Is it normal to still want to sue the hell out of someone that betrayed my trust and scammed me?

[Anonymous]

I've been the victim of a romance scam and he wasn't a stranger. I knew him in person long ago and then the relationship turned into long-distance.

I'm not mad. I'm furious whenever his name comes to mind. He destroyed me and because of him I'll never have those years back. I got nothing out of those years invested for nothing. He never did as promised and it was all a lie. He scammed me with money too. I guess the saying ''Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'' applies to me.

I imagine suing him for the money he never paid back and for the lies on his application he filed long ago to get his Green Card. I want to ruin him, dry him to the point he's begging for mercy. He destroyed my youthful years and now I want to destroy his value too. My greatest satisfaction would be seeing him deported back to his country and penniless on the streets; his value destroyed. He came poor to the US and him being poor again would be great.

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This is a narcissist I want to get even with. I imagine stopping at nothing to make sure I see his downfall.
I can go from reciprocating someone that commit and be with you till old age (don't lie, don't use you and I'll treat you like a kind in return) to being your worst enemy if you use you. I want to make him regret he ever met me.

[Anonymous]

Nah it's a wrong move sweety...
By doing This you're wasting your more years behind him...

Yes you can sue him if you have proof

[Asker]

Yes I have the receipt of the money I send him.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes you can definitely sue him for money...
But think beyond that forget him like your mistakes learn from it

[Asker]

He future faked me. Playing and wasting with a woman's years (cruelly wasting her fertile, reproductive years for your own selfish needs), lovebombing her like crazy till you get money out of her and then never commit is the worst way someone can emotionally and psychologically hurt her badly.
There is no equivalent to how to hurt a man badly except with money... him being poor (without any money to offer on dates) would be the equivalent of destroying a woman's market value.

[Asker]

During that sick time of getting lovebombed, I've already invested too much, told him my secrets, etc. All that just to be played for years, just to get scammed.

[Opinion Owner]

That's your mistakes...
Love is scam Sweety

[Joker_]

Are you talking about @reventon4? That guy is almost as heinous as @reventon3

[Asker]

Nope, I don't know who he is.

[poetic_pisces]

Normal feelings

You are hurt

[Asker]

Yeah I got hurt to the point I sought a psychologist two years ago.

[In_Trance]

American Mentality

[Asker]

I don't think so. No one likes being used nor romance scammed. Purposely (he did that to get money from me) wasting someone's time for your own selfish needs is cruel.

If he would've been a normal man that commits and gives me kids, then I would've gotten about the money I lend him and reciprocated by staying on his side till very old age. Someone is kind and I give 10x more kindness.
But nope, he was a narcissistic user so now I want to make him wish he never met me. Now I'll be his worst enemy ever. I'll be the venom he drinks. Use me and scorn me and I'll stop at nothing to make you see your downfall... I'll likely have no mercy be 10x more mean.

[Asker]

If he would've been a normal man that commits and gives me kids, then I would've **forgotten about the money I lend him and reciprocated by staying on his side till very old age.
**I would've helped him if he was dealing with a financial crisis, even go against my family if anyone disrespects him, I would've gone out of my way if all my invested time was reciprocated with commitment.