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White straight republican guys: *are the most privileged people around*
Also white straight republican guys: EvErYoNe FeEl SoRrY fOr Us
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~ Mrs Manson
Speaking from a teenaged girl, probably in the top 3 most privileged groups.
Men are:
More likely to be victims of assault, murder, suicide, homelessness, cancer and workplace fatalities.
More likely to loose their child in a divorce, and get longer prison sentences for the same crime.
Women have menstruation, higher beauty standards, constant bitching from other women, higher likelihood of being raped and a society that judges them for casual sex and sex work more harshly than men.
We aren't oppressed. You aren't oppressed. We both treat each other and ourselves like equal shit.
This isn't about feminists or mras, both of them need to sit the fuck down. Unless you can call yourself an EGALITARIAN and fight for equal rights for both men and women, you are sexist.
Do you have any kind of data to back that up?
Buy and watch "The Red Pill", a documentary about men's rights made by a feminist.
@Cookie8888 That's a good documentary.
It fucking is.
@Cookie8888 karen straughan was actually interviewed in their and she has some great stuff too. Casey Jay actually has posted the parts from the documentary that she had to edit out on YouTube, they are pretty informative.
I've seen it thrice. I know everything
Being a human is hard. Life is hard. We all have our generalised pros and cons along with our individualized ones. Finding ways to make things easier on ourselves without affecting anyone else negatively is a worthy goal.
For the most of the males at GaG, it appears to be excruciating.
Ha ha.
Lol isn’t that the truth!
Men and women both face difficulties, it's not a competition.
I've seen both suffer.
Is hard being a man, when you feel "lonely" being a man.
I think it comes down to how you want to be, and how welcomed or unwecolmed your way of being a man is treated.
They likely have similar problems to us but in different ways
From biological aspect? No.
From social aspect? Yes I think they have it harder then women. They suffer from Ego.
Women have 10x more Ego than Men.
@iamnotkj Yes true. Aren't girls usually the ones who act like guys are the ones who should feel sorry even if it's their fault but continues playing victim? You don't see and face that from guys often.
@Aiko_E_Lara Yes man. You can see this girl comment and can judge this bitch have 10x more ego than any guy
Another fucking misandrist.
I'm not even surprised you have 35% MHO. I bet your little feminist buddies keep you floating.
You disgust me.
@iamnotkj Guys... Don't go to extremes, and don't generalise. Take the moral high ground. She's a jerk, but doing what she does validates her hateful bigotry.
Wtf? Have offended anyone? Maybe you should google about ego before you start trowing hate. Everyone has ego, but in my opinion men have it harder with it. Ego is bad, it dominates us all. And by being so offended by my comment just proves how easily your ego can awake. Women have it as well, but we also have high amount of Emotions (which are as bad as ego) that often subdues their ego. Think what you want, it's just my own opinion that it's harder to deal with ego then to deal with emotions.
And nope you didn't offend me at all. by the way are you offended by what I said? That's the question
"Ego" is not an actual scientific thing. It was a concept put forward by Freud, that was debunked a hundred times. Right now "ego" in psychology and sociology is defined as one's self-image or "self concept". You can't have more or less of that, it's just a figment of who you are. It just means a part of the being that is you.
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For reference, here's what "ego" or "self concept" is, and how if fits into out self.
If you meant to say that men are more egotistical or self-centered, I would urge you look into it, because that's simply not true.
"And by being so offended by my comment just proves how easily your ego can awake."
Wait, so being offended at an accusation of egotism is egotism itself? Well, that's convenient.
It's actually called circular reasoning, by the way, and it's a logical fallacy.
"Women have it as well, but we also have high amount of Emotions (which are as bad as ego) that often subdues their ego."
That's literally the dumbest pseudo-psychological brainfuck I have heard in the past... year or so. Congratulations.
HINT: emotions and egotism are not exclusive, they don't have a lot to do with each other, and in general, emotions most certainly don't make you less egotistical. That's just stupid.
