Does a hijab protect you from unwanted attention?

[Anonymous]

Is wearing a hijab a good way to get guys to leave you alone?

[NotSlowestSloth]

Wearing hijab is effective but it is costly to maintain as well. What I mean by that is, it creates a low trust environment which forces you to take other precautionary measure with it.

Like women shouldn't be alone in public without a male member of their family (if you disagree with this but like hijab then you're only doing it for aesthetics).

Hijab is only affective when there is a someone who backs it up by potential of violence.

Further, it also creates mystery which can make things even worse. Men like mystery and it makes their desire even greater. People must have realized that hijab isn't a standalone solution.

[BetaBucks]

Some of these responses are strange. I don't know how people can't understand varying degrees of effectiveness, like if it is ever not effective, then it's entirely invalid. That's like saying that locking your doors doesn't protect from thiefs and invaders, because people break through doors. Or condoms don't protect from pregnancy and STDs, because of the times they fail.

Yes, covering yourself up reduces the amount of attention you get. Literally everyone in existence understands this and anyone pretending they don't is just pushing a narrative for their own agenda. I'm not criticizing you, because I'm aware that you're introducing a dialog and not actually unaware that it reduces attention from men.

[Anonymous]

a guy to leave you alone? i would say it depends. I dont think it give any major diff
But for example if you ever went to thailand before, you know how the prostitute is literally on the streets and approach you yada3, but they will never and ever approach you if u wear hijab cuz they know, thats a bonus point.
but on a downside, you would get more eyes on you, and the hates looking from almost a lot of people wherever you go especially if its not muslim country

[sheenagwapa]

in my country i think no one would dare to do perverse actions against muslim women because muslim men are known to be highly protective. i am a Christian and i just brinh a cutter knofe in case. i am also sure that Lord Jesus is real so come what may

[JustinTheGreat]

I think it would be disrespectful to wear one if it isn’t part of your religion. Especially if it’s just to get men to leave you alone.
if anything it draws more negative attention from bigots

[Asker]

It was just a general, theoretical question. I wasn't asking personally about myself or encouraging other women to wear a hijab to get guys to leave them alone; just introducing a dialogue here.
Of course, a hijab is primarily a religious symbol, not a fashion accessory, or anything else

[SueShe]

Even as a non Muslima, I would wear a hijab anytime if it would be a guarantee that I don't get molested by men. Alas, this is not the case. They are still perverts despite hiding your female attributes.

[D_Bone_Steak]

No... you need more to be covered up. If you show me a wrist I will want to fuck.

Better wear that fucking burka or else you're a whore.

[Asker]

Cringe 🙄

[blueonblack22]

It was meant to keep guys from looking at women the wrong way.

There are a lot of things I don’t like about Islam but women wearing coverings is actually not a bad idea. Ironically Christianity was supposed to mandate this on women as well. Apostle Paul instructed it in Corinthians. But it never went mainstream.

[Skinhead-1979]

It used to be quite normal for western women, here in Europe, to wear some kind of head scarf too when they would go out; it sort of started to phase out from the 1970's/ 1980s onward; though 'Grannies' would often still keep doing that after that.

While religion may have played a part, it was most certainly not the main/ prime reasons.

[blueonblack22]

@Skinhead-1979 well if mainstream Christianity required women to this then progressive feminists would go berserk calling it “oppressions”. But you hear crickets from them when it comes to criticizing Islam.

[Skinhead-1979]

I disagree with you there... Many Feminists are 'Liberals', to use that dirty word, and same as other Liberals have no issues forcing their way onto people, regardless of ethnicity and culture, under the guise of 'Equality'.

I am not sure who I disagree more with... Conservatives or Liberals.

[blueonblack22]

@Skinhead-1979 well whenever I hear about “patriarchal oppression” towards religious institutions from feminists it’s almost ALWAYS directed towards Judeo-Christian institutions.

Now we got western white feminists supporting Hamas which is completely insane. THAT is what I have a problem with.

I really didn’t want to get into the Israel/Palestine issue but when I saw leftist females supporting radical Islam I lost all hope. Do any of those women have any idea what would happen to them if they lived in a country that enforced sharia law?

[Skinhead-1979]

I am sorry, but I will not comment on this; I wouldn't even know where to start. So I'd say it is best if we leave it at this.

[blueonblack22]

@Skinhead-1979 fair enough. I didn’t mean to go off on a tangent. Hope your day is going well.

[Skinhead-1979]

Nearly time for bed... hopefully (I don't sleep very well); and don't worry, I wish you a very good remainder of the day too.

[HawkPerception]

It definitely turns me off. I don't look at girls with hijabs for even a second. It's not physically attractive and it's symbolic of their indoctrinated beliefs.

Also, attention is very simple for women. The more you cover up, the less attention you'll get.

[Asker]

Yes, because showing your ass and wearing revealing and skimpy clothes is very attractive and classy.

[HawkPerception]

I never said wearing revealing and skimpy clothing is very attractive and classy, so stop trying to assume my meaning.

Dressing provocatively will definitely get you attention, but it's the wrong kind of attention. As nice as it is to look at, it's not the type of girl I'd go for.

