If I have an active life, why are some chubby guys out of shape hitting on me?

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'6, weigh 126 Ibs and have an active life. I like jogging in the park on Sunday. So why on earth are some chubby guys, out of shape hitting on me?

Last guy that hit on me was obviously an ugly, fat guy with some facial acne and glasses. Why do I keep attracting them?

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My usual answer is ''I'm not looking'' or ''I'm not interested'' but damn this is what I imagine saying (haven't said this but I thought about it):
''Can't you not see I'm not attracted to fat guys''.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Because you're what they deem as attractive. To an extent, it's a compliment: you may not see it that way as you're after fit, active guys like yourself. But if you look good, you're going to attract ALL types of men, including ones you might not be interested in.

Just politely tell them you're not interested. Or ask them if they're willing to exercise with you, like go on a gym date... I promise most will say no unless they REALLY like you, or are trying to lose weight and get in shape as well.

[Paulychicagoluv]

Do you see how stuck up you sound? It's scum like you that make guys unsure about themselves. Gives them low self esteem. Do you have any compassion? I feel bad for the dude that actually ends up with you. Trying to wait on you hand and foot and never actually return the favor because you got your head so far up your butthole you can't see why decent men that are fit don't wanna be with you. If they do end up with you, they definitely cheat on you. You must feel good about yourself sitting on that pedestal by yourself.

[NamerOfStars]

"I do things to make myself more attractive; why am I getting more attention from men?".

Do you see how stupid it sounds when *I* say it?

[WellGreetingsISay]

They could be very nice. I'm fit and have a few unfit friends who would likely be better than fit guys.

[SnowedIn]

Because you cannot control who they are attracted to or hit on. You're under no obligation to respond but they can like who they like.

[BarryLiverstone]

People will talk to others regardless of appearance. I’m a skinny guy and have had overweight girls talk to me. Not everyone is healthy out there.

[Asker]

Several of them were trying to ask me out on a date though.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes that has been my experience as well. So we have shared experiences regarding this situation.

[genericname85]

cause "attractiveness" can't be targeted. you'll be as attractive to an out of shape fat guy as you are to a shredded chad type dude.

[gorydetails]

You're probably a butterface.

[Paulychicagoluv]

You're probably right bout that