Would you date someone who self harms?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

A person who is self-harming isn't mentally/emotionally in a place where they should be in a relationship with someone else. That's like trying to go skiing with a broken leg - you might really want to go on the ski trip, but you simply aren't in a condition to do so. People who are self-harming need to be in therapy and working on their mental health issues, just as the person with a broken leg needs to go to a hospital, get their leg set and casted (and in some cases, surgery and screws/pins/plates), and probably some physical therapy afterwards to get things working right again.

[Iron_Man]

No I’ve seen some pics on here that are quite disturbing very scary alarming

[menina]

Probably not. I would be friends with them.
I would always feel guilty if I said something that he didn't like or something that is hurtful and then he would self harm because of me.

[little_rose]

Done that before, got him to stop self harming and we're now friends

I wouldn't recommend doing that tho. It's unnecessary complications

[Adam1978]

No I don't date mentally disturbed people.

[iseekpinetrees]

No I would not.

[In_Trance]

never