Do you like it when people check you out?

[sikoo31]

if you think or feel someone is checking you out, do you like it or does it creep you out a little?

what if you catch someone looking at you?

does it mater if they're attractive?

for me, I like it if I see a cute or sexy girl looking at me like that cause that means they're someone I could go and talk to.

I like it

I don't like it

I don't care

Depends if they're attractive

Updates

+1 y

i think this shows girls can be more superficial than guys.

[Jawless]

I've never cared, really. I never went looking for a relationship - it found me. I've been told that makes me lucky. But oh well.

If someone was checking me out, I would be creeped out. Because I'm not attractive.

Aside from that, I get uncomfortable and hot under the collar when people are looking at me, and even if that person was checking me out or thinking 'dayum' in their head, I'd still think they were mentally calculating that they were actually freaked out by me, or simply just staring into space, day dreaming.

Their looks don't really matter, but obviously, the more handsome or attractive they are the more likely I'm going to think they are actually thinking bad things, as why would they be thinking something else, really? It wouldn't make sense to me, anyway.

I wouldn't approach someone who I didn't know even if they were beckoning me, calling out to me (not by name, obviously) or crying for help, now that you mention it. So I certainly wouldn't think of them as someone I could approach and chat casually to, lol. I have issues.

So yeah, long story short, I voted C. :)

[sikoo31]

you just need a more confidence man, that's why you get nervous I think.

but yeah I get all hot too, like when the teacher calls on me in class.

[Jawless]

Eh, my issues are known and unfortunately difficult to fix.

I'm better on the fringe of everything anyway, and I don't really want to change that. Still, I'm happy in my current relationship and now I have someone else, I'll probably scoff at people checking me out, if ignore them completely, as normal, lol.

[sikoo31]

haha well that's good, I'm glad.

[InquisitiveMale]

Love it. When ever I catch a girl glimpsing I always take time to stare back. They are so often like a deer in headlights once they know they've been caught. After that they become all self-conscious and keep on darting their eyes back and forth. If you can spark up a conversation your almost certain to get a date at that point.

[sikoo31]

haha yeah I've noticed that, they just keep checking haha

[CaliCourtney]

It depends, if I think I don't look that good at the moment I would probably dislike it. Cause I'm self-conscious at that time. BUT if I know that I'm dressed to kill and I look my best then I LOVE IT, makes me feel awsome. It's EVEN BETTER when it's the guy you have a crush on chekin' you out, just showin' what you got girl! The best part is that while I'm walking by I glance at him with my eyes looking all flirty and seductive and with my hair flowin', just making eye-contact for a split second and then look right away! Seeing the reaction on his face is priceless, it's good to know that he likes what he sees, makes me feel so awsome, and hottt!

[sikoo31]

haha I'm glad something so simple can make you feel so good.

that's why I say, "its all about the little things"

[CaliCourtney]

You're right, It's true!

Even if he turns around just to take a quick look at me trying to look as discrete as he possible can, I feel fantastic... he looks away and I bite my lips and smile like crazy! BAM! That's when I know he made my day :)

[sikoo31]

i've always wanted to ask a girl like you, but if you don't want to, you don't have to tell me.

does that mean you like sending pics of your-self to guys so they can tell you how sexy you look?

and what if a guy came up to you and told you you're beautiful, what would you do?

[CaliCourtney]

Oh no, I hate that, and hate girls who do it. Personally I don't like taking photos of myself, I think they never turn out good! I'm not saying that I'm ugly, but if want to show how sexy I am to a guy, they'll just have to meet me in person. The thing about sexiness is that it's in the way you act, your personality your expressions, the way you talk to the eye of the beholder, sense of humor is freaking sexy.

[sikoo31]

yeah you're right, sexy is an attitude.

its funny you say that cause I just said that to a girl the other day.

just from the way you talk tho, I think you probably are a sexy girl.

[CaliCourtney]

Well again it really depends on how I'm feeling about myself that moment or that day. If someone tells me I'm pretty or beautiful I always feel flattered, girl or boy (especially boys because they had the guts to say it to me, and that shows that I'm attractive to them) If I feel self-conscious about myself and my looks at that moment, I say thank you but I really don't think so that way (and that's why girls say things like "No I'm not") But then again if I feel pretty I'll smile big and blush!