The most attractive thing on a girl will always be a long summer dress. No hijab.

[Curiu]

Instead of looking at the nuance of the question, you automatically jumped to a judgement when you said indoctrinated. That is the opposite of hawkish perception. What does that say about you?

[HawkPerception]

@Curiu I stated my personal opinion as this app encourages. I answered the question perfectly, especially with the second part of my opinion. I'm not going to apologize that my opinion offends you. I didn't say anything in offense to a specific person. If you can't understand the definition of an opinion, this may not be the app for you.

[Curiu]

Do you actually understand that a person can respond to your opinion? And THAT is permitted and encouraged in this app? I’d say you cannot.

[HawkPerception]

@Curiu I'm not saying you can't. I'm saying coming at me for stating an opinion that wasn't directed at any single person is illogical. Since you like the passive aggressive insults ("That is the opposite of hawkish perception. What does that say about you?" & "... I'd say you cannot.") I'll just give you a blatant insult. You're lacking some brain cells.

[Skinhead-1979]

If you want to wear a Hijab with the hopes that men, or people in general, leave you alone you wear the Hijab for the wrong reasons.

But to answer your question, no it doesn't guarantee anything. Some will 'run' at the sight of a Hijab, most don't care, some find it interesting and intriguing (of course doesn't necessarily have to be from a sexual point of view; but yes, some have a Hijab Fetish).

[AMS700CX4u2]

Beauty is seldom hidden by clothing. What attracts us is a smile and a positive attitude. Looking at your shoes and frowning is a sure fire way to deflect attention, in my opinion. The whole point of interaction is happiness. Or, it should be. Don't get me wrong, I am just as interested in sex as any male, but your body is not something for me to help myself to at will. It is yours to give as you see fit. Things do get complex as you age.

[KostasKouvalis]

They might not necessarily approach you or talk to you, unless it's something xenophobic, but they can still oggle you and get turned on from you

[lightbulb27]

In some areas it would reduce as can't see you... they will still look, because you look different.

Other areas, not so sure. I've heard things about India... don't know facts.

[Anonymous]

I was about to ask am I a racist for hating the muslim dress codes for the ugliness I see in that style of clothing.


I like X muslmims the most, because I can relate with them better than with religious people.


I would not date a muslm.

[soe11]

• I agree with some levels.
• At the same times should be lowering your gaze too.
• Otherwise no points.
• I see now a day as a fashion outfits.
• Nothing more than that.

[sawno]

It does, especially from certain crowds. Hair is incredibly attractive so covering that up helps.

[MemeSupreme]

hijabs are beautiful, change my mind

not even muslim or like religious period, but just thought it always looked pretty

[Anonymous]

No. I don’t think so. Having an ugly face does. If she’s got a pretty face I’m going to be more interested. Because now that I see how gorgeous her face is I want to see the rest.

[Asker]

Disgusting 🤢

[Opinion Owner]

You asked. Amazing how people ask question, especially women then they get an answer and they’re not happy w the answer. That’s why men don’t talk, that’s why men hide things, why we’re not honest. Because we get responses like this.

[Curiu]

That is a good response.

[HelpfulWoman]

if thats the only reason why you wear it, you shouldn't wear one

[Asker]

Of course, that's not the main reason women wear a hijab. It's primarily a religious symbol (like a cross is for Christians)

[Billlewis]

Although that's probably a benefit for many women, I don't think that was the original intention behind it.

[RingOfFire]

You don't? I would think that that is almost certainly the intention. It comes from a culture and religion that blatantly represses women so why wouldn't they want to force them to wear these outfits where they don't feel attractive?

I'm not saying you're wrong, but it seems to me controlling and oppressing women by not letting them call attention to their own appearance, is the main purpose of those outfits.

[Curiu]

@RingOfFire then why do former Islamophobiacs become muslims after studying it?

[andreasderjuengere]

On me it works.

It's an instant turn off :)

[Agape93]

Nope. Even full niqab covering doesn't stop women from being raped

[Asker]

Unfortunately nothing can stop women from being raped, as it's about having power and control over another person, not the way they're dressed or their looks. That's not what I had in mind, when I asked the question though.
I meant it can discourage some guys in some scenarios from hitting on you. Especially if they're Christian

[Agape93]

Fair, it just opens other forms of harassment then. Especially from Christians 😒

[RingOfFire]

It certainly would be a good way for a woman to get me to leave her alone so I have to assume a lot of other guys feel the same way. There are a few things I find less attractive.

[foxsquirrell]

It should be automatically illegal since you can't go out and about in public covering your identity!

If you are allowed to wear a hijab, then I should be allowed to wear a balaclava.

[Asker]

A hijab just covers your hair, not your face, so how are you hiding your identity? Plus the same thing could be said about Covid masks. If people are allowed to wear a mask, which covers 2/3 of their face, why shouldn't women be allowed to wear a hijab?

[foxsquirrell]

First of all I confused the hijab with the burka. Secondly a temporary medical measurement is not to be confused with an everyday way of life.
Thirdly, listen if some people want to wear these things there are a lot of countries who are practical all like that and that is exactly where they belong.
When you are in Rome you do as the Romans do. Simple.