You clearly have very little idea of what you are talking about, so I suggest actually educating yourself, and not subscribing to bullshit pseudo-science, OK? And while we are at it, maybe don't call all men egotistical, because that makes you a misandrist, and we don't like those.
@Benedek38 Men are more egoistical. Period. This society made them be. I'm not talking about being selfish, I'm talking about pure ego. Society made men think that they HAVE to achieve certain things and HAVE to fit in to certain society standards, their ego is so full of these false assumptions created by this imaginary society. Example, your ego won't let you accept being a houseman and taking care of kids while your wife is working hard (I'm not talking about everyone, but in most cases this is true). Your ego also won't let you cry in public. Our lovely society invented these imaginary rules for each gender, which is total bullshit, if we're honest there is no such thing as gender at all! There are physical differences which determine sex of a person, but "gender" is invented by humans, like religion or God. It doesn't exist.
So, from social aspect and who ever invented gender roles and all other crap, I think men got the harder role.
Are you blaming our ego? Sure it's not what society do to us? No body in general gives sympathy for a guy but looks down on us in general. You're assuming it's our ego and that's egotistic. Weren't girls the ones who fought for their rights back then using their ego? You don't have anything to back it up.
At least in modern society. There's pretty much nothing that is "not allowed" for women anymore. While there are a lot of things still considered "not allowed" or "not how a man should be" for men.
You're just being comparative due to your biases. No body exactly knows.
Both guys have girls have advantages and disadvantages, depends on what kind of life we have.
No we certainly don't. It's just in different ways than women that's all. In some ways it's better for you, in some for us.
Here's a woman pretending to be a man to see how easy it is to be a man
https://youtu.be/OQ2fREo3TjcI watched: That's the most interesting things I have seen this whole year. Thanks for posting.
I've seen that vid before but it's be a long time. Didn't watch it all through, but IIRC she got an eye-opener on the real differences between men and women. And I think why the whole trans thing misses that you can't become the other gender simply by changing your physical parts. There's more to it than that. Or as I like to say, 'You can get an add-a-dick-tomy but you'll still never be a man like me.' :)
No really. These days especially in first world the gender gap is fairly small. Men and women are giving the same opportunity to strive for excellence.
I wouldn’t say it’s harder for them or easier. It’s just different.
Sure it is. It's just not really obvious so it's easy to believe that guys have it rainbows and butterflies. The suicide rate of guys is 3 times higher than womens if that doesn't convince you.
Look at all the girls here who are bashing and calling us immature, bitchy and pathetic because we have it "easy". The irony tho. So many bias here. We deal with it while being chill. Is that what they have to deal with every time?
Sure it's hard - much more difficult than any woman. The burden of performance is on the man - if he fails she shuts down sexually, cheats bails or any combination thereof. But yeah, it's WAY more better being a REAL MAN. ;)
I think it’s easier for guys in many areas of life.
Name one.
Casual, everyday sexism. Periods. Boobs & bras. The expense of dealing with these. Having to worry about pregnancy. Even peeing is harder.
I can counteract that. You can control society by playing victim, everyday feminism, sensitive balls (even a small tap hurts like hell) and we have it forever, daily boners that blocks your pee hole and a high risk of kidney stones, getting piss everywhere on the toilet, we sometimes can't pee and poop at the same time. I only mentioned our annoying problems not our depressing ones. There's more where that came from.![Is being a man hard?]()
And that don't just happen in the morning.
Men and women get different things harder and simpler... just need to calmly identify...
@sophiekinns okay. Can you share the last sexist thing to happen to you?
@Aiko_E_Lara Omg bro that pic you posted hahahah
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I’m sure that must be very awkward.
You don’t have to get half undressed, sit down, pee so aimlessly it goes on your crotch and bum, wipe yourself clean, and then get dressed again *every single time*
Sophiekinns Wow so you think a girls life is tough just because peeing is diffcult for you? wtf
No. I was responding to the hilarious pictures above. You I’ve had enough of.
