Hmmm... not sure how to answer this one, when I don't really feel like I've experienced either.
Guess I could make it simple and about work, if trust is broken I simply cannot work with them again, trust is key where I work.
And I won't just trust my heart to anybody, I'm very selective about that yet... people can make mistakes and I think I can forgive faults and forget about resentment, but how much of that I could take? how bad would it have to be or not to be, for me to able to get back with someone, I really don't know and I don't want to know.. lol (knocking on wood)
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Breaking my Heart. When my very first girlfriend broke up with me
I went to pieces that day and I can remember where I was at the
Partial Program and I ended asking this girl who drove if she could
take me up to up to her house cause I was getting back the engagement
ring I gave her and my class ring I gave her to wear and I got my things
back but it was hard to have my Heart broke
Probably trust is harder to come back for, for me.
heartbreak happens all the time. You date a lot, you socialise a lot - have a lot of friends, shitty family members, to me the heart can be disappointed and feel broken a lot when you engage with a lot of people. So I can move past heartbreak.
trust is hard to move past as you constantly can’t relax and get anxiety if they are telling truth or not.
Trust can be rebuilt, over time or through repeated course of action. I think there will exist a small hesitation or second guessing for a period of time, depending on the person and what broke their trust.
Heartbreak would be harder for me to recover from. The heart doesn't rationalize, it just feels.
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If we chose to fall in love, we will have heartaches and heart breaks. it’s not healthy to stay at heart break for a long period of time. But learn from, rebuild trust, rebuild the self, then move forward try again.
when we don’t learn from our mistakes, we repeat.Once the heart & trust has been broken, the consistent thought of, "will they do this again?" SETS in the mind and HARDENS. BUT, it also depends on what they did to break them. Sometimes it is simple disappointment, and other times its finding them in bed with another.
This is a tough one because if anyone breaks any of these we'll never be on the same standing ever again but I'll just say heart since if my trust is broken it will never be restored but we can still hang but as for my heart it will be restored eventually but we can't ever hang.
Heart. Breaking trust makes someone angry, while a broken heart it far more painful.
I'm the nut who proposed twice to the same women (five years apart), and got turned down both times. It would have been so much easier if I could just get angry with her, but she didn't do anything "wrong." She just broke my heart-twice.Trust.
No matter how many times I get treated badly by someone, I don't change, and it won't ruin me for the next person.
I push a mental reset per individual I interact with, but broken trust teaches you to ask for verification, even for love. Once proven though I'm good.Trust for sure, if someone breaks my trust more than once I know for a fact I can't trust that person. I never had a heartbreak though, so I never knew what that felt like exactly, but I've had my trust broken multiple times by multiple people and it sucks because I know I could never trust them again.
For me, they're much one and the same...
HEARING "I'm sorry, I don't find myself drawn to you" ... psychologically hurts but is honest.
HEARING FROM OTHERS "that your Beloved is CHEATING on You.
Thinks SO little of You, ... playing You for the Fool 'Sugar Daddy'
is irreversibly unrecoverable from.
There ARE places even in today's world where such social contract disrespect
is 'controlled' by D/s punitive PHYSICAL bondage or even beatings.If someone breaks my heart, that may be my fault.
If someone breaks my trust, that's pretty much their fault. That's going to take longer to come back from.
All generalities of course, depending on so many circumstances.Trust, broken trust leads to broken heart. Once heart is broken we can find people we like and love. Once trust is broken those after shocks can last for ever. Even though you are not with same person any more. New person can not make you feel trustable. That's when self eval or pro self eval can be very helpful. Taking time to heal and take proper steps to heal.
For me it's trust. I can come back from a broken heart with time, but I take YEARS to learn to trust someone. It that trust is broken, it's gone. Doesn't matter what you do or how much I want to trust you again, I just can't
They sort of go hand in hand one of the ways... you can't break my heart without breaking my trust... you can though break my trust without breaking my heart... so I'd say definitely my heart is worse... because it comes with both in a way
Trust. Don't lie to me because I never take that shit lightly. I'm not a fool. Break my heart and be honest about it, I'm open minded and empathetic and I might understand.
I rarely trust anyone the people I can have watching my back are a very short list.
I am social and meet tons of people but I never have expectations from them.Trust all the way. If you break my heart, there's still a chance of healing. However, once someone shows me that I can't trust them, I will NEVER trust them again.
I would say trust, once broken no what they do to gain it back i will always have my qualms.
Nice dp by the way, is it northern lightsTrust. It's like a delicate crystal item. You break it, it becomes nothing but worthless glass that can't be put back together.
Trust is much harder to get back. Heartbreak can just mean someone left you when they did nothing wrong to you other than leave. Trust means they betrayed you.
Breaking my trust is worse than breaking my heart. Life is going to be disappointing so dealing with a broken heart is normal. However, once my trust is violated, it's gone.
My trust is way harder to win again almost impossible once lost
A broken heart is more emotional and irrational and could be won againThere is an old saying that you might forget what people said or done but you will never forget how they made you feel. This goes for both genders.
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