Polls

If in the future it becomes reality, body autonomy will no longer be an excuse for killing your unborns. So what will you do?

I know it is never about body autonomy in the first place. It is about ending the life of unwanted offsprings.

Not your body, not your right.

I have always gotten the "Sunday Blues." I read an article that said that many do and it is a real thing. I was just wondering does anybody else who works weekdays get the "Sunday Blues." I have created a poll because I am just curious. Thanks.

it's time to trim the fat

She finds people he’s connected follows and comments things about him under their page mind you she doesn’t know them… she does it on different social media platforms

He did hurt her feelings after they dated and he ghosted her…

There’s a lot of elements to the story

I tend to find a lot of people irritating therefore avoid them. I think people can tell when I don’t want them around me.. I hate it when strangers come into my personal space, touch me or if I can smell their bad breath or hygiene issues. I think I have more of an issue with this than most people do.
I also don’t see much point in talking to someone unless I can get something out of them or I really enjoy their company like I find them interesting etc. Whenever I’ve had friends, I’ve noticed I drink too much at the pub and completely dominate the conversations, I like the attention all on me.
I always feel sort of numb, bored or maybe depressed. but I also ruminate and stress very easily, leading me to feel like I have to control situations or avoid them. If I have to work in group activities at university, I zone out and can’t concentrate because I find it overwhelming and don’t see the point of contributing unless I’m the leader however I’d still much rather sit back and do nothing or just do what I’m told to do etc. I used to get very good grades at school without much effort… now I’m struggling and scraping by with passes at uni because of poor time management and having random special interests distracting me.

I also feel the need to be somehow better than others.. this is why I like being a musician… a lot of the people on my uni course can’t play their instruments that well and I feel superior to them because of that.. however I feel upset if they do better than me in assessments. I also get massive anxiety if I feel like I won’t perform well, but if I know my parts well I get a bit egotistical … even as a kid I loved the attention from performing and playing instruments. I also love getting positive attention from lecturers and even seduced one and had sex with them to sort of “test” if I could win him over, but at the same time I was also very infatuated with him for no logical reason at all. I think I wanted to see how far he would go with me.

Unstable woman

What to do when she quit her job in education…tags me in post insulting him on different platforms.. they talked briefly and he ghosted her after a date and called her unstable and told her I didn’t want to sleep with her bc she would be “crazier “… I told him that wasn’t nice to say if she liked you

She did tell him in the beginning that she wasn’t trying to get into anything serious to protect her mental and emotional being

He’s just been silent about it the whole time and doesn’t engage

Men what would you do in this situation

My friend and I was juat saying some shit

But then he told me how I needed God.

Then he proceeds to tell me this but this quote :

" you will never get married if you cuss "

I told him I am who I am and im working on myself and some other shit



Was he right to say that?



I don't cuss 24/7
I just cuss when I'm angry or shocked or upset at something like saying wtf or wth or fucked or etc

He hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend, but we've agreed not to fuck other people. He plans every date, calls me beautiful, and always pays. Should I not worry about it and go with the flow?

I had my hair straightened for my Christmas picture after it was colored. The picture I posted in Nov. was one that my boyfriend took when it was natural ( a little curl). I was able to locate a pic. that my boyfriend took year before last when I had my hair straightened and highlighted with a streak over the gray. I know that straight hair was in, but hear slightly curly hair is making a comeback. Women feel free to comment on this one as well because I want to know what is in style. Especially if you are fashion forward. Thanks.

Ok. I was cleaning house this morning and my boyfriend said it looked already clean. This made me think. Do we like a cleaner house than men? Is it satisfying to both? How are they different? I enjoy cleaning house and like a clean house. What do you think?

Secure

People with this style feel safe and confident in their relationships. They can share feelings with others, seek support, and have good self-esteem.

Avoidant

People with this style prioritize independence over emotional intimacy. They may have difficulty trusting others and building long-term relationships.

Anxious

People with this style crave intimacy and love. They may have a hard time being single, but may experience fear of rejection and jealousy in relationships.

Disorganized

People with this style may have intense fear and difficulty controlling their emotions. They may feel they don't deserve love or closeness in relationships.



I feel I am the anxious type.