Man in his 40s asked me out (I’m 20)?

[Anonymous]

At my university, there is a guy who is in my course who’s culture I’m very interested in and I can speak his language, even though I’m not from there, and he is very flattered about this. I like him too, he’s very sociable, with everyone. He has asked me if I want to go out for a drink/ meal and I said yes, but I’m not sure if it’s abit odd. I think he means as friends. I really enjoy his company, but I’m not sure if it’s abit odd a man in his 40s asking out a 20 year old girl? I’m not sure whether I should cancel it or not

[ohshee]

I look at life as an experience no matter what we do no matter what we say it is an experience for us to learn. If you enjoy his company and your chat then why not experience it. I am older than 40 and I have guys that I work with in their twenties better married and their wives are always trying to hook me up with somebody, in that same age range and most of the time I say no thank you but they insist and I say why not if a girl wants to go out why not. I have met some of the smartest the wisest girls in that age range that just totally blow me away but how smart they really are. And just because we've gone out on dates doesn't mean that we have to become lovers they Heavenly this way to three or four girls and two of them I'm still very good friends with just because we like doing the same things. If you think you could enjoy it and have fun do it

[Soremain]

Sounds like you're connecting and he wants to take you on a date. Yeah sure 20 ja 40 is a bit unusual but so what? The thing is, age only seems like a big deal when you're young. He probably doesn't even think about it as much as you do. He probably sees you as an equal adult and doesn't find it as weird as you do.

[Flower7]

The age isn't an issue at all. It only matters how you feel about him and how attracted to him you are. Don't worry so much about the number. This age difference isn't too big.

[NathanDavis]

just enjoy the moment and his company, have a good time... don't do anything you're not comfortable and it should be fine, don't rush ahead to jump into conclusions, step by step and see how it goes...

[Eihcir]

Sometimes, but then again you don’t know what someone in his culture is like. More than once I’ve been surprised by people of different cultures and how they look at life and relationships. What would pass for strange, might be OK in other cultures. And because he is from another culture, it might not be what the person has intended. The only way to find out is by asking questions and that can’t hurt.

[thedude9393]

Just clarify with him and be honest, will hurt him less then if confusion is kept

[exitseven]

I bet he has other things on his mind besides being a freind.

[HighValue]

It's fine. Ask him what his intentions are with you so you will know for sure too.

[Luckycharms12]

He wants sex that's it

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You're at the age of consent so it's your decision

[In_Trance]

Guys never want to be friends. Ever

[Jmmmfi4]

I don't see a problem

[Grubhub]

Because you’re old, no wonder

[Jmmmfi4]

@Grubhub whats your point?

[Grubhub]

You’re an old bastard

[Jmmmfi4]

@Grubhub lyoure 31

[Grubhub]

You’re 9 years older grandpa

[Grubhub]

And I’m not 31 I’m 30. Maybe my birthdate is wrong

[Jmmmfi4]

@Grubhub well id rather eat pussy then be one... now fuck off

[Grubhub]

Na if you saw me you wouldn’t be able to look me in the eye like a real pussy. 💯

[EaterPeter]

Clarify or cancel.