[sikoo31]

haha that's cute.

[CaliCourtney]

Yeah, sexiness is mostly an attitude, beauty and hotness are extras! And when combined make a hugely sexy combo!

[sikoo31]

that's what I call irresistible.

[CaliCourtney]

Damn straight :)

[sikoo31]

yup

[Anonymous]

I don't think it necessarily means girls are more superficial. Girls are more likely to deal with unwanted attention from creeps than guys are, so girls tend to be pickier about who they want looking at them. It may not always be accurate to judge whether someone is a creep or a nice guy based on appearance, but it's a bit of a survival strategy. I would rather be stared at in the street by an attractive dude than an iffy looking guy because it's more flattering and it just feels better. But that doesn't mean I'm superficial about who I will actually date etc.

[Opinion Owner]

Besides, there are a lot of indicators that guys are actually the more superficial sex in general. They are simply more visual, to begin with. And girls are "required" by social norms to go to a lot more trouble with their appearances than guys are.

[sikoo31]

yeah but that's all their own doing, only other girls tell girls to look nice, we guys, most of us, don't really care about all that, we care more about what you look like naked.

but how would you know if that attractive guy is a creep or not?

they come in all size and shapes.

[Opinion Owner]

Um... don't try to tell me guys don't contribute to the whole insecurity-must-look-flawless-or-die issue that girls deal with. You may not be doing it intentionally- and maybe you personally don't- but guys have preferences and appreciate physical looks just like girls do, and sometimes they express those opinions in ways that contribute to the pressure girls already experience from the media and each other. I'm not necessarily BLAMING guys, but they are involved, and not completely passively.

[Opinion Owner]

And you're right about the second part. It's stereotyping and it's not a foolproof way of figuring out who is a creep and who isn't. But a lot of the time when a guy appears to have taken an effort with his looks- he is clean, well dressed, etc- it indicates that he has his act together. And a "creep" is less likely to be able to, for example, keep a job. Clearly, it's not always an accurate way to tell, which is why I still wouldn't get in a car with a stranger just because he's attractive.

[Opinion Owner]

But it can help be an indicator and that's why, for something as inconsequential as "checking out", it can influence girls' decisions and reactions to being checked out. I don't pretend that it's a perfect method. But it's better than nothing, and it's just what naturally happens.

[sikoo31]

that's why I said most guys don't care, I know some do.

and that's still no good, cause I'm not a creep and I don't try to look good for girls at all.

and I've met some well groomed guys that are just assholes and the biggest perverts ever, so that doesn't apply either, being groomed isn't that significant.

[Opinion Owner]

Well... I think it's a falsehood that "most" guys don't care about a girl's looks. I'm not a girl and I don't mean to speak for guys, but MANY- not just a few- APPEAR to care a whole lot. Anyways... just looking "attractive" isn't the only thing I use to try to determine whether or not I want a guy looking at me. But it's part of it. I'm sorry if that bothers you, bit it's kind of a fact of life.

[Opinion Owner]

The fact is, you're right, it's a bit superficial. But this particular case in no way proves that women in general are more superficial than men in general. And I don't think any case will ever prove such a thing.

[sikoo31]

well if we could find the majority in this, then it would be proven in a way, which is most superficial.

i'm not bothered by it, I'm just saying, "don't judge a book by its cover"... ever.

[Opinion Owner]

The thing is, this question- whether you want people staring at you in the street, basically- isn't really the same as just asking each gender how much looks matter to them. There are more variables because girls have to deal with certain anxieties (rape, stalking, sexual harassment) that guys don't have to deal with as much. I'm not saying those things are never a problem for guys, but it certainly isn't AS prominent an issue for them. You're right, judging a book by it's cover is

[Opinion Owner]

frequently wrong. But I think it's understandable that girls are pickier and more worried about who they want checking them out than guys are. When you've never even spoken one word to a person, what do have to judge them based on other than looks? It doesn't mean that when girls actually get to know a guy, they are as superficial. And it also doesn't mean that just because a guy is attractive, a girl will instantly trust them. But it's not fair to judge how superficial girls are in general

[Opinion Owner]

based on this. As a guy you may not be able to fully appreciate the confusion and conflict that can arise in these situations for girls. You have a valid point. But again, it doesn't prove anything about women being more superficial in general.

