Is shyness a cute or endearing trait in your opinion?

[Hannah_98]

Is shyness a cute or endearing trait in your opinion?

Yes

No

Depends

[tempolocus]

it depends. if they’re deathly shy, like can’t speak to anyone or is just to the point where they’re socially awkward than definitely a turn off. but if they’re just more reserved around other people but can still talk to them than i don’t mind it at all. i am a more quiet person however so i would want someone who’s more confident and socially dominant i guess you could say.

[StingRayxoxo]

No. To me, shyness is a sign of maturity issues. Being introverted (which is totally different) is good and is more intriguing to me.

[JerryPaggart]

A total turn off. Shows not only low self esteem but also desire for faking, hiding, fear ant immaturity. Maybe even moral prudence which I dislike.

[Hannah_98]

How is it faking? Not judging, just curious.

[JerryPaggart]

Being shy means not letting your true self come out. You learn to fake generic, 'harmless' approach to pretty much everything just not to draw any attention on you. You do not express your real opinion, you are yourself only behind closed doors. Isn't this faking?

[Franco_G_]

It can be unless it's excessive shyness then it's annoying.

[CarpetDenim]

Yes, but social confidence is more impressive to me given my socially awkward nature and thus overall more attractive

[aloha96]

Honestly as a shy person, I only start off as shy when I meet someone. I have a past of being sexually abused so I’m a bit cautious when getting to know someone at first. But I’m a very strong person, a sports lover, adventure seeking, instrument player, animal loving person. I don’t let my past of abuse drag me down. I’m cautious at first, but that’s understandable!

[purplepandas09]

Shyness is way cuter than people who are in your face, always have to state their opinion but don’t care about what you have to say, & are just constantly loud & obnoxious.

[airylnovatech]

A bit of shyness is cute and endearing. Being shy to the point of it being a debilitating problem is not.

[BabyBirdy]

It’s cute for about five seconds then it’s annoying

[Lucibat]

Bloody boring. But I believe it's more feminine on women, yes

[J3nny]

Shyness can be unattractive. Never been attracted to a shy guy.

[crazy8000]

Doesn't work that well here. can't get sexual attraction or romantic emotions for passive individuals
that's the most common trait that involves a lot of other behaviors.

[markanthonypeace]

Shyness at the wrong time can be a problem. The rest of the time it is sexy

[robgilmore]

I'm quite a shy person so I guess sometimes I wish I would meet a very confident woman

[lsjr16]

Me too I friend zone a lot

[Stella80]

A little but I like a lover who a little shy but not enough to paralyzes a person.

[Guardian45]

It can be, if it doesn't get in the way of developing a relationship.

[YHL6965]

It depends on the kind of shyness, but i usually like to tease shy girls.

[Secret6620]

I think I can totally be endearing

[Anonymous]

Annoying cus shy girls act scared, and avoid eye contact with me. It's so irritating

[BeMuse]

No, it just makes things difficult.

[boggboss]

It can be but equally a annoying one

[winterfox10]

For me it's actually a complete turn-off.

[brittslitt]

No it's not. Its immature

[brittslitt]

And insecure

[LtJackass]

Only if you're good looking.