What hurts more to you, having your heart broken, your body broken, or your trust broken?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

[ohshee]

This is a good question because there's two different types of broken heart
And of course your trust it's gone but of course it's been gone for a while probably because you already knew something was going to go on little Boosie Broken Heart when you break up with somebody the pain he received in society that you have and anger and hurt in time it'll go away most of us have been through this before so we kind of know what to expect
But then you have the thing I call Energy the real you when that energy has its heart broken and you can't eat you can't sleep you can't function and it goes on forever and you're thinking yourself what is going on I can get over this I should have been over this but the real you we're all made of water in atoms. atoms Brokedown equals energy the whole planet is energy we are made of neutrons electrons we are all energy the wind energy has its heart broken you know it cuz you're not going to get out of it for a while until you understand what's going on it changes everything inside you and that pain is deep I don't think I'll ever go there again because I know the warning signs I know all that that that takes a toll on you

[NathanDavis]

to be honest... what would hurt me the most is that I would have to, very possibly quit and give up on whoever did this to me... and that I will not be able to have them in my life anymore, or things are just not going to be the same

it could be as if they just died...

[DizzyDesii]

Damn you’re a different kinda good man. You truly have a good heart.

[NathanDavis]

@DizzyDesii the least I can do is to try and be...

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Trust.

That one doesn't heal well for me. It takes a lot for me to trust someone, and after they reach that furthest in level of trust, it's hard to recover if they violate that.

Heart will heal, but fuuuuck it sucks. I've gone through two major relationship breakups, but I feel confident in my ability to recover. My childhood was hard, so I've dealt with this kind of pain enough to understand how to process and move past.

Body, lol. I've been injured sooooo many times. I do a lot of risky physical sports, and injured myself a lot growing up. I've gotten better at recognizing my limits as I've aged. I hope to still be doing all the physical things late into life.

[PrettyPriya]

My heart. If my SO did that, it would likely involve breaking my trust as well. Those often are hand in hand. I trust him with my life. I trust him to be there, to treat me well, to protect me.

Any betrayal of those trusts or others would break my heart. Wounds heal. A broken heart sometimes never done. I would expect him to feel no different if I did it to him.

Luckily, we are rock solid and I cannot ever see that happening. However, nothing in life is certain. The best we can do is stay the course and love and respect each other for who we are.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

That's the best way to approach it. Being concerned of what might be will keep you from enjoying what is.

[PrettyPriya]

Glad to have you back. 😊

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Glad to be back and thank you

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you so much for the MHO.

[HighlyVolatile]

I think the body in my case but it can depend on the severity. I can use analogies like amputated bits vs. broken bones. vs. deep cuts vs. bruises.

The worst kind of broken heart I've ever endured (breaking up a week before marriage in my 20s) was something I'd relate to as a very bad bone fracture in a commonly-used area like a bad ulna or radius fracture. It took over half a year to heal and some rehabilitation long after.

Yet I wouldn't compare it even to my big toe being amputated in an injury that never really heals in the sense of the toe growing back. That still annoys me on a daily basis. I especially wouldn't compare it to a limb being severed off even though I've yet to experience it.

Broken trust is something I can recover from especially easily since I'm not a superstitious type of person. I don't see anyone else as untrustworthy just because a certain person broke my trust. I continue to trust everyone else and don't mind taking that risk of being betrayed again.

[ChrisMaster69]

Don’t mind my body

heart breaking usually results in some crazy stuff, the pain of which is usually felt in both my body and my mind.

trust.. it hurts but not as bad as my heart

I have a very high pain threshold, when my heart has been broken, I’ve pushed through that pain threshold lol

[CrazyGirl2]

Oh wow, another fantastic “toughie” from the Notorious EBZ
i think its tough to answer because having ones trust broken can be equally painful to having one’s heart broken… Physical injuries, like broken bones will always heal w/in 4 to 6 wks, so I would say that they are the easiest and quickest to heal. Certainly the most reliable in their healing ❤️‍🩹

[Telekinetic-Potato]

My heart, Im used to having my trust broken so I never really go into anything expecting it not to be broken.

To me, controlling physical pain is all about how much control you have over your own mind.

The heart is similar but what sucks is that you don't have much control over who you love or what they do to hurt you.

