What bad habits or hobbies affected your life? How did they affect?

[talka20]

Pls be a bit detailed

[muscularbumblebee]

Probably two most noticeable things I can thing of, one was my ED and starving my self and over excersise Ming just to compensate for the lack of control on my life and worries etc


Seccond one was probably drinking underage and getting into a bad habit and hanging around the wrong people in general. It’s all fun and games when you have a bit too much or drink at a party and get a little drunk, but completely different when once in a while turns into multiple weekdays either alone or with a friend or two just because ‘you felt like it’ then not being able to get up for school later because I feel so sh*t and depressed in general but that was a bad time in my life following my ED and food restricting


As for the actual food restricting I couldn’t control that I had it since I Was 13 -17 or so. Won’t go into too much detail as to not trigger anyone else on here but I hate how I couldn’t control it and partly led to the binge drinking later on


Now I do neither of these things and I’m in a much better place

[talka20]

I've heard many stories bout how alchohol start ruining things... either long term stories or just little ones... and yea u lowkey become whom u be around with... but tbh it does sound like uve come outta very wrong stuff to better living n quittinh such thing takes a lot i appreciate u for that ❤👏🏽

[muscularbumblebee]

Thanks appreciate it, I rarely drink now maybe a glass or two of wine a year that’s it ☺️🙌🏼

[muscularbumblebee]

But that’s true for sure. Seen it firsthand from family being addicted etc. Just moderation

[DizzyDesii]

I watched a lot of soft porn at 13. I didn't really see anyones privates so its not like it taught me much about sex. But it did cause me to lose sleep that was needed for school. At 15, i had a bad habit of biting. I used to leap on people and bite their neck. My grandpa once through me across the room to detach me. I sent my friend to the hospital when i told him i wanted to whisper in his ear but bit it instead. At 17, I had a bad habit of picking at my eyebrow when nervous. I ended up with only one eyebrow for a year. I started masturbating a month or two before turning 21. I went nonstop for almost 3 months no matter where i was but hid it well from others. I quit after that and would only do it like one week or month a year. For a month or two in 2016 and 2019 i had a bad on/off again habit of having phone sex with randoms. It was part of a make em cum fetish in which i’d say anything to get the job done. I've strayed away from that

[talka20]

Brooo u on some vampire shit ! I never heard a kid is biting people hahahhh at least to me its strange... also eyebrow one i never heard someone picking their eyebrow for being nervous... did it grow back after year by itself of u had to do something for it?

Oh this fap addiction is bad bad n yk you're lucky enough to get outta it in few months 👏🏽👏🏽 great work id say ! Also glad u are not doin anything w strangers anymore... at certain age it start feeling stupid too i guess... at least i did feel so

[DizzyDesii]

Even worse is that i was biting as a teen more so than i did as a kid 🤣 And yes the eyebrow grew back

[talka20]

Bruh.-. Now i dont wonder why u said bout that bite me label 😂 u gotta thing for biting

[DizzyDesii]

Used to lol

[Lionman95]

I watched until some years ago and it completely destroyed my self confidence and my ability to connect with people on a deeper emotional level.
I had issues concerning my private parts and it got a lot worse by that.
I'm not sure if I'm ready to have a relationship because as long as I can't find a woman that's also kind of a sexual concerning intercourse/coitus I'll always fear she's going to cheat on me or leave for someone better.

[talka20]

Oh man thats not kinda normal... did u do something bout it? Any solution or something?

[Lionman95]

No I didn´t pay money. I´ve gone to some kind of therapy after that and I use a porn blocker in all my browsers. At the moment I´m quite happy with my life and I getting better of that. I don´t have suidicial thoughts or anything like that.
I´m just born with a genetical dysfunction so I´m infertile from birth and I have small genitals.
I had to learn the hard way that porn is just artificial and not the real deal.
I´ve never been in a relationships but I have a functional social life, so I´m no where being miserable or something else it just never worked out for me.

[talka20]

I see... goodluck with everything bro👍🏽

[Bricealan]

Well, I'm a second story man, and I have the need to get on Bank roofs and drill through and break into their vault at night! Dangerous habit, I know, but the thrills are great, and the money is good!

[talka20]

So u decided not to quit or uve quit it?

[Bricealan]

I was just being a smart ass. Guess I have seen too many movies. The Thomas Crown Affair was an example of what risk takers do.

[skyeee_]

1. procrastination
2. using too much screen time

the 2nd is pretty much destroying my life, but atm i can't do much about it. my 5 hours go on online classes, 2 hours on hw/studying for an exam (all material is in google classroom) with barely an hour for chilling. ill be working on this when summer vacation kicks in

[talka20]

Ydk how much i can relate to botha these ! Dang !

[skyeee_]

aw man-

[Anonymous]

Porn, cigarettes, weed and alcohol, not a pack a day type of guy I smoke usually 2-3 cigs. I do smoke weed most days and I don't drink often but when I do I go wild. Porn has totally distorted my perception of sex and relationships and it doesn't help that I am a loner.

[talka20]

Outta all these id say porn n alchohol are worst ! Tho they both seem more fun and that most people do or talk bout

[Opinion Owner]

I agree porn isn't fun tho, I only drink socially so I won't call it an addiction even tho I do more than I used too.

[talka20]

I see ight ight

[exitseven]

I have no bad habits I'm as pure as the driven snow.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/_r6v-D-MflQ

[NathanDavis]

I liked Coca Cola too much in my earlier 20's... that was probably my worst habit, sure thing... lol

[talka20]

Yea many of kids take it too much n some even in empty stomach 🤦🏽‍♂️ it does worst ngl !

[lovedejj_xo]

Hooking up to feel better about myself and controlling my weight by not eating thinking everything is fine after being SA but I went through therapy.

[talka20]

Yes hooking up feels good at first and after certain time yk you are not increasing but decreasing your value and the attention n u get is not the good one but from wrong people... did u successfully quit that?

[lovedejj_xo]

I’ve worked on it and I’m fine now. Im content with my sex life now and I’m within the lifestyle but I have a healthy outlook on it.

[talka20]

I see i see

[Anonymous]

Fast food causes depresssion. And I ate a lot of it and never understood why felt like shit.

Mentally.

[talka20]

Fast food causes depression really? Never came accross anything like that

[kinggeorge007]

Procrastination, and it's a real deal

[talka20]

I got this too... it is worst yourr right !! 💯

[supcurA]

masterbation killed my productive time

[talka20]

Mastrubating ruins most people time and also if too much then start ruining private parts... some people are not able to quit even after they are married... n bec of so much porn they get attracted n satisfied w that than their spouse... im workin on quitting it too

[Kkoalalita]

Wanting to get drunk or High

[talka20]

Pls be detailed if u can

[captain_voidwalker]

In what way is hunting a bad habit or hobbie.

[talka20]

Hunting just to kill for fun or showing off is bad hobby !

[captain_voidwalker]

Depends what your hunting. For instance hogs are an invasive species so killing them is a good thing.

[flirtatiousgirl]

I have bad habits

[talka20]

Be detailed pls if u can