[Curiu]

Go for it.

[_piotr]

Actually, in countries that are non Islamic, hijab may draw attention as something different and strange.

[WhitneySnow]

If they’re not Muslim and all they want is sex they will probably leave you alone

[Anonymous]

Maybe if you live In a place where that's common. Otherwise I think it'd do the opposite. Not to mention there's this one G@Ger on here that wears one in her profile pic. But she also wears a skin tight outfit to go alone with it.

[Marsup]

I live in Turkey and there are a lot of Arab refugees here and for them they molest every woman whether they have a hijab or not. Basically it should work but for the bigoted Arabs it doesn't work

[nawtee_me]

Probably not since unwanted attention comes in many forms. If it is not sexual attention it might be hatful attention… it is best to just be yourself

[ProbablyClueless]

I'd think so. It's a very plain and open statement about your commitment to modesty.

[Staximus]

No, it brings you negative attention if you wear it in places where women didn't usually wear them

[worldscolide]

Dunno, if a guy wants to approach, he is going to approach regardless of what you're wearing.

[Countrygirl777]

no because they will not leave you alone.

[handsomelad70]

Usually, but not always because some men are, well, creepers.

[Tomisworthless]

Dressing conservatively would. But your confidence comes from male attention either warranted or not.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Here in the U. S. probably so since Americans aren't fond of Muslims but a rapists won't care about a hijab as he will take off your clothes anyways.

[Luopio27]

Not just the States but everywhere, rapists can never be stopped by any kind of clothes. A hijab is easily cut and thorn by rapists. So are jeans and national costume dresses.

[dudegreat91]

Yeah, but it can also expose you to attacks by non-muslims ;)

[LimitedBenefits101]

It kinda does but then again you see chicks wearing jeans with hijab😂 like huh

[Anonymous]

You would standout because nobody else around you wears one so technically you're still going to get unwanted attention.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm a Christian woman. I from and live in the US. There are a few Muslim women here and they were the hijab but they standout in our country since most people here aren't Muslim and don't wear a hijab. In a Muslim country you probably won't standout though.

[Asker]

At least you don't get (Christian) guys hitting on you this way

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah Christian guys won't date a non Christian woman. I wouldn't date a non Christian man.

[Anonymous]

I'm definitely not talking to a girl w a hijab unless she gave me the solid greenlight

[Anonymous]

Yes. Only cowardly men and rabid women (both usually white) harass veiled women.

[thecosmos]

Is wearing a hijab a good way to get guys to leave you alone?

Yeah, it is

[Anonymous]

Being less attractive often has that effect.

[Anonymous]

Nope
Opposite
Unless you live in a country that kills you for not wearing one.


Just looks stupid.

[serious]

No, I don't think so.

[Asker]

But why? Could you please elaborate? I'm always interested in your opinions

[serious]

You are always interested in my opinions? That is good to know and that means you must have seen my profile and also read my opinions.

It is totally fine. I am saying it is a good thing and It is good to know

[serious]

Yes I will explain.

[serious]

Okay so just because a woman is wearing a hijab, it does not mean that she will not get attention or unwanted attention from men. It would also depend on the man and his thought process regarding a woman.

If a man is naturally flirty by nature, physically flirty etc then it would not matter to him if a woman is wearing a hijab or not. He will still find a way to flirt and even to physically be flirty as well. If a man is perverted by nature then also it will not matter whether a woman is wearing a hijab or not.

As far as I know I think hijab means almost all of their body is entirely covered except their face and their palms of their hands, that still won't guarantee that a woman wearing is 100% safe from any unwanted attention. On the contrary she could get unwanted attention from a man because she wears a hijab. That would only make a man (perverted/flirty types) of men more curious to know why this woman wears hijab and hence their interest may increase for that woman ( in not so good ways of course) even if they don't do something very wrong, the could still try to be touchy and flirty despite a woman wearing hijab.

Of course here a lot would depend on how a man thinks and what type of man he is (personality wise)

Hence Hijab is not way of protecting yourself from getting unwanted attention and it does not guarantee anything.

That being said, yes wearing a hijab may get you less attention, less unwanted attention as compared to a woman who likes to wear modern dresses, revealing outfits etc, the percentage for you to get unwanted attention will be less but there are no guarantees and it is not a sure way of protecting yourself either.

That is my honest opinion.

[serious]

I think that answers your question

[Zenpanda]

The wrong people don't care what you wear.

[itsannalee]

Depends on where do u live.

[Anonymous]

Hijab is for God at first place anyway before anything else

[legalboxers]

depends which country

[ehatsham_hussain]

Yes , ofcourse... it protects

[LiamJHayden]

Depends upon where you are.

[jack1924]

It would never work with weird, dumb guys

[Awantika03]

I think 🤔 no

[Asker]

Why?

[Awantika03]

Because guys see with internal eyes 👀

[Asker]

Internal?

[Awantika03]

Yes,
They imagine to see the body not the face

[Asker]

That's disgusting and creepy

[Awantika03]

Yes, but they judges

[Anonymous]

yes definitely