Men, what are your thoughts on so many women being overweight and proud and upset that Men won't accept them as they are?

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SnowyOwl · Accepted Answer

These women get mad based on others' people choices, which is something they will never have control over... Everyone should be free to make their own choices, and if people (like these women) wanna get mad about that, then they are choosing to be miserable.

Everyone has their standards, that's in everyone's rights.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Being overweight doesn't make anyone happy. Lets just boil that down to facts. Nobody would choose being overweight between that and fit. It's emotional or medical baggage. Living with that attitude is what drives men away. Just like the short man attitude. Not the height it is the anger.

ohsheeT · Answer

Whatever makes them happy it's their choice it has no effect on me because I know what makes me happy and I'm not even thinking about what they want or what they need or what they think because it's none of my business my business is what I want what I feel what I think and what I need

If he want to call me a jackass it's okay it's just the word it's not going to make their life any better it's not going to make mine any worse I've been called worse but my belief is my business and I try to stay out of everybody's business

So I guess what I'm trying to say just because you think something doesn't mean that you're right and just because you think something doesn't mean that I think the same thing because first of all I don't know what they think because I'm not involved with them or their world I didn't even know this was happening and now that I do I don't care sorry it does not affect me one way or the other whoever affects should do something about it not try to put it on other people

overlord337645 · Answer

honestly i feel like its an attraction thing for me there is a certain weight over the limit that i am ok with for some women specifically ones i like however i also feel like with ones i dont like i can't really say much there because i would not have a clear picture of there personality and finnally after a certain weight no one is attractive men nor women and honestly id say men get judged for weight to because we are supposed to defend y'all and be polite but after a certain weight no matter how hard you try your not gonna move very far very fast

Summeroflove · Answer

People who think they are entitled to another person and that someone owes them shit is hilarious. In fact there are women who are overweight who are with great men but they have something going for them most of them time they are good women.

Another common problem is that people take romantic and/or sexual rejection as a personal one which many times (sometimes it may be) it’s not it just means someone isn’t interested.

But it’s the equivalent of men who refuse to take care of themselves and are just nasty slobby people and wonder why nobody really desires them. Most people can be attractive if they put some sort of effort into themselves. I’m not saying to take it to the extreme but at least shower once a day and put some deodorant on. Some people can’t even do that much less use a toothbrush.

MisterWack · Answer

I mean look, I don’t care.

I’m not in their body and or mindset…. They could be going through personal issues, mental health concerns, and more than what lies at the surface. Hell it could be a really sweet, nice, and loving loyal woman under that exterior & men don’t give her the chance due to concerns….

The fact is, there are people who are overweight due to the situation in this ‘American Dream’ Nation where unhealthy foods are cheaper, more accessible, and we don’t talk about / educating about one’s mental health which leads to self medication in forms of alcohol, smoking, and overeating. Let’s talk about empathy / compassion while dealing with the multilayered facets that led us to this in order to uplift our fellow American NOT tear them down. Thank you, God Bless You!

michalpl00 · Answer

I think it’s disgusting and bad. I think being fat is unhealthy and people promote it is messed up. showing fat girls winning beauty awards is just absurd. Health should be promoted. Healthy people. Just because people have been hating on fat people they now did the opposite and glorify it. It’s sick. It’s like telling your ugly best friend that he will get girls because be is good looking fully knowing he won't. Stop being nice and people pleasing. And just be honest. This is a real exemple. I told my friend. Brother go the gym everyday, dress nicely and work on your social skills and you will get a girl. And thats my honest opinion. I really believe he can get a girl. But I am not telling him bullshit. Same with fat people. Sorry it’s unhealthy and unattractive. And i wouldn’t even hook up with someone who doesn’t take care of themselves. Anyone can loose weight but not everyone will put in the work.

molonski2 · Answer

Fatties are just Fatties , with lazy fat attitudes , while trying to blame everyone else , yet the fault is theirs , it cannot be justified , they are just disgusting slobs with no discipline , everyone needs to focus to be their best possible self.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I snub my nose at them... they don't accept fat guys and expect guys to be like this for them being fat... Those women are the queens of double standards.

ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW · Answer

The same way I feel about men being fat and too lazy to do something about it. It's unhealthy, destructive behavior and should not be praised. They shouldn't be insulted, either. But we shouldn't pretend that it's ok.

HighValue · Answer

It isjust one of the many reasons to avoid American women for a relationship. Even the ones that aren't fat are very often unfit physically. They can't keep up with physical activities, but they are often too ignorant to realize that slim does not necessarily mean fit.

adventurous-1 · Answer

Question: how many men do women accept as they are? Many women have a higher opinion of themselves than is realistic to many men, Men like what they like and each man is different but you're not going to change a man's choices just because you don't agree with his preferences. Do you prefer heavy, overweight men, it goes both ways.

ashakantasharma · Answer

The reality is that men, like women, have diverse preferences and attitudes when it comes to relationships and physical attraction. While some may not be attracted to women who are overweight, many men appreciate confidence, self-acceptance, and authenticity, regardless of body type. It's also important to recognize that personal attraction is just one facet of a meaningful relationship. Attraction to someone's character, humor, intelligence, and kindness often outweighs physical appearance in the long term.

