Why do I like her all of of a sudden?

[Anonymous]

I been hanging out with this girl everyday for the past week . She been inviting me to hangout. At first I seen her as a friend now that we been hanging out I'm starting to think a lot about her. I'm not thinking sexually about her. The only thing is she has a boyfriend but why am I feeling this way about her?

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Wrong category.

[nate18]

because you like her. even if your not thinking sexually most likely your still physically attracted to her and her personality. plus you spend a lot of time together, that makes it easy to start liking somebody. no doubt she's thought about you in some way as well.

[Asker]

She telling her boyfriend about me and he mad at her because she always wiith me. She spent a couple of hours to make him stop being jealous. But I hate that I think about her when we are not around each other. We never had a dull moment when we are around each other. She always texting me and making physical contact with me.

[nate18]

she likes you and you like her. her boyfriend has every right to be jealous. how long have they been together? what's they're situation like?

[Asker]

He broke up with her in September after she visited her hometown state. The same state he is in. Now he got in a financial bind he started trying to get back with her after 3 months. But she was on the phone with him and she told him she was with me. He heard my voice he got upset with her. This was last night early in the a.m. she texted me asking me to chill with her. She told me she like being around me and chilling with me but that's it because she has a boyfriend. I'm cool with that.

[nate18]

so they're together or not together? if they're together you can't really do much but help her out. and if your in the friend zone then your fuked now. but possibly she could like you and is waiting to break up with her boyfriend. sounds like he's just using her for stability. wait long enough keep her interested in you and shell be yours eventually.

[Asker]

The funny thing is that's how they started dating.

[nate18]

stay a slight bit flirty with her and keep hinting that you like her, but not a lot. you still have to leave enough room for her to wonder if you really do or not. that way you'll keep her interest.

[nate18]

how did they start dating? just add me lol. easier to chat. if you want

[Asker]

Oh I do but I notice her getting jealous. I can be like wow she has a nice shape. She would say something like I use to have curves but I lost it after I gave birth. I would say something like you got a nice body to you can get it. She smiles turn red and says boy you crazy.