Who knows your biggest weakness/vulnerability?

[DishLady]

Do you tend to keep everything private? Who (if anyone) is worthy of knowing your true vulnerabilities?

I'm an open book. Everyone knows me with full transparency.

I only tell people I trust SIGNIFICANTLY about my weaknesses.

I don't share my weaknesses with anyone. It's nobody's business.

I'm not aware of any weaknesses. I've never had to assess myself or wonder about them.

[OlderAndWiser]

I try to be very transparent with my wife, because I know what problems can come from secrets in a marriage, even when those secrets are well intentioned.

I am also candid with my best friend. I met him on my first day of college in August, 1971 - 54 years ago. He has never been judgmental with me and I trust him more than any of my family members.

[Orion84]

Not to sound arrogant, but even I'm not aware of my weaknesses.

I'm sure I have some, I just don't know that I've ever identified them. More to the point, I've never cared enough to.

Although, if I did, I most likely wouldn't tell anyone what they were.

[DishLady]

It's not arrogant. Some folks don't see their weaknesses bc they don't spend too much time dwelling on them. I'll say that I know my limitations, though, bc there are people I count on for things that I don't have the bandwidth to manage on my own.

[Orion84]

That makes sense, thanks.

It sounds a little better saying in that way, and probably how I will, in the future. I just don't dwell on them.

I've pretty much always relied on myself, because I was always the guy running to everyone else's aid, but on the rare occasions in which I would ever ask for help, not a damn person would lift a finger to do so.

So I just became as self sufficient as possible, and learned not to rely on others, or expect anyone to be there when I needed them.

[DishLady]

I was like that till I was 45. Before that if anyone asked me to do something I would just figure out how to do it. Now I know there's no reason to do everything on my own, HOWEVER I only trust a few v reliable people and still still to a small circle of trusted confidants.

[loveyouoak]

I only tell people I trust SIGNIFICANTLY about my weaknesses.

[BadApple69]

I am an open book BUT I have no vulnerabilities that I know of. Maybe kryptonite…. Not sure. Those who know me, know that when danger is near I step in front of everyone else. That’s the way I’ve always been. That really helps me be a damn good first responder, I have the awards to prove it. I know it sounds like a boast but really it’s a curse.

[HawkPerception]

I'm pretty much an open book and anyone can ask me anything, but I think my best friend definitely understands my weaknesses and vulnerabilities more than anyone. He's the most aware of them when when interacting with me.

[exitseven]

My best friend knows about it but he died year go and took it with him,.

[DishLady]

Aww. :(

I'm so sorry to hear that. RIP.

(I thought you'd say your wife!)

[exitseven]

as far as she knows i have no weaknesses.

[DishLady]

Hahaha. I'm sure she has a short list.

[exitseven]

hahahhahan I am sure you are right

[TheoreticallyGreat]

I can open up fairly easily if I feel comfortable enough.

[worldscolide]

There is just one person, my wife. No one else.

[DishLady]

As it should be. ❤️

[Phoenix98]

Very few if any people know that.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

I don't think anyone knows

[Desi_Butcher]

Nobody!!

[Anonymous]

Girls I like I guess.