[sikoo31]

i originally said girls can be more superficial based on the answers I got in this poll.

superficial girls outnumber guys 3-1.

and what I'm trying to say is, just don't judge at all, I guess I wasn't clear, but that's what I mean, just don't judge.

[Opinion Owner]

The issue I have with this whole thing is that this particular situation is not necessarily a good representation of all other situations. Perhaps girls are more superficial IN THIS SITUATION than guys are IN THIS SITUATION. But that doesn't mean that in the overall picture of how each gender views the other, girls are more superficial.

[sikoo31]

there is no situation, I don't know what you mean. the votes weren't made on the assumption of it happening on the street.

[Opinion Owner]

But still, I'm assuming that you mean strangers. I mean, if you're in a relationship with someone or dating them, obviously you won't be creeped out if they look at you. So...

I guess my reaction does depend somewhat on the atmosphere of where it happens. But still. Being checked out is "a situation", it's not asking people how much they care about appearances in general.

[sikoo31]

but see, you're missing the point, this isn't about looks, this is just about people liking or disliking the attention.

i asked that as a side Q, not as the main Q.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't understand how I'm missing the point. You're saying that the fact that women sometimes take a guy's appearance into consideration when deciding whether or not she want him to be looking at her etc. and guys don't seem to care as often means that girls are in general more superficial than guys. Or is that not what you're saying? It may not be the main point of your question, but you're the one who brought the matter up.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm offended by the notion of girls being seen as the more superficial gender when guys (in general) also act superficial in so many ways.

[sikoo31]

just look at the result of the poll, I'm tired of this conversation.

[Opinion Owner]

I've seen them. The point I am trying to make is that there is a difference between situations. I am tired of this conversation too, but I think it's wrong of you to try to use this question as proof that one gender is over all more superficial than another. There are too many variables associated with the specific question you asked.

[sikoo31]

that's not what I'm trying to prove at all...

i was just asking if people like to be checked out. you're the one who made it about that.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you stupid? Did you or did you not update the question saying, and I quote, "i think this shows girls can be more superficial than guys."? If I took your post the wrong way, please do clarify for me what you really meant. But for crying out loud do not tell me that I'm the one who "made it about that".

[sikoo31]

i didn't say it because I was trying to prove it from the beginning, I said it just as a comment. its what the poll shows.

[Opinion Owner]

Fair enough, but please, you DID bring it up.

[sikoo31]

ok

[Prisca]

I hate it so much :( :(

especially when guys stop whatever they're doing to look at me from head to toe and still looking when I walk pass, it makes me feel like an object or food or something :( don't like it. I mean when I dress up all nice I know I look nice, I don't need anyone to confirm it to me in such a way.

that's just me though.

[sikoo31]

well I love that.

i want my wife to dress for her-self, in a way that she feels good, not like the girls who dress to impress.

[SashaSilent]

I completely agree Prisca. I hate it.

[sikoo31]

i'm sorry you both have to go through that, but its just a fact of life, guys are gonna look at you everywhere you go. you can't stop them, so the smartest thing for you to do is to learn to deal with it.

and think of how it would be for you if guys never looked at you again. what would you do when you want to find a guy and no one finds you attractive?

[Arwens-Fire]

I don't mind when guys check me out...its actually a compliment to some extent.But when they are yelling from their cars or shouting at me on the street like I'm a whore on sale,THEN I have a problem. Otherwise it's okay as long as they are respectful. Geese,i have a craving for mac n' cheese.

[sikoo31]

well that was random haha

what if a guy came up to you and told you you have nice boobs or ass or something like that?

[dee_bee]

Normally if a guy is checking me out, I might ask my girlfriends hey is that guy looking at me whatever, but until he approaches me, I feel like he might be complimenting me. it depends on the guy and the situation. if you feel me ya know? I think girls like to get a guy to look their way but on the other hand, we don't want a guy staring without a reason to. That is when it gets creepy.

But just keepin it real.

[sikoo31]

alright I see.

