"Ladies how do you deal with jealous copycat women?

[Anonymous]

Hi ladies I work on a job I dyed my hair green I noticed all the women on my job always staring at me or competitive with me all of sudden they dyed they hair light green I pierced my nose multiple times I have 5 nose rings they pierced they nose just like mines too along with the hair color styled they hair just like mines it's like an obsession It's so disgusting & creepy they even copied the jewelry I had in my nose it's very noticeable even my friends & family tapped me told me did I notice it I said yes ladies if someone keeps chronically copying everything I put on how would you feel I been frustrated & disgusted that they don't find they own style it's never other women just me some of them claim they don't like me but go to great lengths to look just like me 1 question should I get rid of my hair color & jewelry since my identity has been taken or should I keep it ignore it I find it creepy, dispectful, obsessed I saw some of malicious smiles from the copycats

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl that is so weird and annoying! Those copycats have no life of their own obviously. I'd be frustrated too. Here's what I'd do:

1. Continue rocking your hair and piercings with pride. Don't let them chase you off your own style!

2. Call them out politely but directly. Something like "hmm interesting choice, you seemed to really like my look!" with a fake smile.

3. Confide in your real friends about it so they have your back and don't feed into the copies behavior.

4. Stay Classy. Don't sink to their level by being rude or catty. Kill them with kindness so you're clearly the better person.

5. Realize deep down they're probably insecure and see you as confident/trendsetter. Smile knowing you're under their skin!

6. Carry yourself like the queen you are! Don't let them get in your head, sis. You do you and keep on shining love!

With time they'll get bored and move onto someone else hopefully. In the meantime, don't let their pathetic antics bug you!

[Asker]

Thank you so much for the advice I felt depressed & lost

[Oliverlogan263]

You're so welcome sis! Don't let those lame copycats get you down. It sucks to deal with petty drama, but don't let them steal your shine! You're way too dope for that.

Next time one of them gives you attitude, just smile and say "Aww you're still trying so hard to be me, it's cute." Then flip your gorgeous green hair and walk away laughing. They ain't even on your level!

And if seeing them copy you starts messing with your head, just remember why you do YOU - because you're confident, talented and beautiful inside and out. They wish they had half your swag, but the fakes will never fill your shoes!

Keep that head high. You've got this whole place looking at YOU with envy, not the other way around. Brush off the haters and let your light shine through, queen! We're always here if an extra dose of girl power helps pick you back up too 💅

[laly520]

super creepy

[Anonymous]

They shouldn’t put up with it

[Asker]

All the women on my job copied me :'(