Is it true women strategize breakups?

[Anonymous]

They already have another potential replacement 🤔

[naartjie]

Generally speaking I’d say no because more often than not women are blind and don’t want to let go of a guy even if he’s being horrible and trying to leave her. Women are even more likely to stay with a man after he cheats… due to the nurturing, emotional investment, hope for change/ fix a bad problem, our tendency to want reconciliation etc
The really shitty women will of course have people lined up but for the most part nahhh, most women are just dumb for men who are idiots lol.
So many times even on here I see women asking “what do I do” or “what do I say to him” or “how can I get his attention” or “does he still like me?” Or “why is he being like this” and the guys completely ghosted her and she’s still trying to figure out what to do, hopes he probably still cares otherwise they wouldn’t be asking the questions…

[Asker]

You did makes some excellent points there ngl, I guess for them to have a strategy for breakups it would only happen with people that don't take relationship serious in the first place 🤔

[naartjie]

Haha yeah exactly

[Asker]

🤯🤯🤯

[Caroline91]

I think it depends on the individual. Also, for as many women who are "blind" there are just as many, or more, who are not. And everything said here about some women can definitely be said about some men.

[Asker]

I dont doubt that

[naartjie]

@Caroline91 talking about more likely. 100% the same could be said about men HOWEVER I’m talking about who is more likely to be this way. I don’t even think it’s bad that women are more likely like this, it’s just sad to see women still chase a man who is not worth it. I’m just saying women are more likely to not have men lined up and are more likely to be hung up on a guy.

[Booboolove69]

In my opinion, no I don’t think that women strategize break ups. I think most women are really trying to hold onto the guy, but there are times honestly that a woman will push me away without being upfront about things so it’s kind of 50-50 on that one.

[Asker]

It can go either ways I guess 🤔

[Booboolove69]

You’re right

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, some not so great women will have some guy they can string along til they feel better about a break up.. But I believe many women just use their friends and family to get over a breakup..

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is 100% true. It gives them power and leverage.

[Asker]

I shouldve made this a poll 🤔

[Booboolove69]

Can you still make it a poll?

[Asker]

I don't think so 🙃

[Booboolove69]

Bummer

[MemeSupreme]

people who always feel like they gotta be in a relationship do that

[Asker]

Yep indeed so, thanks for sharing momo lol

[alice55]

Some do I know my sister do, personally I never had a boyfriend so 🤷‍♀️

‘but I think it’s kinda cheating to do those kind of stuff

[Asker]

Yep it means they are talking and spending time with other people, most likely not friendship wise

[alice55]

Yes once they see their « friend » is relationship material then they break up some Time they Even use the person as reboun and stay less than 1 months with them before entering another relationship with someone else.

It’s most likely a flirty friendship there s so many like that

[Asker]

Yea too many, actually there's more of those than there are actual normal friendships

[alice55]

This is crazy it feel like they don’t take the relationship seriousky if they do this 🤡

[Asker]

You mean friendship cause if so then most likely not, it would probably mean their intentions isn't a friendship 🫠

[RageBabe]

Perhaps it is true for some women, but not all.

[Asker]

Wheew that's good 😮‍💨

The guy friends were starting to make a lot more sense 😂

[Asker]

Many women can be persistent on guy friends for some suspicious reason

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yeah they write it down on a board like the football plays 😂

[Asker]

Damn full on strategized lol

[msc545]

True. A taller, better-looking, wealthier replacement is on call at all times.

[dudeinohio]

It is true. Happened to me.

[Asker]

Oof.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Until menopause steals their looks and we lads can get the hot young lasses !!!

[Anonymous]

Maybe some of them, but probably no all the women.

[Asker]

I agree indeed

[Miah06]

Some do

[MikeRJ]

I doubt it.