Girls: What makes a guy out of your league?

Question

For example, you're at a restaurant and you see a guy sitting with a couple of his friends... What are some characteristics about him that  would put him out of your range?

xjesspandax · Accepted Answer

I've never thought someone really good looking necessarily is out of my league...

Perhaps because I think attitude and smile matters more than a hot ass.

However, if they walk around (usually older than me) with a look that says; I want big t*ts! Blonde! Athletic! Model!

... then I tend to think they are out of my league... and they suddenly aren't so hot anymore.

The other kind of guy would be a celebrity.

Solitude · Accepted Answer

1)If he smokes.

2)If I don't like his body language.

3)If he dyes his hair a crazy color.I prefer people not to dye their hair.

4)If he has a tattoo/tattoos and wear accessories on his ear/s.

5)If he talks loudly and flirtatiously to attract females' attention.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If he's good looking.  Or if he's average looking and funny.  Or if he's average to below average looking, has an OK personality and has money.  Pretty much anything that can give him access to girls who are better looking than I am puts him out of my league.

ryanontario · Accepted Answer

i'd say we'd be talking about celebrity status or super rich guys to be out of a girls league , most guys aren't going to be out of the average girls league unless there like a professional athlete / super rich or something like that

unless the girl has like really realistic standards and just wants to date really average guys for some reason , then a lot of guys be out of her league

BobbyD · Accepted Answer

I don't think of leagues as in 1-10s. I think of it in more simpler terms:

If he's in your league then that means you're confident you can seduce him.

If he's not in your league then that means you're not confident you can seduce him.

How you actually seduce him can be physical, sexual, emotional, status, admiration and other tactics which can be learned.

Loves_COD_Ghosts · Answer

The first thing I would notice is probably how he is with his friends. Is he the shy and outgoing one? Is the one just nodding and smiling while the others talk? I'm pretty self confident so I don't really have characteristics that put a guy out of my league. Maybe just some things that put me out of his league ????

findingdreamland · Answer

There is nothing like out of league kinda thing. People make it up just to scare people. If people are interested each other, that counts. That is all.

Ifsxm · Answer

Erm if only if he was ridiculously goodlooking Like insanely 10/10 hot. But thats extremely rare cos hardly anyones a 10. I don't ever think someones out of my league, it implies that i'm not good enough or aesthetically good enough and would effect your confidence badly if you think like that. If i see a guy in a restaurant that was good looking i'll acknowledge he's good looking than go about my business and not give it a second thought.

Betwyn · Answer

If he is really good looking..  If he looks happy... If he is a serious student.. If he has a "real" job... If he knows how to treat a girl right...  If he has money...

PunkLadyOfDeath · Answer

White guys with long rocker hair and piercings. Too cool for me. Don't even talk to me sexy rock god...unf. I am not worthy.

Moonicorn · Answer

Party-er. Girls usually want a cocky guy that doesn't party.

washize · Answer

If I'm interested in a guy and he's not interested in me, then he's out of my league.

sanityandsunflowers · Answer

If he is really toned or if his hair game is on point.

poppunk · Answer

if he's popular and thats pretty much the only thing I thing about when I think of "leagues"

Anonymous · Answer

If he's really good looking and I don't think I'd even have a chance, I assume he's out of my league.

kangaru · Answer

if he is very good looking then he will be out of my league. or if he is a successful career man

Anonymous · Answer

I'd hate for any woman to think she's out of my league. It must be a horrible feeling to possess i.e. low self-esteem.

6ft2baller55 · Answer

Good looks because guy who have good lols almost always think I'm ugly

Anonymous · Answer

If he doesn't have manners, cat calls. Says something to me just so his friends will laugh. His dressing style, and if he doesn't know how to use proper English (unless he's a foreign)

Anonymous · Answer

The biggest one for me is that they are liked by too many (attractive) girls for me to stand a chance.

Anonymous · Answer

if he has a gorgeous face and muscular arms, nicely dressed, tall and handsome- i would automatically assume I'd had no chance

Anonymous · Answer

If he's really attractive I immediately think he's out of my league. Also if he's in a different crowd than me or something.

Anonymous · Answer

Over exaggerated laughing, sloppy clothes, irritating, no common sense, rude toward peers

EdensFruit · Answer

If he's the total opposite of me.

Anonymous · Answer

1. If I'm hotter than he is 2. If he's hotter than me

Thatguy321 · Answer

You might be thattallguy but im the! Thatguy...

Anonymous · Answer

If he's super hot or super rich or super powerful

breezii_1991 · Answer

To me if he's athletic, and pretty boy looking

misszara2u · Answer

Attractiveness I guess lol

SpicyGinBurrito · Answer

super hot lmao

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