What's the most out-of-character thing you've ever done?

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ShellyB · Accepted Answer

My entire college freshman year was like an out of body experience, which I wish could also be an out of memory experience.

comekitty · Accepted Answer

I wrote my number on a napkin, walked right up to this guy I thought was attractive, and handed it to him.

Sonorous · Answer

Everytime I pretend like I'm an extrovert.

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

I was super drunk a couple weeks back at my best friends, family party. After having a rowdy exciting day filled with alcohol it led to a game of beer pong. Once again, I was super lit and already out of character and others told me that I was “pretty lit“. During this game of beer pong, I was partnered up with my friends and gay cousin. To clarify I am a straight guy that definitely finds gayness kinda funny or something to laugh at from time to time just like a regular straight guy, I’m not a hater gayness or gay people but I’m not used to hanging around gay dudes and sadly was always quick to make gay jokes. And in my right mind I would not do anything out of the ordinary to disrespect really anyone gay or not.
Back to the story, I was partners with the gay guy in beer pong, and we were killing it as we were winning the game I was really fired up, and once again, pretty drunk slightly high. Super lit if you ask me. Anyways, the thought in my head popped up to smack my partner in the ass for so many stupid reasons. Like we were playing beer pong, and we were killing it, I did think about doing it and thinking it would be funny because he’s gay. And then I had a little mini debate in my head about not doing it next thing you know in my mind, I told myself “do it! “ I proceeded to follow through and gave them a little slap on the booty… Super regret. I felt so ashamed and I felt bad because it instantly wasn’t funny and it changed the whole scene of everything. The team we were going against one of the guys said “that’s my cousin Dogg, that’s my cousin.” it was severely not funny at the time and I was so quick to say sorry to everyone. Luckily, we all brushed it off like nothing happened, but I definitely grew from that point knowing not to do that. I sadly kno the hard way (pun not intended!) to not do gay acts towards gay men. It’s not right and it’s not funny.

At the end of the day, we all look back and laugh at it like it’s SO happened. Even I at first was a little haunted by it the next day, but even that makes me laugh about it because I know who I am, and I know I was super out of character and all the parameters about the situation, including the alcohol, my mindset. I’m naturally always trying to be a comedian all the time yet you got a know your audience. You definitely have to crack some bad jokes to the wrong people and even good jokes to the wrong people to understand how to better control an audience

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

So, let's get this out of the way first, I had a bit of a saviour complex... So I feel someone's problems are my problems and I'd spend far too much time finding solutions, hearing people's problems and helping out however I can. Even if I have to get dirty or put myself in a dangerous position.

I had to learn that it's selfish to rob people from the opportunity to learn or grow and have since changed my approach. But when faced with certain drama I tend to resort to old habits.

Recently I've been put to the test with such drama, so here's the situation:

Someone reached out to me in need of help, urgently, according to him when he moved here he got scammed and ended up homeless and without a job. I met the guy when out with friends and invited him to join us because he seemed sad and lost in thought, and he mentioned he needed help badly so I gave him my number. I made sure to give him all my contacts that could help him find a job and a house, which included a few nonprofit organization and companies I have very close ties with. He reached out to me on a Saturday, so naturally he had to wait until Monday to get the help he so desperately needed. He begged me for money or shelter, but rather than paying him or letting him stay in my house, I gave him the contact information of 3 different homeless shelters that I'm familiar with instead, also told him based on his location who could offer him directions in case his phone died.

Some of the story bits did not add up, but I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. But this time, I still refused to invite a stranger over or send money over. Usually I would absolutely help in any way, but I've actually hurt friends in my pursued to help people, so I wanted to become more selfish. So reading back it caught me offguard. I even shared the chatlog with a close friend, I felt like a middle schooler, so proud yet conflicted. She told me: "But what if it was real?" We're somehow still friends after that. 😂😂

BullShark · Answer

I'm usually a pretty calm, cool and collected individual who's always mild mannered with people older than me, but recently, I just let loose and yelled at my aunt who lives with my parents.

Long story short, she's a 65 year old senile woman, who's leeching off of my parents, creates drama in the house when she feels bored by picking fights with my parents, and just being all around obnoxious with everyone. She thrives off of attention from others and can't stand it when she isn't the topic of conversation for more than 5 minutes. She's also all around messy slob who treate everyone around the house as her slave and expects everyone to serve her because "she's older".

Anyways two days ago, I was already in a shitty mood as is. I had just arrived from college, it was a night class and I was tired and hungry. My parents had already gone to sleep and it was just me, my younger brother and that Witch. Not more than two minutes after I had dumped my bag and lay down on the sofa to catch my breath, she yells at me and my brothers' conversation from across the living room on something she hadn't even heard properly; calling me a "pathetic brother" for asking my brother if I could borrow the laptop when he's studying.

