Between your trust or your heart, which is the hardest for a person to come back from if they break it?

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NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

Hmmm... not sure how to answer this one, when I don't really feel like I've experienced either.

Guess I could make it simple and about work, if trust is broken I simply cannot work with them again, trust is key where I work.

And I won't just trust my heart to anybody, I'm very selective about that yet... people can make mistakes and I think I can forgive faults and forget about resentment, but how much of that I could take? how bad would it have to be or not to be, for me to able to get back with someone, I really don't know and I don't want to know.. lol (knocking on wood)

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Accepted Answer

Breaking my Heart. When my very first girlfriend broke up with me
I went to pieces that day and I can remember where I was at the
Partial Program and I ended asking this girl who drove if she could
take me up to up to her house cause I was getting back the engagement
ring I gave her and my class ring I gave her to wear and I got my things
back but it was hard to have my Heart broke

Bella9191 · Accepted Answer

Probably trust is harder to come back for, for me.
heartbreak happens all the time. You date a lot, you socialise a lot - have a lot of friends, shitty family members, to me the heart can be disappointed and feel broken a lot when you engage with a lot of people. So I can move past heartbreak.
trust is hard to move past as you constantly can’t relax and get anxiety if they are telling truth or not.

DarkCarousel · Accepted Answer

Trust can be rebuilt, over time or through repeated course of action. I think there will exist a small hesitation or second guessing for a period of time, depending on the person and what broke their trust.

Heartbreak would be harder for me to recover from. The heart doesn't rationalize, it just feels.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

If we chose to fall in love, we will have heartaches and heart breaks. it’s not healthy to stay at heart break for a long period of time. But learn from, rebuild trust, rebuild the self, then move forward try again.
when we don’t learn from our mistakes, we repeat.

Interstate · Answer

Once the heart & trust has been broken, the consistent thought of, "will they do this again?" SETS in the mind and HARDENS. BUT, it also depends on what they did to break them. Sometimes it is simple disappointment, and other times its finding them in bed with another.

Joey_007 · Answer

This is a tough one because if anyone breaks any of these we'll never be on the same standing ever again but I'll just say heart since if my trust is broken it will never be restored but we can still hang but as for my heart it will be restored eventually but we can't ever hang.

MTC29 · Answer

Heart. Breaking trust makes someone angry, while a broken heart it far more painful.

I'm the nut who proposed twice to the same women (five years apart), and got turned down both times. It would have been so much easier if I could just get angry with her, but she didn't do anything "wrong." She just broke my heart-twice.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Trust.

No matter how many times I get treated badly by someone, I don't change, and it won't ruin me for the next person.

I push a mental reset per individual I interact with, but broken trust teaches you to ask for verification, even for love. Once proven though I'm good.

Anonymous · Answer

Trust for sure, if someone breaks my trust more than once I know for a fact I can't trust that person. I never had a heartbreak though, so I never knew what that felt like exactly, but I've had my trust broken multiple times by multiple people and it sucks because I know I could never trust them again.

TheorionMage · Answer

For me, they're much one and the same...

HEARING "I'm sorry, I don't find myself drawn to you" ... psychologically hurts but is honest.
HEARING FROM OTHERS "that your Beloved is CHEATING on You.
Thinks SO little of You, ... playing You for the Fool 'Sugar Daddy'
is irreversibly unrecoverable from.

There ARE places even in today's world where such social contract disrespect
is 'controlled' by D/s punitive PHYSICAL bondage or even beatings.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

If someone breaks my heart, that may be my fault.
If someone breaks my trust, that's pretty much their fault. That's going to take longer to come back from.

All generalities of course, depending on so many circumstances.

EaterPeter · Answer

Trust, broken trust leads to broken heart. Once heart is broken we can find people we like and love. Once trust is broken those after shocks can last for ever. Even though you are not with same person any more. New person can not make you feel trustable. That's when self eval or pro self eval can be very helpful. Taking time to heal and take proper steps to heal.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

For me it's trust. I can come back from a broken heart with time, but I take YEARS to learn to trust someone. It that trust is broken, it's gone. Doesn't matter what you do or how much I want to trust you again, I just can't

IveGotNoName · Answer

They sort of go hand in hand one of the ways... you can't break my heart without breaking my trust... you can though break my trust without breaking my heart... so I'd say definitely my heart is worse... because it comes with both in a way

Alyssa11 · Answer

Trust. Don't lie to me because I never take that shit lightly. I'm not a fool. Break my heart and be honest about it, I'm open minded and empathetic and I might understand.

ZackBan · Answer

I rarely trust anyone the people I can have watching my back are a very short list. I am social and meet tons of people but I never have expectations from them.