Like that's frickin hard to do. We do that when we poop and have no issues with it except we have our dicks sticking out. How oppressed you are.
We can get piss on the wall too you know
"You don’t have to get half undressed, sit down, pee so aimlessly it goes on your crotch and bum, wipe yourself clean, and then get dressed again *every single time* "
No, but I have to worry about getting a genital infection every time I sit down to take a dump on a public toilet though, because my penis touches the rim of the toilet if I don't pay attention.
Also, let's be fair, if peeing is your biggest issue in life, you might have it way too easy.
I don’t recall saying it’s the biggest issue in my life.
You're just making that a very big issue. And you know what? Men's issues are even bigger our dicks, balls and even our health.
I can also say i think it is easier for girls in many areas of life but nope i don't want to be comparative because this isn't what the question is about.
As one guy in the comment section said. Both women and men have advantages and disadvantages.
Na, we don't, we have to fight and sweat to earn anything, nothing handed to us through affirmative action or shit like that. The majority of homeless people are males
I'm not a man myself but I guess it must be. Especially when you're hard in public :')
Hasn't felt that way to me. Being a Dad though... sheesh...
Not any harder than being a woman, I'd imagine. They both have their problems.
The only real way us men have it easier is that we don't get periods so we don't get that hormonal fluctuation that makes us emotional nor do we deal with the cramping.
Actually we have hmonal fluctuation, the difference is that instead of being monthly is more like 3 in 3 months.
Well, yeah. I get moody sometimes. My man period lasts maybe a day and is once every few months.
It depends on how adaptable are you to a gender..
Every gender has wimps!..
How come Everytime there's a question like this women always try to flip it and make it about them. Yes it very hard to be a man there are a lot of expectations
omg, it's just a question!
@Pink_what_why No mama you don't understand I didn't mean it like that. I was reading some of the comments that girls mad about the question that's why I said there always trying to flip it and make it about them. Just give guys credit for what the do cause it's hard asfuck to be an man. Not saying it's not hard to be a waoman as well but let bothers live... You feel me?
lol, I feel u I didn't know that's what you meant I am sorry for lashing out instead of asking what you meant
It's okay it was cute I just started following you
lol ok and i saw
Is being a man hard? ↗
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIiUqfxFttM
it is men accept a lot from a woman
It's really hard because the evil womens are mean to us and it makes us cry when they hurts our feewings
Fuck no 😂we got it easy we are tough we get to hide our emotions we get to put a baby in a woman the hardest thing we do is build shit women have to deal with pushing a baby out of them plus periods and mood swings
Compared to what? Being a woman? I think it seems a bit harder, yes. I've never been a woman though so I can't be sure.
It really depends on the circumstances. In some cases, it seems like a cakewalk. Other times, it feels like hell.
Does anyone else notice the difference between the more measured and thoughtful people and the others that are a living hyperbole?
You're the only other person i found who doesn't think that we live in some orwellian matriarchy
Do guys have it better?
Maybe in terms of generally existing. Not in terms of anything relationship related.
Hard in what fashion? Socially, education, work, sex? That last one, I'm awfully sure it is harder but that goes without saying.
Too hard to answer that in a few lines. It is hard for many men, but not all.
No harder then being a woman, some things are obviously gender specfic but most things are the same regardless off gender; so no it's not out right hard!
Yes! Man have it hard.
Thank you so much for understanding at least somebody gets it
Thanks for understanding. I don't even know what's up with those dislikes. You're not even being comparative. They need to take a chill pill.
Some guys, not all by the way... lol! People have their own point of view of things in life and they have their reasons, which its their rights... but i know my opinions matters and thats all it counts on my own views nobody else.
You mean lots? If the doesn't convince you the suicide rate of men is three times higher across the world. High death rate too. I know you don't mean all.
