Do girls like being checked out?

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure they do but how should I go about it. Should I have a like 5 second state and smile or a quick look and continue on?

[NymphoVic]

Yes, if you just glance quickly, it's unlikely she'll even notice it. My friends usually have to tell me I'm even being checked out for me to even notice! But if you want her to notice, PLEASE do not stare for a minute straight, press your face against the glass from outside the restaurant and then come in offering your number, make lewd comments (I'd like to take you home tonight, looking good, want to taste some dark chocolate ponytail?, mmmm sexy lady, damn you fine, etc.), follow her to her car hours after seeing her on the beach knowing her name and nude, try to ask her out while she's taking out her kid sister, or wear that stupid devilish grin that guys wear...it makes girls feel like guys are trying to possess them with a look, and makes them want to just take a shower and scrub their skin raw. It is most certainly appreciated if you just do the once over as you're walking by, followed by a smile, and, this is important, EYE contact! If you look, look away, look back (repeat process), it's also fine, and frankly flattering. Just be careful about crossing that line, the one which separates you from the guys that make girls resort to walking around with headphones, and look at the ground/ above people's faces so they can travel in peace.

~~~~~PS. I don't walk about in revealing or body hugging outfits. In fact, I wear many of my grandmother's old sweaters and skirts, and dress rather conservatively, so it's not like I'm asking for it when I go out.

[mirrors-sideways]

Yup girls love being checked out. Atleast all the ones I know, myself included. It's flattering.

I'd say a 5 second stare and quick smile would be good. If you just quickly look I don't think a girl would realize you're even checking her out. Just don't stare too long cause that would just creep her out!

[f4l9d98]

No matter how classy a girl is or seems to be, every girl likes to be checked out. Especially if it's attractive guys and she knows she has a nice body. Girls love attention for sure.

[Asker]

Probably the best answer I've gotten so far

[asdaven]

Depends how you do it. If you flat out stare at them for a length of time, you could come off as desperate, perverted, or just plain creepy. The thing to do, which I do is check them out only up until they notice you then look awau and back to what your doing and just do that off and on. It ll make her ask herself if that guy is checking her out or is she just imagining things. Then when she makes eye contact with you, keep it brief and shoot her a quick smile. Then, look away again. Did he just smile at me? LOL

[TedStar]

I don't do it is much after a group of girls all gave me a thirsty look and I totally felt like a piece of meat. It was uncomfortable and I didn't know what they were even thinking. It was confusing. Nowadays I'll have a glance, look them in the eye and smile. Then I'm on my way.

[lumos]

Yeah, as long as you're not being sleazy about it. A quick glance and a smile is flattering, a blatant stare up and down my body is disgusting.

[Asker]

Ya I mainly mean the face. You know when your walking in a grocery store and look at a girl or drive by and look at her. I didn't know whether or not to stare at her a little long or to just make quick eye contact and look away.

[lumos]

Just quick eye contact would probably be safer. I can't really come up with any situation where staring would be fine (unless you're in a relationship with someone of course). Imo, staring is mostly just rude but can also be disgusting depending on how you stare. Quick glances are basically the way to go, and many girls/women (including myself) find quick glances cute and flattering (as long as you're glancing at... the more appropriate areas).

[Asker]

Lol thanks.

[udolipixie]

Do girls like being checked out?

Some gals do and some gals don't. I'm the latter hence why when I catch a guy looking at me I give him my middle finger call him creepy in a loud voice to draw others attention to him as almost always the audience comments on him making him feel bad.

Should I have a like 5 second state and smile or a quick look and continue on?

Do whatever you want.

[mona90]

You do that for a quick glance at your boobs as well? You must be angry very often then.

[udolipixie]

@mona90

Yes I a quick glance at my boobs is checking me out. No I'm not angry very often as I do it out of amusement and annoyance.

[Winteredrose5162]

Props for being honest!

[jpinka]

yes we do. but please don't stare all day and if your going to please say hi lol

i don't mind guys checking me out. I get it a lot I just don't like the creepy guys and old old men starring at my boobs. yea I had a grandpa sit on a train and looked my boobs then back at me the whole time which was annoying

[alltheabove1212]