[dee_bee]

Yeah. But also, it kinda makes girls feel like hey he must think I'm attractive if he is checking me out...if we catch you staring then yeah. its cute to flirt !

[sikoo31]

alright that's coo.

[sexyguurl13]

If you are walking and guys honk or whisle at you I don't really care you just move on and whatever. But if say a guy is in your class and you constantly catch him looking at you I find it gets kinda awkward. But if they are cute it isn't that bad aha

[sikoo31]

of course.

[josevic]

I don´t have a strong opinion about it, I mean if it´s a creepy guy it would feel just weird and I would just ignore him and go on, but if it´s an attractive guy I don´t really care, (I know what you´re thinking, but it´s true!) it doens´t mean I'm superficial it´s just that look is what gets to you first so.. You make your first opinion with it, like it or not ;)

[sikoo31]

yeah I understand how girls are like that. its just that I'm not like that.

[human_condition]

I like being checked out, as long as it's not by an obvious creeper. Either way it doesn't happen very often.

What I DON'T like is when random guys grab my ass in clubs/bars. Alcohol does not make my body your property... next time it happens I'm going to turn around, grab at his crotch and ask "...where's the rest of it?"

[sikoo31]

lol nice, let me know how that goes.

[pinklipglossxx]

depends on whos looking at me. I've had some really creepy encounters and I've even been followed to my car once by a dark skinned guy trying to get my number but thank goodness I was with a girlfriend..It's just gotten to the point where I just feel awkward when people stare me down, sometimes I just want to be invisible haha, I usually feel like I have something on my face or my body that causes people to stare, but I dunno...Its alright I guess

[sikoo31]

dam that sucks!

people shouldn't stare, but being looked at shouldn't creep you out unless you're insecure.

[pinklipglossxx]

yeah its a pain in the assss and yea I guess I ammmm a little insecure? Yeah I am, lol damnit...

[sikoo31]

well we're all insecure about one thing or another. even if its a tiny insecurity.

tho your looks should be the last thing for you to worry about.

you're just pretty. nothing on your face and nothing wrong at all.

[emilyzenella]

i guess I like it if an attractive guy checks me out. But if he likes what he sees and hits on me, he should acutally be looking for something. I hate when guys constantly hit on girls like it doesn't mean anything and then later they act like its weird that that girl thought that they liked her.

[sikoo31]

haha that's so stupid.

[emilyzenella]

what do you mean it's stupid?

[sikoo31]

the last part you said; when guys constantly hit on girls like it doesn't mean anything and then later they act like its weird that that girl thought that they liked her

guys are stupid haha

[emilyzenella]

oh yeah true. at first I thought you meant it was stupid that the girl would think that.

[sikoo31]

nooo haha. well you're stupid for misunderstanding tho... no jk.

i completely know what you mean.

its like when people catch someone looking at them and they think the person likes them just cause of that.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

I honestly don't think anyone has checked me out, but I'm pretty dense to such things. I can tell what a lot of people think about others or the situation at hand they are in, but I can never tell what anyone thinks or feels about me. But I think I'd like it, though be a little uneasy at first cause it's something new.

[sikoo31]

that's how it was for me too. like I didn't even know the girl was checking me out cause I just wasn't expecting it at all.

[l-hedoniste]

Ask your female friends about it. It probably frustrates them too, and they'll likely be eager to help.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Frustrates? Say what?

[sikoo31]

yeah what are you talking about man?

[lt2192]

I am very distracted so even though people tell me that it happens a lot, I hardly notice. When I do notice it I am usually flattered. The only time when it freaks me out is when it's like an old man or when its someone you know is only checking girls out for the entirely wrong reason. I don't really care about someone's appearence when they're checking me out, just as long as they don't seem like a creep.

[sikoo31]

its funny that you mention it cause I was in the truck with my dad today and he turned his head to stare at some girls out the window and I thought of all these answers like, dam dad, they don' t like that sh*t.

[lt2192]

For the most part we don't it usually depends like I said on if the guy looks normal or if there's something about the guy that makes him seem like a creep.

