Girls , do you like being checked out from time to time?

[Reem12345reem]

[Finchie40]

Most girls’ seek validation so even though some will say it’s creepy that a guy checks her out , she still enjoys it deep down inside or she wouldn’t be dressing like she does period, she takes her
Time dressing up , because she wants attention, to feel good about herself period Most guys do the same as well, so Most people in general like being checked out from time to time, it mainly comes down to who is checking them out , if the person checking them out is attractive or handsome then they love every second of it , if they aren’t attractive or handsome they are automatically creeped out or act like they don’t see the person checking them out , for the most part. Most people in general are hypocrites when it comes to shit like this Just because you aren’t attracted to someone or you are already in a relationship with someone , it doesn’t mean you have to be rude to that person checking you out , Most people Need to get that stick out of their ass and realize there shit stinks the same as others as well. I can’t stand people that think their shit don’t stink period and act like they are the best thing walking on this planet. But sadly we don’t truly know what someone’s intentions are when they are checking you out , Sadly this shit will never change , because most people in general are selfish people that only think about themselves. If people actually learned to be respectful and learned how to remove selfishness, and learned not to be rude and disrespectful, this world would be a much better place period. But sadly it will never change , I blame social media for a lot of it , Brainwashing people’s minds to think they need to look a certain way to be accepted and that’s what’s wrong with this world , this world is filled with Greed , and lack of respect and trust for each other , there would be no War, if we all could just get along but sadlyWar has been going on for centuries because of Greed , Life is 2 sides of a coin, Good and Bad , Positive and Negative , ect… so that’s why most of us are lost and unsure what direction to turn to , I taught myself to be as content as possible and just appreciate the things I have , If a girl checks me out and I am not attracted to her, I am still polite to her and flattered that she spotted me , if she didn’t take No for an answer then that’s when I will be rude , No reason to be rude right from the start.

[RavVid]

I started hitting a sweet spot quite a few years ago and found it depends on how you look as to what reaction you get.

If you look at a girl with "Phoar I love tits" in the front of your mind the best you can hope for is a stony face and a glare.

If how ever you look at a girl with "Phoar her breasts are magic" the response is entirely different. She'll smile, look pleased and go on her way happy. Sometimes the girl will put a little show on for you - that's happened many times.

In the first the girl knows that any tits work for you but in the second case it is her tits that have worked magic and that is a very different scenario. In the first you are yet another perv but in the second you are an admirer. It is fairly natural that girls would react differently.

The very best responses are when the girl knows she has interrupted something urgently important like itching my ear. I was having coffee at a street cafe table and did indeed have an imperative ear itch but there was a good looking girl that caused itch interruptus. She walked up to my table, stooped so I could see that little bit deeper and wriggled her cleavage at me then walked on very pleased with her new push up bra.

I like making girls happy.

[mandyfire98]

It happens and I'm normally aware when it's happening usually. I'm ok with it as long as it's not like prolonged staring. As long as it doesn't get creepy.

[caitycat21]

No, I hate it. It makes me self conscious, I have social anxiety so I don’t enjoy people looking at me period

[CoolCatMar1]

I love attention but i actually prefer being private haha

[serious]

If the woman is beautiful as per my definition then I will notice, look but not stare or check her out.

[Anonymous]

I don’t but I do like to be noticed. There’s a difference. Someone noticing that I look good is more discreet, where checking me out would involve a guy staring at me long enough to make me uncomfortable.

[Nxtawm]

Hmm not rlly, I’m neutral about it, I don’t rlly notice if I’m stared at anyways

[Anonymous]

Yeah I don’t mind it. Just don’t talk to me unless. I don’t dress to impress I dress for myself. And if someone likes what they see then go ahead and look but don’t touch. I like one guy so.

[DerekC321]

I might have a quick glance but I don't stare. I try not to be rude but like if I'm at the beach I might see a hot woman and get hard (a girl noticed it one time)

[Averageguy69420]

Not a girl, but i never know when I'm being checked out. When I was in college doing grocery shopping, my room mate said a girl was checking me out and it was a bit of a confidence booster.