I told her loud and firmly to stay out of me and my brother's conversation, and that whatever we're talking about doesn't concern her. She made the most appalled expression as if I had cussed at her or something and started spewing more profanities at me and what sort of a "disrespectful child" I was. I simply muted her out and went back to my room to change. After that day, she hasn't been able to look me straight in the eye and I couldn't be happier.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex was coked out of his mind and drunk and was being very verbally abusive. I asked him several times to please leave me alone. I even went to my room but he followed. I didn’t have a lock on my door. He kept throwing insults at me and I did nothing to provoke him. I wasn’t even speaking. Once he said “if you’re father was dead he’d be rolling in his grave because he would be disappointed in you” I was infuriated. I grew up living comfortably and my ex grew up with very little. He always threw it in my face and called me a spoiled brat. I’m not by the way I work for everything I have and I can’t help how I grew up. I never threw shit like that in his face. He would only bring things like that up when he was on drugs or drunk. What he said about my father infuriated me so badly because who wants to think of their father that’s alive dying and being in a grave? My dad is my best friend so it hurt me to the core when he said that. I walked away this time visibly mad. I told him if he did not get away from me I was gonna put my hands on him. This is completely out of character for me. I am not a fighter whatsoever. I called my mom and brother for help (I didn’t want to call the police and send him to jail) so my family was on their way. He got in my face again and was screaming at me so I hit him hard as hell in the head…with a bat. Obviously a terrible thing to do and I’m not proud of that but I asked him several times to please leave me alone. He stopped messing with me after that and my family got there to help. This was years ago and I decided to seek therapy because of the decline in my mental health.

sage2021 · Answer

One day after work, the people I worked with decided to go to a bar and restaurant place. We sat in the bar. Everyone knew that I don't drink, but this guy I worked with gave me what I thought was just orange 🍊 juice actually had vodka in it.
I was wearing my little short black dress that day and was really feeling woozy. Before I knew it, I kicked off my shoes, climbed on our table and started dancing like a wild woman. Crazy. Now you know why I don't drink!🥃

Valso · Answer

Punching a guy in the face but since I'm not a fighter, he then beat me back. The reason I punched him in the face was that he came from an unknown village and his first act was to trash talk about those of us who were born in the big city. At first I didn't care and nobody else did either, but after 2 weeks of that talk he finally insulted my ex (she wasn't an ex back then). I couldn't let that go and I introduced him to my fist. Sure, he beat me back and changed the shape of my face for a while but after that he stopped the trash talking and in time he went back to the village he came from.

LovingJo · Answer

Went to meet someone that I'd never met, in another country and stay with them. Don't know if this was the  most  out there thing, but it's definitely up there!! 💯

CrypticMoon · Answer

Threatened my sister with a knife when we were around 12(me) and 5(sister). She used to torture me and got away with everything scott-free. I had enough of her one day and I grabbed a knife and threatened to stab her if she came close. She tried to move closer but I just thrust it at her and she backed up. I remember screaming and crying too. My grandparents were on my side, thankfully, and I never got in trouble for that.

You know, I might have been suffering from childhood trauma 😅

Paris13 · Answer

Probably... Hopping on a Plane and Flying Out Overseas to Egypt to Meet up with a Muslim Man whom Later On (Went Again!!!) I ended up Marrying at One Time... Even Residing Out There Too for awhile. lol!!! WTF? LOL!!! xxoo

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Attending a baptism class.

The person who lead the class was a lunatic. She lectured us about not allowing children to watch tv it was too violent. Then explained her family act out parts of the bible for entertainment.

I commented the bibles pretty violent.

She malfunctioned kinda twitched and foamed at the mouth

TooHot2Care · Answer

Everything from age 0- 28 and I’m embarrassed by everything and regret everything. Especially age 0, I mean what was I thinking? I made a BAD selection of parents before being born….. my mom is so cooky and my dad is so embarrassing, oh god just kill me….

Anonymous · Answer

Mid-life crisis, cheating on my wife with 7 other women over a year, one of which turned into a long-term affair of 2 years. Snapped out of it and my amazing wife accepted me back. We now have two amazing children and I owe her my life. She's amazing.

Anonymous · Answer

After my parents died in a car crash i was in when i was 15 I was a mess. On a bad combination of depression, antidepressants, drink and drugs for a year I had sex with a lot of guys some girls too, teachers, neighbors, relatives, old people random strangers, couples, orgies, even for money. Every day I was having sex with someone different, one time it was 7 different guys.

I wrecked relationships, marraiges, careers, lives and generally hurt a lot of people.

TrueConfection · Answer

I gave someone the middle finger. I shocked myself. I don't know where it came from as if I wasn't even in control. That was 2 years ago.

ZackBan · Answer

Got into a relationship.

It was never my thing, I'm more of a lone wolf with the occasional fleeting partners.

And this girl came in and made me wanna stay for coffee... 3 months later she breaks my heart.

