Why do I like this girl so much all of a sudden?

[Anonymous]

Like, I don't get it. Before I met her, I would say she isn't my type but then I met her and she just like fills my mind I guess. <- I don't want to sound cringy there by the way lol but this girl (looks wise) is nothing like any girl I have liked. Does anyone have an answer for this?

[MrsTurkleton]

Perhaps there is about her that intrigues you? She may be very charismatic. Some people have a certain energy about them. They walk into a room and everybody notices them. It’s the way the carry themselves and how they interact etc.

I’ve met a couple of guys who were very different to the types of guys I was used to dealing with, and it was those guys who I was most attracted to.

It happens more often than you think

[MrsTurkleton]

I think also that if we see someone often enough, our mind seems to subconsciously wonder, hypothetically, if we would date them given the chance, & if we start to see them as a potential romantic interest, It shifts things

[Asker]

Ok this makes a lot of sense with like 90% of the girls I have liked in the past 3 years LOL all have been at that job. But also, so, I've got a friend that me and her got into a little somewhat relationship thingy on and off for about a year. We in fact worked at that job together until I recently quit lol and she still works there. So when we talk on facetime we make scenarios of co-workers having... "interactions) ;) with us mid-shift and doing a lot of extreme flirtatious activities. But that might cause me and her to think that way. But the stories are the funniest I tell you

[Asker]

Makes sense because when I was with her I felt like I could tell her anything and she was so easy to talk to off the start. But I made a clear sign I liked her on 2 occasions lol. So first time, we both work at a grocery store and I bag and cashier but in this case I am bagging until a customer comes up. But I was open on register 1 and she was on register 6, which is probably a good 600 feet away from each register. So, luckily it wasn't busy but when a customer came I ran but when the customer left I ran back. Then this is my second case of me making it obvious , I ended at 9 and she ended at 10. This is my last day working at this place, so I knew if I wanted to talk to her in person this is the only chance I have unless I ask her to hangout and we're not that close yet. So, she was like "wanna stay and help me bag" I was like "uhhh yeah" and I did. But luckily she still texts me and associates with me. But now this dude I used to work with that I know has this girl he recently broke up with and she is starting to talk to me and I am like hmmm he unfollowed me on everything after he quit the job so maybe I can go in and get the girl since I have liked her for a looooooong time and me and the guy aren't even really friends anyways so doesn't violate the friend code.

[Cecinene]

You may say she is not your type but you can't deny nature.
That is why it is not good to look down on people

[Asker]

I mean I'm not looking down on her. I'm just saying she isn't the type of person looks-wise that I would date. Personality tho, yes I would date 100% it's just the looks aspect is so random and out of the ordinary from the other girls I've liked. But she is a very beautiful girl no doubt

[Cecinene]

😏🙄🤨

[Guy13]

What about her mystique has caught you this time?

[EveryDayNolan]

I really like this girl bc I have known her for 1 year now and really think she is nice and cool