What kind of things do girls do, that if done by accident are just funny or embarrassing, but if done on purpose gets them called sluts by many?

[laurieluvsit]

For example, if I were to wear a very thin sheer bra for hot summer weather, that no one could see under my top, but then a boy sprays me with a water hose and now it's like suddenly I am in a wet t-shirt contest because my sheer bra would not even hide me when it's wet. That is embarrassing to me and maybe funny to what ever guys are around to see it, but I would not be called a slut for it.

But if I am in a wet t-shirt contest than many would say I was a slut, right?

So are there other examples like this where the same thing happening in one accidental circumstance is funny or embarrassing but in another more purposeful occasion she is then labeled as a slut?

I don't like that label as it is used by most, by the way, at all, but it is widely used for what I am saying so we will go with it for this example, since in the real world that is what would happen anyway.

I also think that is why it is so embarrassing, because accidents are way too close to giving judgmental people a reason to label, criticize or just make fun of you, am I right?

Here's another example. This video clip is only 1 minute.

A. Yes, it is understandable when it is just an "accident", but totally unaceptable if it is done on purpose!

B. It doesn't really matter because even accidents can get you labeled as a slut if you are a girl, since many people are way to quick to judge

C. Other, see my comments below, or just open the "accidental embarrassment" survey

[markscott]

I once saw a woman wearing a sun dress in the wind. The wind picked it up, and stuck to her, showing her entire panties from the rear. She didn't realize what was happening, and the wind just held the dress up. I didn't say anything, because I thought the wind would lessen and let the dress go back down, but it just stayed there. After an unexpected long while, the wind did lessen, and let the dress down. She never realized it happened. If I had said something, she would have been very embarrassed. As was, she was fine, and went on her merry way.

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, your right, because if she knew it was happening and just left it, that would have been different.

[AnimeMan205]

I voted A... Sure, accidents happen!

[AnimeMan205]

One time, I was "Boogie Boarding" on the waves of the Ocean one day, and a Girl I didn't know was a ways from me, and a Wave hit her, and her Top came off!! Poor thing! She was quick to respond and covered herself up before I saw anything. The point was, she wasn't flashing anyone, it was an accident! Perfectly excusable!

[GraveDoll]

Yes, accidents happen all the time trust me it has to me.

But let look pass the judgment part of strangers etc. and let assume it was just everyday people you see. How can anyone label someone if it not a repetitive cycle? meaning she not coming out every day with her ass out. There should be no labeling for accidents. Just an embarrassing moment at best.

Can really say much to strangers since the first impression does matter and most of were already before they knew you exist in my opinion

[pleasestopthis]

Camel toe, showing TOO much cleavage (when the shirt slips and goes down a bit), falling into a man's lap (this happened to me).

[laurieluvsit]

How do you fall into a mans lap? ... you mean like you trip and fall onto him?

[pleasestopthis]

Yes, like that. One of my friends also fell into a guy's lap when she was riding the bus (some bus drivers drive like maniacs here in Valparaiso).

[laurieluvsit]

Oh my, that must have been a sight to see... and maybe a most pleasant surprise by the recipients... lol

[ItsyBits]

All I can think of is cameltoe lol

[laurieluvsit]

That one is excellent, yes, I actually forgot about that one, thank you! ... lol

[Just_a_human]

That's interesting, I thought camel toes only happened if your pants are too tight

[laurieluvsit]

@Just_a_human Right, but there are ways to prevent it, even with tight pants, like some thicker fabric panties will prevent it, or thin pads.

Mostly yoga pants or legging style will cause cameltoe.

It can be accentuated if you don't want to prevent it by going without panties and wearing a light color, as shadowing will not mask it on light colors as much as it does with darker colors... not that I'm the expert... lol

[Just_a_human]

So... Just don't wear tight pants then right

[laurieluvsit]

@Just_a_human Sure, but that gets us off the initial question that was being replied to :)

[Just_a_human]

Well not really, if the only thing that causes camel toe is tight pants then the solution is to not wear tight pants right?

[laurieluvsit]

@Just_a_human Yes, but the question wasn't about how to prevent cameltoe but thank you for your opinion.

[MrOracle]

People make too big of an issue about this stuff. So you show your titties in a fairly appropriate venue (wet T-shirt contests usually aren't held next to daycare centers or elementary schools)? That doesn't make you a slut in my book.

in my opinion, what is "slutty" is wearing something totally inappropriate for the situation/venue. If you wore a tiny cocktail dress with your tits and ass hanging out to a PTA meeting or a church service or an office job, that would be done on purpose. If you, say, wore a normal button-down shirt and a button popped off and your boobs were a bit visible, that would be an accident and not slutty - even if more of you were technically visible.

Regardless, I never object to seeing young women's boobs. LOL.

[RolandCuthbert]

Young one, I wouldn't worry about it. Especially when talking about the folks here at GaG. Janet Jackson barely flashed a boob during a superbowl performance and the world went nuts. It doesn't matter if it is an accident or on purpose. American society is totally screwy. There is no consistency or reason to what people label. A literal porn star can be an upstanding person. It all depends upon the people who are doing the critiquing. Some folks like me, just don't care enough to comment. Others, it seems, think somehow they represent some moral authority.

We live in strange times.

[Finchie40]

If it happened by accident then she wouldn't be considered a slut , but if she did it on purpose to get attention then that more then likely label her as a slut , so mainly it just comes down to if she is seeking attention and doing it in purpose, or if she is having sex with a bunch of guys and can't stay faithful that usually labels a girl a slut

[FunkyMonkee]

If it happens, it happens! No big deal, everyone knows what's she's got! So her tits fall out! so the wind blows her skirt up and shows off her naked ppuss! The world keeps turning and life goes on. There's been millions, if not trillions of them before and there'll be trillions yet to come! Nothing to get upset about.

[ItalyABC]

Well, it is always incorrect somehow “judge” people. But I remember a lady in her 30s, at the bus stop, who decided to stand exactly in the mid of a sort of metal-grate walking bridge over the bus lanes to wait for her transport, underneath it was full of we students. I mean: if it happens randomly would be even thrilling lol. But done on purpose it’s a bit…ehm…lol

[Jjpayne]

I'd say bending over exposing underwear, or having a wardrobe malfunction. Not intentional but it happens

[vald9inches]

Three depressed Nuns jump off a tall building. One nun hits the asphalt, the 2nd nun narrowly misses the fence and falls on the yard, the 3rd nun falls right on the fence and died with a smile on her face.

[vald9inches]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mQKgWSnYWNE

[Nik1hil]

It is not the kind of things..
But the things done around stupid dumbass.. Cheap shit people... That gets them called the S- word..

Classy people won't use is..

[Glen68]

In my opinion the only thing the makes someone a slut is if they cheat while in a relationship

[Likes2drive]

Things happen, if it’s not their fault then why label them

[Smf1989]

It doesn't really matter because even accidents can get you labeled as a slut if you are a girl, since many people are way to quick to judge

[Smf1989]

and i don't girls on how they dress

[Mikester100]

If your thong is showing, it may have you labeled as a slut.. even if its by accident

[thefutureisfemale]

Exposing themselves, I guess.
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[zozo7880]

fucking an old rich person.

[MarketNews]

This question is embarrassing.

[clampfan101]

They’re called “accidents” for a reason.

[convo_king89]

whale tail