Polls

Let's say that someone asks you to join them to run their errands and you say yes. So you agree to meet at a certain time. It's the appointed time and there is no response from that person. 30, 40 mins—almost an hour—pass until you hear from them. They call/text, telling you that they overslept and now they don't have time to go at that same time (but they do later in the day).

How would you react in this situation?

My boyfriend and I had an argument and the topic came up on how he used to have random girls numbers and his exes numbers (when he first started dating), and how he didn't get rid of them until I started going bat shit crazy. Now after 2 years I feel like I should have left him before it self. I'm slowly losing feelings because I feel disgusted. What would you think you would have done in my situation at the moment?

I don't mean simps, men who roll over for women in the hope they'll end up having sex. I mean actual, politically active, committed feminists. Many politicians like to pretend to be, like Justin Trudeau (which is where I got the idea for this question, I was watching something on YouTube about him).

Please say why you answered the way you did.

To start off, I'm really uncomfortable talking about this but I need some real opinions or guidance please. And my family here on GAG never lets me down. Soo... My husband seems to be blind to his friends' intentions. I've tried to tell him softly to not anger him or receive backlash but he is not hearing me. His friends are literally courting me in front of him and he just doesn't see it. They have made comments about "getting into our bed", "cooking for me", and "asking me out to new places". They tell my husband how beautiful they think I am and my husband comes back and tells me as if I'm supposed to be flattered.(I'm not a piece of meat so it's not flattering)

Am I going crazy!!! Am I missing something?

Like, they hoover around me like lions stalking their prey and I hate it. They try to control me and make decisions for me even though I don't belong to them.

We're on a friends vacation this week and I made up an excuse that I was sick so I wouldn't have to be around all the alpha energy BUT they're insisting I accompany them to each event.

What Should I Do? Honest Opinions Please 🥺🌹

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Hi, we have been together for two years. The last month he doesn't let me in his flat anymore saying it is messy. Yesterday he wanted to buy flowers from flowershop (he said he wants to decorate his flat) and I had to again wait outside the flat door until he brings them in. He has never had flowers for deco in his flat before the last two years. He doesn't want to have sex anymore. We are having a rough time as he says he doesn't know if he finds me attractive and if he loves me. Is he cheating on me? Why would he buy several pot flowers for himself and why now ca 6 timea in total I am not allowed to enter his flat? We see max once per week as he is constantly sick.

Thank you

Say that neither of the two of you initiate spending time together. Would you feel flattered if it was still you of all people that she asked for help when she needed it, and showed lots of happiness and appreciation when you help her? Or would you feel resentful?

Where is the common sense? Do women not have it? I'm noticing on this app, and outside of it, women make decisions that aren't logical at all. Just very basic stuff , it's like their brain only goes so far. For example, this young lady meets a guy, and the first day of meeting goes on a date with him that night, then goes to his place the same night. He murders and dismembers her.

Lack of common sense part: You can look at the guy and tell he's off. Second , he's a complete stranger. Why would you go on a date with him the same day and then go to his house?

Then on this app they say: I never met this guy before. We've been dating for 4 years online. Um, how long should I wait to see him?

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Let me elaborate a little. Now, I know of course you want your SO and your friends to get along, and hanging out altogether shouldn't be an issue. But I've PERSONALLY always been of the mind that you just don't hang out with your friends SO's privately or talk to them privately. It feels like a line that shouldn't be crossed to me.
Well I have a close friend who views this a little differentially. She sees no issue with it if we all trust one another. We both recently met guys and have started seeing them, however both of us were friends with each guy before we really started "seeing" them if you will. We met her current SO first, nice guy, and again, we were all friends before they started getting serious. Even before they officially announced anything, I could TELL it seemed to be getting serious so I backed off and do not and have not spoken with him privately outside of what's said in front of said friend or in a group chat that she is in.

Now fast forward to meeting my SO. Again, we met mine at the same time and were friends with him before anything started. From the start he was definitely kinda seeking me out, talking to me more than her and what not so it wasn't really a surprise when we started seeing one another however, unlike the boundary I have myself not to cross... she doesn't really seem to have issue with trying to seek him out alone to hang out with or talk to privately. To my understanding my SO is not really receptive to it. Doesn't hang out with her when she offers, and it's hit or miss if he even responds to her when she tries to message him. Not that I've pressed for details, but they've both vaguely mentioned it here or there.

I don't want to be "controlling" or "toxic" or seem like I'm trying to commander their friendships, but I just am unsure if I'm the one with the issue or if there really is something weird about this.

I usually can tell but also remember depression can usually be hidden.