Is my sister offended from me cause she has 3 kids and I want the child-free life?

[Anonymous]

As sisters does this make a clash between us? She only talks to my mom and never ever calls me to talk about anything. When I'm very upset and feeling alone she won't pic up my calls or tell me anything that would help me. And even when she does give me advice its in a rude tone. I don't understand why she is like that, I mean I never did anything bad to her... We are 7 years apart, I'm 30 and she is 37..

One time she told me when I'm married to someone one day, she said she will not be the same with me and won't talk to me the way she used to...

Any idias why she is like this with me?

[Adventurous97]

If she is genuinely offended because she has 3 kids and you are child-free, it means she is jealous! There may be some other reason why she’s acting like this, but if it’s the kids thing, she’s jealous that you have a child-free life with more disposable income and less responsibility and stress. That would be sad really, especially as you’re sisters 😒 but that might be how she is. Perhaps you could offer to take her kids for an evening or a night to give her a break, a rest or a night out, to try and build bridges 🤔 but the truth is she shouldn’t be behaving like this in the first place.

[Asker]

Well I give her kids a lot of love and give them tones of kisses :)

[Adventurous97]

Well that’s nice 👍 sounds like you can’t do much more then. If she chooses to be this way with you that’s her problem.

[Asker]

Well then... Thank you for your time and opnions, you were very helpful :), have a good day...

[Adventurous97]

You’re welcome 👍🙂