[sikoo31]

yeah I know haha

[Anonymous]

It depends. I don't like being looked at in a very rude and disrespectful way. I've just had bad experiences with it. If a guy checks me out in a quiet, non offensive way then yeah it makes me feel pretty. It's the honking in a car, trying to match your speed in their car so they can keep looking at you or yelling at you from across the room. Especially when they say something offensive. That's when it makes me uncomfortable and pisses me off. Haha.

[sikoo31]

haha you should yell something back next time, like f*** off! or something.

[Opinion Owner]

Haha I used to, but it just causes more problems. Because they get pissed off that you don't think they are the best thing this world has to offer. Just turns into an altercation :P

[sikoo31]

haha I can imagine how that would hurt their egos. but f***'em, I hate those kind of guys, they're assholes.

[Opinion Owner]

Totally ha ha maybe I should try this technique!

link

[sikoo31]

how'd that girl get 4 million views?

she's pretty but dam. that's a lot for that kind of video.

but I don't know why, I like the way she talks...

[Opinion Owner]

Haha I have no idea how she did. But I must admit if someone did that face to me I would be like "Okayyyy..." and walk away. I could never keep a straight face, I'd just end up laughing!

[sikoo31]

you know what I'd do?

i'd just make an even stupider face at her.

[Opinion Owner]

Haha then that will diffuse the situation and both people would walk away

[sikoo31]

i wish she would just keep making the face so we could have a face making contest.

[Greys]

I don't really like it, I'm a paranoid sort of person so I would be thinking there's something on my face or somethings gone wrong. If they are smiling at me then I wouldn't really mind but would still be wondering why.

[sikoo31]

haha OK.

well don't worry, you're not the only one.

[Greys]

Yay :)

[sikoo31]

haha girls that say yay are so cute

idk I just find it adorable.

[Greys]

:)

[Jawless]

Yay :)

[sikoo31]

it only applies to girls haha

[Jawless]

Well, it was worth a shot.

So...-bats eye lashes-...come here often?

[sikoo31]

lol

[Jawless]

:(

[sikoo31]

what I do?

[-jessie-]

Im the same.. if a guy is looking at me, I think it must be because there is something wrong with me, eg like what you said, something on my face... but I do like being told that guys like me :)

[Greys]

I suppose it is nice to know :)

[sikoo31]

i would just smile to let you know there's nothing wrong and just like the way you look.

[Tank137]

Haha, Jawless. That was too cute.

I second Greys though. I'm secretly self-conscious [not so secretly now] so if someone is staring at me I feel like something is wrong with my face or they noticed something I haven't.

[Frogodile]

Well personally I like it, It makes me feel pretty whether they are unattractive or not, but I would be creeped out if it was an old man checking me out D:

[sikoo31]

i'm gonna creep out a lot of girl when I'm young then haha

[ToxicPudziKatt]

I don't really care tbh. It makes me paranoid when people check me out anyway, but it doesn't bother me in an emotional sense, so it doesn't bother me, but I'd rather not be looked at.

[sikoo31]

haha paranoid in what way?

[ToxicPudziKatt]

Like in the sense that you feel "Ooh, they're watching me" and kinda start to awkwardly... RUN away, haha. XD

[sikoo31]

lolol that would be so funny for someone to just run away for being looked at.

if I ever saw that, I'd have to change my pants.

[ToxicPudziKatt]

I could imagine doing it alright! I'm crazy in that way. If I really liked them, I'd probably make a fool of myself and completely STALK them... Nahh, not really. I'm not that bad. :)

[sikoo31]

no take backs, you're a stalker haha

but would you really run away?

man I wanna meet you just so I could watch you do something like that ha ha that would make my week!

[Alpha5]

I'm the same way when it comes to staring or being watched too closely (most of the times anyway). I don't "run", but I will def relocate or reposition myself if at all possible. Some guys make you feel ogled, while others know how to look in a non-creepy way.

[StringofFate]

I don't like it right now because it makes me want a girlfriend or at least sex, and that's not really healthy for me right now because I need to focus on fixing my lifestyle. Not a big problem but I'm always like damn, I wish I could go talk to her. Confidence isn't my problem I just don't really feel comfortable making a decent girl fall for a recovering drug addict with the social life of Emma Watson.

