Seriously can my own gender be that vengeful towards us (has things gotten that bad)?

[Anonymous]

I once exposed a golddigger and the girl really went after me in these manners:

- Finding my address and setting my new car on fire

- Writing nasty message on my FB account under different nicknames

- Claiming I've ruined her only chance of living a life of luxury, that she's back to being broke because of me

Needless to say I had to get a restraining order against her. I literally got scared... scared of another woman. I was shocked at the level of hatred and vengeance she had towards me. To her mind, I was a traitor. She kept referring me to as the sister that betrays her own kind. I'm still trying to process all this. I'm still trying to recover from all this. But honestly can a woman be that cruel and nasty towards another woman?

[msmissydc]

Dont expect good things from bad peaple. Sadly thats reality. Funny though, from your description she wasn't trying to deny it but went after you for exposing her😅. She Deserved it I guess. Well done. Sad you have to suffer for it though. Sorry

[Asker]

The only thing I don't understand is her having so much rage towards me for ruining her dreams (lol.. as if being a golddigger is even a dream) but yet she seemed so happy about trying to use someone for money and then trying to take over his house. I find that evil.

[msmissydc]

Hope she doesn't try again with the next one. Or maybe after she is exposed she finds a real sugerdaddy who knows he is just paying for her😅

[msmissydc]

Also hopefully she pays for your car and not her 'guy'.

[HighValue]

From what I have seen in life, I am not surprised by that behavior from a woman at all. It is common for women to try to ruin others' lives when they are the ones caught doing wrong. Men experience this kind of behavior from women frequently.

[Asker]

I'm still in shock to be honest. She really scared the hell out of me. I really felt fear. All I ever did is expose a liar, a user and I get a psycho female going after me like that. Anyone (regardless of gender) that's using people as commodities doesn't deserve to be in a serious relationship.

I felt that if I had let her get away with using someone for money and ruining someone's life (her plan was to take over that man's house too at some point), then I would've been part of her evil plan. I refuse to be part of anyone's schemes that has to do with ruining people's lives. Yet it's sad that just for speaking up against it, they want to silence you.

[BoopBoopBeep]

That's about what I'd expect, sadly.

[Asker]

What I don't understand is her claim of how I've ruined it for her and left her broke again but she was so happy about trying to ruin some man's life, trying to take away his hardworking wealth. How is being a golddigger even a dream or life of luxury? She makes it harder for the rest of us that actually want love and kids with a good man.

[Asker]

She's so mad ''I ruined her life'' but didn't care about trying to use someone for money. Makes no sense.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sure it does. She's trash. Trash acts trashy. You can't understand that because you aren't trashy.