Levin · Answer

I guess we live in this topsy turvy world where caring about your health is a weirdness.

But it's fundamentally not physically attractive and it's just indicative of slobbiness and lack of care.

Far Eastern beauty standards are far more preferable for me.

I'm not attracted to anyone 7kg or more overweight.

in my opinion, no girl should be over 60kg (130lbs) unless she's really tall or genuinely broad in structure.

Yes, I'm not exactly PC.

genericname85 · Answer

my thoughts are: you can mope all you want. being fat is your fault and it is in your power to change that if you wanna be attractive to men. and don't give me that "but there's certain diseases that make losing weight hard". suck it up buttercup. we all got our package to carry and something being hard is not an excuse not to do it.

Unit1 · Answer

Welcome to accountability I'd say. It must be their first time. However there's always going to be  accepting them.

RHK36 · Answer

I'm more upset at the question asked. Break up your thoughts girl. I guess when society says it's pretty normal and healthy to embrace fat men then it'll be okay for women. Instead the message shouldn't be thin or fat is better rather it's better to be healthier. As of consequence being healthier will most likely make you stay in better shape 🤷🏻

BarryLiverstone · Answer

It’s a positive if people have a healthy lifestyle and feel motivated to eat right and stay active. Feeling proud of those decisions should be celebrated and encouraged as the opposite may lead to depression and unhealthy habits resulting in morbid obesity which obv no one can be proud of

lorenzomichael · Answer

This and I have a couple of limits that I live by. I have a drinking limit a time limit a gambling limit and a weight limit so with that said. Listen don’t drink to much that you end up drunk. Don’t gamble all your money away because you’ll end up broke. Don’t wait too long for anything because life will pass you by. and never date a Big woman Because we’re not in the fat chicks.

foxsquirrell · Answer

If they don't want to remain upset about men not being interested in them because they are obese they better put there pride aside and lose weight. After all if they can be proud of being obese why can't they be proud of being in good shape and sexy?

strateguy632 · Answer

Well for me it is a turn off... i interpreted instinct nature is to associate with pregnant that temporarily cannot "continue the species" survival.

Fat is a risk of dangers, so bad if justified or praised.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

They can be as fat as they like.

I still won't accept them... as a romantic partner.

As persons, well: fatties usually slow me down and obstruct my view; But I will tolerate them behind me, or somewhere less close :)

Dargil · Answer

Some sort of derangement. Maybe feminist based. Why men recruit from the Orient. Those women have more pride rather than defiance.

lightbulb27 · Answer

poor American diets, lack of balanced life. that's life...

Danny_dan92 · Answer

These same women want a man that is fit and muscular. They can kick rocks with their double standards

WowGIrl4ever · Answer

They feel the same way women do when they get a really proud guy, with a really small penis who wants us to pretend it's average and accept it.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Obesity is gross and unhealthy, ignoring that is a sign of low intelligence, which in of itself is also offputting..

DannyUk2017 · Answer

You don't want me to answer that "subject"...🤦‍♂️😅😂

Jupiter1 · Answer

Being overweight is equal (or worse) to being unhealthy. Who the hell would be proud of being unhealthy?

captain_voidwalker · Answer

As a man who is over weight let me be clear. This is not something to be proud of, it's bad for your health and it makes life harder. Stop acting like it's a good thing it's not.

DtMe89 · Answer

As wrong as when a woman defines a guy by his height, right?

KrakenAttackin · Answer

They will say Lizzo is a "10", but if you say they "kinda look like Lizzo", they will lose their shit.

Amur8711 · Answer

They're elevator clearly doesn't go to the top. Probably best to just leave them weed that out by natural selection.

jjj101010 · Answer

Their opinion of themselves shouldn’t impact my opinion of them, I mean I bet Hitler thought he was going a good thing it doesn’t mean everyone else has to agree with them.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Because of women who doesn’t take care of her body and destructive for her health and looks

Pohjolan · Answer

They have made their bed. Now they sleep in it.

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody is entitled to another person. If you want to find someone & be happy, you have to put in the work.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

IM SURE THERE'S A GUY DESPERATE ENOUGH TO FUCK THEM

Innerdesire · Answer

I love bigger woman. Problem is women don't like bigger men

Anonymous · Answer

most fat women fart a lot and stink in their private areas hard to have sex with a woman like that

Anonymous · Answer

Most women don't want to date me because I am short. So turn about seems to be fair play.

exitseven · Answer

How do you have sex with somebody that fat?

es20490446e · Answer

Acceptance shall be the door for improvement.

jahaims · Answer

Other people can ruin their lives idc.

Graptemys79 · Answer

Are there more overweight women than men?

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