[Isceenekid]

I love when hot girls check me out and I give them the look because it's happen where their friends come up and say "hey my friend thinks your hot" and then I'll go over, have a convo then bam I'm in! :)

[sikoo31]

haha coo.

[Phoenix1991]

I don't care or mind. As long as they don't do anything strange to me then its all good to me ^_^. I have a past where some girls/guys would get "frisky" and try to grab my ass or something. That I don't like, ever lmao. now I see why girls hate it

[sikoo31]

its funny that you mention it cause I was just talking to a girl about how this girl was trying to grab my balls once. she pinched my ass tho, and yeah, I know how it feels now too. not cool.

[Phoenix1991]

Lmao oh wow

[sikoo31]

i know...

[lala-193]

generally its flattering when someone checks you out, its even better when their attractive, but sometimes it can be really creepy, like if someone stares at my chest, or if someone is way to old for me

[sikoo31]

haha not one girl has said she likes older men checking them out.

[lala-193]

what can I say that's how we all feel

[sikoo31]

its coo, I just find it funny.

a bit sad for any old people reading this tho haha

[lananoel]

I like to be told that I'm pretty.. I don't really like to feel like I have been eye f***ed less its by my boyfriend.

[sikoo31]

eye f***ed lol

[LG1632]

depends what they're "checking out." if they look a second too long at my face sure, that's fine. If they you know...check me out ; \...then no. it make me feel trashy and cheap.

[sikoo31]

ok haha

[aikidy]

my answer :

1- it depends if its a girl I always like it, but staring for too long is a little creepy.

2-if they're attractive I would smile , if they're not I would ignore.

3- yes

[sikoo31]

alright

[Icky123]

Depends who it is. If its some middle aged

Man no but if its a young guy and hes

Not doing in in a freaky way then yea.

[sikoo31]

what would be an OK way to look at you?

[Icky123]

In a none creepy way like looking at you like your a peice of meat and just after sex. In a way where its descreat but noticable so if they catch you they just smile or try and hide it not like trying to look all sedutive and sexy you just end up looking weird. Yanoo.

[sikoo31]

haha ok

[Mcash83]

Heck yeah I like it!

Chubby, thin, short, tall, black, white. Who Cares!

It's nice to know I got it ; )

...doesn't mean I'm going to respond in kind though.

[Eiffelgirl21]

I don't really care...BUT, when a guy is vulgar, then it gets annoying and embarrassing.

[sikoo31]

understandable.

[jjamiie]

I like it sometimes. If they're attractive, I'll probably flirt back, honestly.

[sikoo31]

ok

[mhairix]

I love it, it's such an ego booster, for girls and guys and it makes you feel good about yourself.

[sikoo31]

is that the same as sending someone a pic so they can tell you how hot you are?

[mhairix]

Not really, because you're not doing anything to entice the attention are you? With a picture you're doing something to get attention. If you're just walking down the road and someone checks you out, it's a totally different thing.

[sikoo31]

yeah I see what you mean.

[jap88]

I can never tell, LOL. Guess how successful I am. :P

[sikoo31]

successful at what?

[l-hedoniste]

"Someone thinks I'm hot, I see you looking."

Yeah, I like it.

[sikoo31]

coo.

[Anonymous]

of course I do. it's flattering. it makes me happy knowing that my effects in my appearance aren't wasted

[sikoo31]

ok

[peace-love-couture]

I won't lie, I like the attention, I mean, I'm only human.

Only thing I can say I don't like is when the dudes take it too far

LOL @ the feminists who have problems with guys checking them out, how typical

[sikoo31]

i wouldn't call that a human thing... but ok.

[peace-love-couture]

It's only human to like flattery or to take appreciation in praise, it's an ego boost. It isn't like it's only limited to certain people

[sikoo31]

its not human, really, there's people that don't like it at all.

[peace-love-couture]

I know, but it's natural, it isn't like it's a choice, just like some people have insecurities, it's only human

[sikoo31]

well that's what you should have said the first time haha.

[Anonymous]

'I don't like it' is not enough said.I hate it.It makes me feel cheap and disgusted.It doesn't matter how hot they are.

[sikoo31]

really?

what if its your bf?

and hey, I'm glad you're not an attention whore.