@Aiko_E_Lara nope not "lots" i know man extremely well by now, and i am no saying us woman have it easy either, but in general saying most man work hard, they try their best to be fair but also the world has a very judgmental and having us human think know the man are tough and they dont deserve to be treat it with sympathy, which most man deserve to he treated in a way of saying thank for doing your best, rather than me saying i hate that you left your socks laying on the floor for just that day only.. when i have faults too... no one in this world is perfect, we make our way of seeing things differently and thats fine, as long as i know i dont force it on others because of my own way of looking at a situation its cool, i think. My own opinion only. All man are special - even the worse ones bc they are lost in life and need guidance in their lonely life. This is my own opinion, you dont need to agree, i am only human ok. X
Ok i respect that opinion but i'm basing my opinion on statistical facts and news. At least you're not claiming it's a fact because it's based on your experiences. I'm pretty sure there are guys who don't struggle and also there are also girls who don't struggle. Both have the equal amount of difficulty but different.
@Aiko_E_Lara absolutely.
It can be hard, expecting to seem confident and not worried about anything all the time. The need to appear to women in a manner which is confident, but not intimidating.
This is not to say it isn't hard being a woman either.
True for both.. I think for women is how to balance feeling confident in a friendly authentic way.. nowadays any move in interpersonal skills might be misunderstood.
@lifelearner011 "nowadays any move in interpersonal skills might be misunderstood." What exactly do you mean by this?
I'm referring to how being friendly, and polite can come off sometimes as if you are "flirting" with men, in case you are a woman.
@lifelearner011 Yeah that is indeed true, God knows I have made that mistake.
Of thinking a girl who was just trying to be kind was flirting with me I mean.
guys have "what" better? i don't see a thing. yeah ok we don't bleed from holes in our bodys once a month and we don't have to give birth but that's about it.
The grass is never greener on the other side of the fence. We all got our shit to deal with... We are all people just getting by , day to day.
Yeah! Girls might be going through some shit as they have periods and shit but man just doesn't get appreciated, man is a standard which is wrong. Many girls still want the guy to do a lot of things whereas they just provide sex because that's what they think they are for.
But not everyone is the same. Who knows? A girl could be that one person who works hard to make sure the world is becoming a better place. Or it could be guy. Who knows? Nobody's the same. You say that the stereotype of "a man" is ridiculous, and yet, you're doing the exact same thing: putting a stereotype on a gender. Don't talk like you're the righteous one when you're just as much to blame.
Sure there are girls can work as hard as guys but they are not really expected to do it but it's their choice if they want to make money. Unlike guys even though not all guys have the same level of testosterone are still expected to work for the family. Generally speaking.
We can also get force to serve the military if the government tell us to just to get a driver's license and to qualify for federal A. Nobody forces a girl to get a job she doesn't want. "Girls can do it too" yeah everytime i hear makes me think that they never consider themselves that they always have the option to refuse.
@pukyuuu I guess you got the answer @Aiko_E_Lara (if that's your real name, I'll say it's not a good choice to put it on this site). Also, name the girls who actually work hard to make the world a better place? And I am not stereotyping. I have seen this shit happen to me enough times to actually say it. Same way I say most Americans are idiots!
Well there are some i just can't name them because i don't know their names. By the way i am not using my real name. And even if this is my real name, it is really common. This name literally means "dont fool me" in our language
Also, if you are basing it from what you've seen because you just haven't seen them, doesn't make it automatically true that there are no girls work hard. That's being bias
How would I know what being a woman is like. I know I'm glad you all have the drippy, bleeding, cramping, objectification, and yeast infections and we get morning wood.
I've seen this question around pretty often, I always come to the same conclusion, life is hard, no one has it easy
It is much harder for the man than the woman in relationships. Nothing is ever the woman's fault... ever so the pressure always falls back onto the man.
I've never been able to use my genitals to demand free diner and objects, so no.