[inhua]

only by hot guys. it's considered offensive when average and below average guys look

[Reem12345reem]

how did u know lol

[Reem12345reem]

well to be fair we prefer it by the guys we like or have a crush on and some are average guys that we might like

[inhua]

safety is a woman's most important attribute and she don't feel safe with an ugly man looking her way

if spiders, snakes and cockroaches can scare women, ugly men definitely can scare women.

there's a reason why most supervillains are depicted as ugly because ugly people supposedly have evil intentions

[Reem12345reem]

makes sense , then why men think that girls don't care about looks?

[inhua]

those men have been lied to whether by other men (namely pickup artists and dating coaches) who want to scam men by leading them astray or by women who like to virtue signal so they don't appear as shallow even though lying to preserve feelings is more insulting than revealing the cold harsh truth

[Reem12345reem]

yeah but it's only important in the initial attraction , but if an average man showed his personality like being funny and confident then his looks don't matter

[inhua]

the initial attraction is where most men stop at. even then the average man is held to a different standard than an attractive man and there's less margin for error for him

movies like Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey wouldn't be allowed to exist if Edward Cullen was played by Seth Rogan instead of Robert Pattinson and Christian Grey was played by Zach Braff instead of Jamie Dornan. replace them with Peter Dinklage or Danny Devito and those "romantic" movies become horror movies

[Reem12345reem]

what do u mean the initial attraction is where most men stop at?

[inhua]

looks is said to get someone into the door and personality keeps them there, problem is most men can not get into the door hence that is where they stop

the majority of men do not past the bare minimum threshold of looks for the majority of women. for example is one of the major factors in determining physical attractiveness but only 15% of men are over 6 feet tall. 85% of men are under 6 feet tall and 6 foot has become the bare minimum "standard"

just as there is a huge wealth gap between rich men and poor men, there's a huge attractiveness gap between hot men and ugly men

[Reem12345reem]

yeah but if he accoplished the personality test then there's no need to get into the door bc the whole intention from the door is to see his personality

[inhua]

there's still an expectation of what his personality should be like based on what he looks like.

for example a skinny nerdy looking guy wouldn't be expected to have a macho personality as opposed to a gym-rat, such a personality looks weird and fake (even if actually genuine) on the skinny guy but is perfectly fine on the gym-rat

which is why the whole Jonah Hill/Sarah Brady saga blew up so much because Jonah Hill visually looks like a simp who would allow his girlfriend to do anything and Sarah Brady is supposedly out of his league and people made a big deal out of him having boundaries which wouldn't have happened with Brad Pitt or Leonardo Di Caprio

[Reem12345reem]

yeah but that doesn't mean girls reject guya based on looks only

[inhua]

looks are the vast majority of rejections for everyone regardless of gender. if someone doesn't find another person physically attractive at all, no amount of sweet talking and inner beauty is going change their mind. perhaps in the movies but not in real life

[Reem12345reem]

I've had crushes on guys that i don't find physically attractive

[inhua]

well I can guarantee they weren't hideous

[Christoff92]

I would stare at girls that would look down and smile. So yes.

[Emii_Urashima]

Depends on who is doing the checking.

[baylua]

Do you like it?

[baylua]

Sorry that wasn't for you ughh

[Reem12345reem]

@emii_urashima same if i have a crush on him then i'd be happy if he did that lol , but if he's a random guy then it's a bit uncomfortable

[sheenagwapa]

yes i do... i am a beauty enthusiast and so i wanna look attractive

[Pinay_ako]

Whoever says No is lying 😒 . Goes both ways

[Canuck2]

Very true. It’s a compliment to have someone find you attractive

[Wise4myage]

Most girls love it and that's so many girls dress sexy.

[Anonymous]

No. I don’t like any direct or indirect interaction with males.

[Fuentes]

I check out all Women if the ass phat or perfectly round.

[Nikki1989]

It is all kinda meaningless now.

[supercutebutt]

Because of your advanced age?

[Nikki1989]

@supercutebutt Yes, I am ancient at 34. 🤦‍♀️

[sheikalana]

I never appreciated that.

[Zoi86]

Of course I love breaking necks.

[Exterminatore]

No. Girls hate attention.

[LavLavLuv]

Nope

[Awantika03]

It's good 👍

[Tstrbrainer]

Do they?

[Reem12345reem]

yeah unless it's crepy than no , depends from girl to girl tbh