[Opinion Owner]

You said people.My boyfriend is a different thing, I don't feel like a piece of meat when he looks at me.I guess I have some issues going on ha ha I know a lot of girls are flattered by this.

[sikoo31]

yeah as you can see, all the other girls here like it.

but women are different, you shouldn't feel bad or anything just cause you're different, so I wouldn't call it having an issue.

[Opinion Owner]

Um I don't actually feel bad about it.I'd rather be in this extreme than the other.I fail to see which part in not liking to be checked out by random men is worthy of getting down arrows tho hah

[sikoo31]

yeah people are stupid, its so immature to hate on someone for having a different opinion, its these kind of things that make me hate society more and more.

[Anonymous]

Normally they try to not make it obvious but when I see it I think its nice but id rather someone just come up and flirt.

[sikoo31]

what if they flirt with their eyes?

like what I do sometimes(if I think the girl might like it) is look at them and make it obvious that I'm checking them out.

[Anonymous]

I find it weird when men are out with their wives and they're staring at me. especially when my momma's with me.. it's just gross.

[sikoo31]

lol I hate it when I see my dad staring at girls.

[Opinion Owner]

haha you should call him out for it.

[sikoo31]

that would be too awkward. and he just won't do it in front of me, but he'll still do it.

[xxDino_Cupcakexx]

i like it, if they are attractive then I feel really really good about myself and I know I'm having a good hair/clothes day :]

[sikoo31]

why does it mater so much if he's attractive?

its a person looking at you no mater what.

if you're not looking for someone, then it shouldn't mater.

[magnoliacrush]

Well... now that I have someone, I just don't seem to care. When I was single, I enjoyed it.

[ffefe]

i would be flattered to have someone check me out but sometimes it is creepy unless they are really good lookin lol

[sikoo31]

wow that's shallow.

[vmw2008]

No it's not

[sikoo31]

how is that not shallow?

[vmw2008]

Because it's entirely natural, normal, and guys feel that way too.

[sikoo31]

its flattering no mater what, if the person is attractive, it might be better if there's a chance of doing something about it, like talking to the person, but if you're not looking for that, then its shallow to only like it if the person is attractive. that's how dumb people get played.

[vmw2008]

lol how can naturally liking something more than something else be shallow? sounds like you're insecure to me.

[sikoo31]

no, I'm one of the least insecure people I know.

i'm not saying its wrong to like it more, I'm saying its wrong to only like it if they're attractive, this is the second time I say it too...

[rudybooty]

If an average or extremely good lucking guy looks at me by all means stare away.

If anyone below average looks at me...I wish they would not want them staring at me because imma feel ugly-ish

[sikoo31]

really?

but how do they cause such difference reactions?

[TimtheEnchanter]

I like it because it makes me feel better about myself.

[sikoo31]

ok

[Anonymous]

It's flattering and of course I like it. As long as they are not overdoing it. In that case I can feel uncomfortable.

[Alextricity]

I honestly get extremely bothered when a person I find unattractive checks me out. EXTREMELY bothered. And a lot of guys seem to like looking at me which just makes me wants to f***ing. HUIARGHVIREG!

[sikoo31]

dam man, you got issues.

[Alextricity]

because I dislike when ugly people look at me? and guys? I don't find a guy looking at me thinking about the size of my d*** flattering.

[MakeLoveNotWar]

Haha, I'm with this guy lol.

[sikoo31]

why does it mater if she's ugly? its still a person.

[Alextricity]

i'm sorry, I don't find it particularly flattering.

[sikoo31]

then you're just shallow and superficial.

[emzy-89]

i don't like it because I'm insecure about my looks.

[sikoo31]

why are you insecure?

you know no mater what you look like, there will always be someone out there who will find you attractive.

[l-hedoniste]

Oh, no! You realize we check you out because we like what we see, right?

[Feefee]

Heck ya! As long as its my clothes or my face, but then it gets really uncomfortable and offending when guys check out my butt or my chest -_-

[Ugliness]

How can you tell? I have NEVER noticed anyone checking me out.

I figure I'm too ugly for that sort of thing.

[Paullus]

Interesting to find that no female has said they don't like it.

[sikoo31]

what are you talking about, there's 7 votes.