HawkPerception · Answer

Trust is much harder to get back. Heartbreak can just mean someone left you when they did nothing wrong to you other than leave. Trust means they betrayed you.

lakotabebebe · Answer

Trust all the way. If you break my heart, there's still a chance of healing. However, once someone shows me that I can't trust them, I will NEVER trust them again.

alance99 · Answer

I would say trust, once broken no what they do to gain it back i will always have my qualms. Nice dp by the way, is it northern lights

The_Maphio · Answer

Trust. It's like a delicate crystal item. You break it, it becomes nothing but worthless glass that can't be put back together.

libsaretards · Answer

Breaking my trust is worse than breaking my heart. Life is going to be disappointing so dealing with a broken heart is normal. However, once my trust is violated, it's gone.

sensogal · Answer

My trust is way harder to win again almost impossible once lost A broken heart is more emotional and irrational and could be won again

oldasIfeel22 · Answer

There is an old saying that you might forget what people said or done but you will never forget how they made you feel. This goes for both genders.

thimmslicc · Answer

Break my heart but I won't trust you ever again.  Break my trust, but I still got love for you, from a distance.

Gray-Wisp · Answer

If someon gives someone their heard they probably trust them to not break it. It is essentially the same thing for me.

Djaay · Answer

Broken heart ; Is when you invest into the expectations of yourself towards another and they intrinsically don't par up to your own expectations after awhile or betray your expected margins of relations with that person. But you yourself , puts yourself in that position.

crazy8000 · Answer

Depends how your mind works. (emotions live in a timeless environment and must be influenced to change state. it can kill a person if it's not dealt with)

FlowerSeed · Answer

For me was both. Once you break my heart you break my trust.

exitseven · Answer

Trust, once it is gone, it is hard to ever restore it. Maybe it will never be the same.

magiusX26 · Answer

for the most part the 2 are really one meaning i mostly trust with my heart so breaking one breaks both.

Andres77 · Answer

Heart... Trust can be an error in judgement and can be atoned. Heart... it was deliberate and I'm not going to trust them again.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Trust. When I learn that you're trouble, unreliable, or manipulative, then there's no going back. People choose to be those things

Shihab91 · Answer

Trust , because heart can heal by the time and good times we will have after that, but trust is harder, i would always think that its happening again behind my back.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

The two typically go hand in hand. But for me its my heart as long as they didn't break my trust in the process.

red324 · Answer

Probably the heart. I know by now you can't trust anyone it seems. Everyone lies... Or i'd say 90 percent of people lie.

Anonymous · Answer

for me trust. i still don't trust the person i'm with and part of me keeps wondering when they'll cheat again so my guard is still up. This person broke my trust so much I.. it's hard to fully trust this person again

legalboxers · Answer

I dont trust my heart or my mind. People aren't nice.

Dude_777 · Answer

Trust mainly, but heart too. Both shatters and are irrecoverable.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Trust, my heart doesn't apply to business matters and let be frank it's a wreck

DaveToo · Answer

I can get over a broken heart if it's from dating. I NEVER get over the broken trust.

rievious · Answer

My trust. I don't have the words to explain properly.

genericname85 · Answer

the heart obviously. cause the heart does not follow rationale, reason or logic. trust does.

p0l3sm0k3r · Answer

I think they are dependent on one another, if you try and break either one you will be also breaking the other one too. So no they are not coming back into my life again.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s hard to say. Logically I want to say trust. But I tend to always be in denial and forgive them and sweep the issue under the carpet.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Same here. I never give them any chances if they break my heart.

Philyouup · Answer

broken hearts are hard to heal, and when you think it’s healed, it’s just deceiving you.

Coolkat12345 · Answer

Heart I have had it broken several times by the same person but also have had the person make it better too so it’s a frustrating situation.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

It's harder for someone to earn my trust back then to come back from a broken heart. Depending on the situation it's one in the same.

es20490446e · Answer

I'm happy to have a high self esteem, otherwise by breaking my heart I could be truly devastated. But in my situation I just interpret that the other person is a dub-ass.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Surprisingly I think it's trust but they usually go together.

OnTheLevel · Answer

My trust by far. My heart eventually heals, but break my trust and you are dead to me.

Skyros · Answer

My heart has healed more than once, but my trust in people has never mended. I wish it would.

loves2learn · Answer

Broken heart is harder. Trust can be earned back.

Waldoe · Answer

Trust, great question

Agape93 · Answer

My trust. Break it and they’re done.

Narcotics · Answer

I don't have a heart and i never trust, and the only hardest thing is my dick.

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

Both are hard but not impossible

girlzruleboyzdrool · Answer

Depends... if heartbreaking is from broken trust.

Ninjazzed · Answer

They go hand in hand.

clampfan101 · Answer

Trust is part of my heart.

loveslongnails · Answer

It's one and the same.

Nikolai2004 · Answer

TRUST,  I never forgive anyone.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Trust. I don’t forgive broken trust.

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