It can be hard... There's so much expected of men, it's abnormal.
Being a man is no easier than being a woman in my opinion
I think it's equally as hard as being a woman if not more. Male and females have their own problems.
In some aspects yes, in some ways we have it easier.
There's pros and cons to living life as either sex. But on the whole (the hole even) men do have it easier.
Sure it has its pro and cons
But I would rather be a man , I like having it hard to work and and no have things easy.
i mean yea we are expexted to be men and be tough even when its hard too we are human beings just like women are but i mean women have their own struggles as well
Wew thats a hot topic, so many trolls in one place hahaha
Thanks for turning a blind eye to the severe discrimination against men that's rampant in western society today
Yea, its like impossible to impress girls or get a girlfriend when you don't look good and are short
I am used to it since -emm- always. I don't find it hard. I am a natural talent so to say.
Life is how it is. doesn't really make sense to brag about something, I cannot change.
Life in general isn't easy, but each gender has it's easy and hard times.
Haha, loaded question. I think there is more pressure on a man. I don’t think it’s necessarily hard. But it’s as hard as is it to be a woman.
Haven't been a woman can't give you a factual opinion somethings yes we do but other things i think we have it a little harder
Eh I so far haven't had difficulties with basically anything
It's easy as fuck. My favourite part is the fact I have very little emotion and its seen as perfectly ok
You always have to hear how you are the stronger sex, but you are not allowed to use these strengths because that would be unfair towards women.
No Guys barely go through anything and yet they STILL have the nerve to whine like little b**ches. Pathetic.
Aw, how enlightened you are.
So your dad sit at home and your mom pays all your bills? Ok
Really? As if girls don't whine about the privilege, getting destroyed with facts and still getting emotional support. Pathetic. We're not the ones who act feel like you are the one who should be sorry every time. You are so filled with respect in the world that you got so comfortable with it. Men barely got any. Anonymous troll hiding her face of shame.
@iamnotkj yes my real dad was lazy asf while my mother went and paid the bills
Sorry about that, must suck...
I am sorry but that is not is not a real man. My dad works his off!
@Aiki_E_Laura Seems like you have some issues with generalizing women into a category. Sorry to bust your bubble, but you are really portraying the kind of idiocies that I was talking about most males.
@Opinion owner. I agree. Most of the hardships males have to deal with (assuming that they did not get married yet) is just the insecurities in their head, not having their wood hard, and SOME worry about not having a girlfriend.
The males I encountered and just encountered, are seriously pathetic.
@lilacs Yes ikr!
@lilacs 💯exactly
Both males and females have the capacity to be pathetic. Many women I've encountered spit foolishness from their mouths constantly but so do some guys.
@CLoRoX_bLeAcH I am fully aware of that.. but how does that have any correlation to if men have it harder than women?
I have also encountered many bad girls. So it means every girl in the world is a "Slut" Am I right?
Nothing about that as anything too do with having it hard, just a response to you saying the males youve encountered are pathetic. Both genders have their ups and downs.
@lilacs Really? Isn't she the one who called guys pathetic? Seems like she has issues with guys. Don't look at me. I mean why me? Because she's a girl and you agree with her? Talk about being a narcissistic. You only matter not us. The irony.
@lilacs "The male I encountered are seriously pathetic" That's under your circumstances. Basing something because of your experiences makes you bias and that doesn't make it generally true. You're the one who have issues.
@lilacs heh you never said "most" males. There for I didn't say "most" women. Why are you triggered?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TyAJdW4KqJs&t=334s Skip at 5:39 Trigger warning
oh, i've gone through plenty in my life with very few breaks-much fewer now-it's in fact worse.
*5:29
OP, how much of a coward are you to post this anonymously?
If I wouldn’t have said it Anonymously what you was gonna do?🤔nothing. So it doesn’t matter.
AGREED.
You just don't wanna embarrass yourself that's all because I know you're gonna run out of logic soon.