Do you know the 4 behaviors of someone who doesn't care about you?

https://youtu.be/CeGwf_ev2uc?si=m3MOk1Lx2z54BlBm

I get this behavior from my caregiver and when I need her attention when I need to talk to her about something that I need help with. She sits and plays her games on her phone while I am trying to talk to her. When I asked her to stop looking at her phone, she asked me if I don't know how to multitask!!
When I accidentally fell on my new coffee table and it broke apart into pieces, she said "Maybe you weren't meant to have a coffee table"!

She also steals from me but won't admit it. I am talking about a lot of my belongings!!
So when she's nice to me then turns around and dismisses what I have to say, I feel like she is gaslighting me.
Do you know the 4 behaviors of someone who doesn't care about you?
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