Of course they like being looked at. If you look like Ryan Gosling it doesn't matter how creepy you are/how long you stare, they will be complimented.

Check them out but not for 5 seconds. If anything I'd recommend checking them out, then if they make eye contact just give a little smile

[live4music]

No matter what you hear girls say they love getting checked out especially if they are having a bad day, it's a nice little confidence builder. How to do it only look until she notices and then look away quick like you weren't trying to get caught, if she keeps looking at you periodically afterward, I think she's into you bro.

[Anonymous]

The truth is, not all girls do and if they don't they make it obvious.

Hence why I cover up and wear slightly loose clothing to ward off stares. If a girl is covered up and looks like she is NOT trying to get attention, then in all likelihood she doesn't want guys checking her out.

[MalloryJay]

I don't like it if you're some 50 year old man checking out an 18 year old girl. That's creepy. If you're around my age and I think you're attractive then sure, I like it.

[Asker]

Ya I'm not 50..

[Winteredrose5162]

I think she's using "you" as "one," not referring to the QA.

[Asker]

Ya I know

[AnathemA381]

Most of them enjoy getting checked out, but it immediately raises their value above yours, so if you check out a girl there's little to no chance you could successfully approach her.

[loulou202]

I don't mind it as long as your hot or cute. Looking in the eye and giving a quick smile is fine, just don't keep staring at look at us like we're a piece a meat.

[gummybear888]

keep it subtle and classy.

no one is going to say no to flattery lol.

I just can't stand it if a guy is in his car and honks or yells, whistles etc...very irritating

[Anonymous]

If you look at us like a piece of meat then that's not attractive. But a quick glance and a smile is always nice.

[Asker]

Ya that's what I mean. But I didn't know if staring into a girls eyes real long is too awkward or not.

[sunshine1212]

of course they do! I like when girls check me out, but if you want to pursue don't look til she does and smile confidence is the name of the game. good luck

[KellyC]

I think it's cool as long as the guy don't go all out with the doggie calls and stuff. If it's like that then it gets old fast..

[3336PS]

i get really embarrassing and uncomfortable when being stare for too long.

what you said make sense...more natural :)

[TangerineFire1]

Yes, of course. As long as it is not in some creepy way.

[BelladeVegas]

Only if she got trapped by those two beautiful eyes... ;)

[RedSmartie]

It's a nice confidence boost at times but if you're too blatant then it's creepy.

[naima17]

Depends on the folks doing the *checkin. If its some creep off the steeet. NO. IF its some dude who is driving by(whistling and tooting). No. If its a group of peers at Uni, mall or club...then fine.

[stillagoodgirl]

I don't because I get nervous but a smile is better than plain staring since I don't know if the guy was looking at me weirdly or what

[Ishtar]

Of course we do, as long as the guy keeps his hands to himself haha

[JMCha]

I love it when people look at me. It makes me feel pretty. I love it when a guy(s) looks at me continuously and smiles every time.

[ForeverYours39]

Yeah I just do it up and when she looks give a sweet smile.. not a creepy/sexual one~ lol

[WaleedHassanien]

" not a creepy/sexual one~ lol" :D :D or like horny dogs :D :D

[ForeverYours39]

Exactly~

[redridinghood]

i love it as long as the guy don't look like a weirdo :)

[emzy-89]

I like it, as long as it's not in a creepy sleazey way

[tiredofwaiting]

Well whether or not they like it if they are easy on the eyes they will but I don't mind it as long as they keep the hands to themselves :)

[Anonymous]

I usually don't like...especially if the guy is old! Or if he stares for too long...but I love it if a guy smiles at me..it's nice and it's not that creepy!

[RebeccaSJ]

Even though I'm married, I still enjoy it. It's flattering.

[Kass1964]

I don't. It's creepy.

[Asker]

Why is it creepy? I'm not talking about like staring at you and your body, just making quick eye contact and smiling.

[Kass1964]

That's not checking someone out then, that's just looking at them and smiling. That doesn't really bother me very much. But when they just stare at your body like your nothing (like you have no feelings)then it does bother me. It makes me sick.

[Asker]

Yea maybe I chose the wrong choice of words

[MakeLoveNotWar]

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[Winteredrose5162]

@makelove: hahahahaha omg I forgot about that gif. Lmao!

[Kass1964]

LOL! That gif is awesome.

[Shooter-McGavin]

By men who are better than them, yes.

[Anonymous]

Yes if you're hot look longer hah!

[danielle1995]

of course. Just don't be creepy.

[Anonymous]

The latter.

[Asker]

The latter?

[Anonymous]

yea its flattering.

[Anonymous]

Course I do