The thought of women not finding men as physically attractive.
And I get that men and women don't work the same way, but I can't help it... When ever I see a woman talk about the average male body, and how she can so easily go "eww" and find it gross, it just ruins my whole day. Then I wonder what it is women see in us. Yes, personality and security are good things to be attracted to... but both sexes can have those things. Right?
It kind of gets worse when women talk about sex. A lot of women that talk about their experience don't mention a man's body playing any part. It's usually about how THEY feel and how THEY perform. And when ever they DO mention anything about their men, it isn't much... though there is mention of "masculine energy," which I guess I understand (?)... but then, wouldn't a masculine *woman* be able to match something like that?
Yes, I'm aware this is a personal problem I'm trying to sort out.
I just wanted to share. And perhaps I wonder if there are any guys suffering from this dilemma as well.
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Oh, lot's of things. The currents state of the world, for example. Coming on to GAG and seeing some of the shockingly ignorant comments that some people leave here. The fact that within the next two weeks I'm going to have to find out all I can about something called 'Zoom', which is apparently some fancy new, Buck Rodgers type technology that allows you to have what they call "virtual conferences" with people who aren't actually in the room with you. Really weird stuff. Also quite disturbing, if you ask me. I mean, what's next? Payment systems that allow you to forego the use of cash?
When I see someone who looks tiny and then realize I’m shorter than them when they walk by 😭
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There are many awful things happening in this cruel world and it all makes me sad. Too many to list but, what bothers me the most is human trafficking and homelessness.
Although for me personally, it makes me sad that it is difficult to bond with people these days. Not just romantic relationships but, even making new friends. Not always but usually, I tend to be the one to make more effort while others just don't seem to care or make any effort at all.
There is a saying that we can't always be happy for obvious reasons. We will have great days, good days and bad days. But, we can be as happy as possible and I truly believe in that.
Pretty much everything at this point.
Where I am in my life, everything seems some days manageable but mostly like it won't ever happen.
In particular at the moment it's my closest friend I've not seen her in 8 months, she rarely contacts me first and honestly the past few years it just seems like she's less interested in being my friend plans getting downgraded or cancelled often. I just feel like I don't matter anymore.
She did last year say something to me that hurt a fair bit. And told me we needed to talk about that face to face. But never made the time and then told me I just need to let it go. I just don't know what's going on.
So that makes me really sad.Joe Biden, an unqualified fool, is the President of the United States.
Kamala Harris, a woman who was literally elected because she's a negro, is the Vice President, in spite of having zero moral or intellectual qualifications for the job.
Affirmative Action is supposed to be banned as being Unconstitutional and yet Bidens entire platform during the election was running on Affirmative action to promote unqualified and godless fools into political and judiciary offices. It's ridiculous. Worst President in U. S. history.
Seeing innocent people getting hurt by others (makes me more angry then sad) and what hurts me to see is people who doom their life and never go back.
I'm also super sensitive so people being mean to me hurts me inside and when I don't fit in it makes me sad.
Having a terrible itch, not knowing the cause, and then waking up with horrible chaffing on top of rashes at random all over my body. And having to work a full day anyway pretending everything is fine.
Periodically I get discontented with what I do and am interested usually, without any of my normal enthusiasm. I become sad that I am discontented. Bit that way today.
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- Racism
- Intolerance
- Homophobic behavior
- Climate change
- Wars
- Hunger
- Injustice
- Sexism I am an empath so I feel people's energy and emotions I love when I'm around people that are positive and a Beat I don't like when other people are sad because it makes me sad I can feel it from them and I hate that
When I think about my parents... I realize I can do more for them.. They deserve a lot more but bcz of some situations I m not there for them on few occasions.. That kills me
My dad died last Sept and still sad over it. I miss him calling to ask about my day. My mom passed in 2016 and I was just be getting over that.
Child abuse, animal abuse, homelessness, racism.
Seeing strangers and people I know sad,
Seeing sad news
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Seeing couples break up.
Not getting what I want 🤷♀️
Sad movies, sad songs, seeing or hearing about children, the elderly, vulnerable people and animals being abused or exploited in someway.
How certain people can only feel good when it is at the expense of others. How certain people voluntarily deceive innocent people for their own selfish gains. Manipulators. Idolators. Dumb people who think they’re intelligent.
Seeing innocent children being hurt or becoming victims
Seeing homeless families with children sleeping on the street. I often take them to a nearby motel/Joel and pay for them to stay 3-4 days as well as pay a local restaurant for 3-4 days for breakfast and dinner.
Lord of things. Swing bad things happen to others, losing loved ones, sad songs.
When people take advantage of me because I'm nice
I get sad watching my country get flushed down the toilet. Most days I think that I have landed on Mars.
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