[Paullus]

my bad it was for guys, but now there's 2.

[sikoo31]

oh alright.

[lily85462155]

yup it helps boost my confidence

[sikoo31]

ok coo

[ryanryan90]

I agreee

[lily85462155]

yup yup ha ha I think most people like it

[sikoo31]

yeah look at the results haha

[Anonymous]

It's a tiny ego boost, but usually it doesn't affect me too much.

[Yeahhbro]

i really like it.

[sikoo31]

coo

[iLoveHouseMusic]

I love it! :)

[sikoo31]

cool haha

[InMyHeart]

yeah, I like it.

[sikoo31]

coo

[ShybutSweetGirl]

Yup I like it. :)

[sikoo31]

so if you caught me looking at your cleavage or your ass or something, would you like that or would it bother you a little?

[ShybutSweetGirl]

Nope I wouldn't mind

[sikoo31]

really?

what if we were talking and I was listening but I wanted to look at your boobs while we talked?

[sikoo31]

hey I saw your answer on that video game Q.

i was surprised to see so many girl like video games, finding a girl that likes them won't be as hard as I thought it was gonna be.

[Shadoww]

meh.

[sikoo31]

lol

[Shadoww]

=D this guy c.m.o yesterday "sign"

[sikoo31]

huh?

[Shadoww]

checked me out*

[sikoo31]

ohh, what guy?

[Shadoww]

some guy on a bike, *tsktsk* he could have been hurt! >:(

[sikoo31]

haha I see that a lot whenever I'm with a hot girl, the guys driving by are always staring and saying sh*t out the window.

[Shadoww]

LOL this guy almost hit the guy in front of him, for looking at me! (in a car) do chickas check you out?

[sikoo31]

haha dam, perverts are dangerous. you must be super hot then haha

well, in the summer, I get hot easily, so I spend most of my time, if not all my time with my shirt off.

and in the summer, my sisters bring their friends over a lot. and honestly, just from what I've noticed and what my sisters have told me, I think about 70% of their friends have either had crushes on me or thought I was hot. and on the street I've caught a few looking but I never know if they like what they see or not.

[Shadoww]

LOL aaawwww! hahahah, I keep my shirt on in summer, LOL

[sikoo31]

well you're a girl, so you better if you don't want EVERYONE staring haha

what's the awww for?

[Shadoww]

LOL d.w wats your hobbies? mine are dancing only at home:) and watching TV LOL

[sikoo31]

watching TV lol

well as you can see, I spend a lot of time on this site, its like a small addiction.

last week I didn't get on for a week to see if I really had a problem or not, and I'm good.

i like to draw

compose music(don't do it very often tho)

write erotic stories

talk to girls on this site.

look at art on DA

play video games

work out

and usually listen to music while I do everything.

[Shadoww]

i love 2 play ps3! blackops! hell yeh!

[sikoo31]

ima play that today!

i haven't in weeks and I'm excited haha

[Shadoww]

i played 4r 2 hours today!:O

[sikoo31]

ima play for like 8 hours today haha

[Shadoww]

LOL AWESOME! YAY! You MADE ME HAPPY 4R NO REASON!

[sikoo31]

i have that affect on people ; )

[Shadoww]

LOL who you gonna give b.a to? :O

[sikoo31]

well its an opinion Q, there are no best answers.

[Shadoww]

DDDDDDDDDDAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMM! LOL

[sikoo31]

well think about it.

if you ask 2 people what their favorite color is, and they say a diff color each, you can't give anyone best answer cause that's just their opinion.

[Shadoww]

true true

[sikoo31]

don't you know?

i'm always right.

[Shadoww]

yeeeeaaaaa...

[sikoo31]

haha

pretending to be a bossy jerk is fun.

[Shadoww]

LOL pretending!? NO, jokes:)

[sikoo31]

yeah come on, I'm not really like that. I'm a total sweetheart.

[Shadoww]

LOL I know, hahahahaahaha.

[sikoo31]

just look at my face, I'm so cute, how could I ever be a jerk huh?

[Shadoww]

:)

[lovelikethis94]

depends if they are attractive:)

[Anonymous]

lllllllllllllllloooooooooovvvvvvveeeee it