And that pain is the kind I think hurts the most and takes the longest to heal.

[KAT247]

Trust. Heart can heal with time, body can heal and can leave a scar to remind you of what you’ve been through and can motivate you, but trust is the hardest issue to overcome. It may never heal unlike the other two. Once it’s lost, it can open up the door to other issues such as depression, lack of the desire to form new relationships, and sometimes a lack of confidence.

[dorksided1]

good question, hmmm the body does heal, the heart over time as well, but trust is something sometimes you can never get back, for me personally- trust

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Great answer. Same reasoning for me on trust.

[dorksided1]

when someone burns you that you trust. its such a betrayal on so many levels. im going through it now with a person i thought was my friend over something so dumb and in the end she was wrong. im trying to find a lesson in it but its for the best but makes that wall go so high, it creeps into every type of relationship, that lack of trust with others.

[Kristog]

I would have to say Trust as that also relates to heart too, In a relationship to have heart broken the trust also has to been broken... But with trust this can aso relate to friends, collegues etc...

Id rather have my bones broke than my trust...

[Luopio27]

They are completely different categories, so I will choose the one that spares me from physical pain. I have already lost my trust in my governmental fools, and had my heart broken by a trillion pretty cuty girls. Im getting old and with age goes memory, so can't be sure was it exactly a trillion girls or was it less. :)

[God_of_Thunder]

Trust

The others can & will heal, but broken trust will not.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I sort of regret not doing a poll because I feel this may be the one that would have ended up winning.

[God_of_Thunder]

I don't really know. Part of me thinks that more women would say "trust" and more men would say "heart".

I have nothing to support that, though. Just a feeling.

[VanillaSalt]

Wouldn’t know I don’t have feelings ima man ;p

trust bring me anger… feelings brings me pain… body is already broken and I overcome physical pain quickly so def feelings.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Body. Lol. God damn it.. it's the worse pain one will ever experience depending to where they break. Unless they have non functioning receptors in theor nerves. 💁‍♀️

[LovingLoverReturned]

My heart was broken as a kid (maybe I was 17) with my first boyfriend.. and I had trouble eating.. not much appetite. .. but life was still bearable... I could still interact and play with a sweet dog

But to have a broken body part, every second is affected... every movement could trigger...

[LovingLoverReturned]

I imagine not many commenter have had a broken body part.

[cth96190]

A broken heart hurt me more than anything else on the list. Add being stabbed and shot to the list.
It was a broken heart that had me alone at night, in a darkened room, reciting Macbeth (act 5, scene 5) to my favourite pistol.

[Bluemax]

Emotional pain is a *FAR* greater predictor of suicide than physical. I'm going to have to say broken heart and broken trust are tied, with broken body a distant second.

[Bricealan]

Well, Breezy, all three hurt. Body breaks heal, a broken heart 'heals' after a long period, but losing Trust in someone never comes back, at least for me that is.

[exitseven]

I would say having my body broken. I have dealt with heartbreak and being betrayed but getting all busted up seems worse.

[DaveToo]

I've had all three. Physical pain is one thing that can be treated up to a certain level. Heartache hurts at first but just like any other loss, we tend to heal with time. Break my trust in you and you'll never gain my trust again.

[Creampiekarl420]

Body 💯 and anyone who says otherwise has never fractured their skull and broke 5 ribs on concrete or been shot or stabbed before

[Ez-Bri-Z]

My little brother might disagree. He has brittle bone disease and has broken just about everything multiple times including his orbital bone, toes, fingers, femur, shin, collarbone, ribs, etc. Sometimes he doesn't even notice anymore.

[Creampiekarl420]

Well the rest of us that don’t have a calcium deficiency it still hurts but I take what I said back because even though bones break and skin can be punctured and sliced you can put a bandage over it there is medication for it can put a bandage over emotional pain

[Creampiekarl420]

can't

[RSav4013]

Probably trust, especially if it is someone that you have absolute faith in. A break in trust can be devastating.

[DonkeyDan]

Definitely having my heart broken, it literally nearly broke all of me completely.

[Apulu_Imback]

Heart pain. Sometimes it hurts so much that it feels like someone is stabbing my heart physically. It also takes the most time to recover.