: tons of people dont. you're life shouldn't depend on the women you bag
5) dont know wht to do with furture: not a lot of people know that, some never find it, and their lives are fine. and you have time to think about it.
6) family: you're families a failure if they dont love you, not you.
7) expletives: everyone curses
8) hard to be leader: just a personality trait, not a failure

[Whatthefluff]

It seems to me that you are anxious and self-conscious. What makes you think your family hates you?
Not having a girlfriend absolutely doesn't mean you are a failure.
You don't suck at all from what I hear. You are an intelligent, intuitive person. Don't let YOU get to you.

[Whatthefluff]

I'm glad your self-esteem is a little better.

[WeeabooTrashu]

Get off your ass and make something of yourself. Workout and focus on school.

[BigRob420]

Read a book on public speaking, get a job, and just walk around and ask women until one says yes. People who swear are generally more honest and women see that so I wouldn't be worried. As for everything else fuck other people's opinions they'll just bring you down.

[Asker]

Lol I was like 14 or so when I posted this so those things were null n void. Things are much different now. But good advice. That's what I would've told myself.

[Asker]

If I were older.

[gerogero]

I think we both have the same issue, i believe it all boils down to a lack of motivation or goals

[rmgnow]

We all suck until we get a little better everyday

[Asker]

I'm not...

[rmgnow]

You think you're not, but you are. Lmao the fact that you know u suck, is probably more advanced than a lot of people

[WhereAmI]

How were you popular?

[Asker]

I didn't really talk much in the subsequent grades so when I started to socialize more and joined more clubs. Everyone (apparently) wanted to know me and before I knew it, literally, the entire school knew who I was. I couldn't hide from anyone anywhere.

[Revolver_]

Because you're a failure

[RoseShannon]

You might be ADD..

[Asker]

Nah. Social Anxiety Disorder. This post is yeeeaaaars old lol. Im more mature and over it now

[D3M1_G0DZ]

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