DJB72 · Answer

I proposed to my wife on our first date. I'm generally not that impulsive, but 21 years and six months later were still married so I'm not sure it's a bad thing...

Mariena_Anne92 · Answer

Being totally silent when I’m hurt , i never stop talking , I’m talkative and it’s my nature. When I decided to be completely silent people usually got scared

JonesT10Apr · Answer

getting angry with someone in group... unable to stick together with friends in some moments...

I really hate it.. and love to be together and talk friendly and funny...

here I am talking about sometimes I feel lonely even I am in a group

DizzyDesii · Answer

The few times that i got so fed up that i just dropped everything, hopped on a plane and went out of town for alone time

Person901 · Answer

I am really not sure how to answer this. Probably when I read a physical book when I didn't have access to anything online out of pure bordum. I like knowledge just physical books the pages feel weird and it never became a full habit for me as a child. Audiobooks or reading them on a screen is better.

strateguy632 · Answer

oh, its not my character to wear lady part lingeri but when lover wanted to see it, i did uncharacter even eyeshadow. after we separated others did not ask so back to character.

Anonymous · Answer

One time I fat-shamed someone for cutting in front of me at Panda Express. But at the time, I was dating a chubby girl anyway so it wasn’t really an insult at all. I felt bad about it later after I ate my dinner. It was the hangry-ness. She was probably hangry too and that’s why she cut in line.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I disappeared and went to Europe without telling anyone.

Thatpearl26 · Answer

Probably in my senior year of high school, I acted childish to get something that was stolen back.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Went clubbing for two months straight, but I was healing from a traumatic experience and I feel like it’s okay

Kreneman · Answer

I went to multiple clubs and I started to dance to many types of music in then I became a popular dancer in the lime light which was incredible.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Hit on a 20 something year old at the club when I was 43. Not one of my better days, but she was such a cutie/sweetie, and I was lonely.

Heolurt · Answer

I started streaming just to sometimes talk to people, and then very in-character of me I stopped streaming because people kept asking to see my cam display and I wasn't using one because I don't want my ugly face on the internet.

Cute_potato01 · Answer

I shat on my ex boyfriend bed the 3rd night sfter sex

hiyamotherfers · Answer

rant to a person I just met. I usually have to get to know people pretty well before I go and spill my whole life story

ShadowMonarch · Answer

Getting angry and taking it out on someone. I still regret that

Justmeagain1 · Answer

Show my true self. My good , bad, ugly and insecure and in between. It got me nowhere.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I asked somebody for money and that is something I only do with family.

sheenagwapa · Answer

tey to understand a manwhore tey to understand sinners

DermalPunch · Answer

Nothing. It's just unlocked parts of my character. Like a superhero.

Anonymous · Answer

Got dressed up like a trans, had a really good make-up job too. Went out and picked up a stud, went down on him and realized i forgot my lip gloss! I never forget my gloss, it was so out of character!!

fonduegirl · Answer

Broke up with somebody because they wanted to friendzone me.

Anonymous · Answer

Take a photo of a certain body part and sent it to someone I barely know. I usually don’t cave, but he wouldn’t leave me alone about it. 🙄 I instantly regretted it.

Christoff92 · Answer

Overhead Press 225 pounds and roared infront of the whole entire gym. It's a Powerlifting specialist gym 🙂

John_Doesnt · Answer

One time I went down to a bar to get drunk and to beat up some midgets.

Sedusa_ · Answer

I spoke out of disrespect to the only person who mattered to me. I regret it because I should've composed myself. I feel like this alone is what separated me from the others.

Anonymous · Answer

When my married ex boyfriend asked me for nudes and I sent them. 🤡

Anonymous · Answer

Bullied a girl a guy I had a crush on was interested in. Absolutely disgusting things I said to her.

Kelly6 · Answer

i become a side girlfriend of a married guy who even had kids this lasted for 14 months

Randalama · Answer

I was nice once. But I was not blown so I stopped.

ThatCanucker · Answer

I don't know, smiled for no reason I guess.

Reorx · Answer

3 month slut phase after my ex fiance left. Also coincided with non stop partying.

OddBeMe · Answer

Help my wife plan our wedding. That was so against my core beliefs I still wince.

Guardian45 · Answer

Putting my life on hold and on short notice, moving to Japan for 3 years.

Fuentes · Answer

Not sure nothing I ever do is out of character lol

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

I asked a girl if she wanted to have anal sex with me while we were out on our FIRST date!

Greenbins · Answer

Slept with a " hungry girl" when I was drunk..

Actor3 · Answer

I told of a family member crimes on internet than keeping it secret

pandaking500 · Answer

Try to hurt someone I love because I was mad at them

abc3643 · Answer

I voted Republican in 1984.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Answering some juicy questions here. 😂

leahzrc · Answer

Oh god I am a wild card

Phoenix98 · Answer

I can't really reveal that unfortunately.

humanearth · Answer

Wore a woman's two piece bikni to the beach

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