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Maybe both? Started in a dorm and then moved off campus? Currently, in a dorm with three other girls.

For me its BBQ sauce. And i’m quite picky with the types. But i eat some of everything with it— burgers, hot dogs, chicken, steak, hashbrowns, fries, macaroni, etc. I started eating hot sauce a few years ago and could see it becoming a secondary habit on certain foods like rice, greens, mashed potatoes, chicken, etc. However, it was nowhere near as bad as my habit with BBQ sauce!! My dude said the last thing I can do at a dinner with his parents is put BBQ sauce on one of his dad’s famous steaks. Lmao that ole man can kick rocks because if you cook steak, I’m bringing BBQ sauce AND im eating the steak like its a hamburger 😂🤣 My dude said he’d be so pissed if i did this but like come on, he does this shit all the time with the icky condiments like mayo, pickles, garlic, relish, honey mustard, vinegar, etc. If he can do it, why can’t i 🤷‍♀️ #FeelFreeToList

Because you think you need it

I started wearing glasses in 2010 and I always hated having to do so. But I’m not brave enough to try contacts. When I first got them, I got annoyed that some classmates kept calling me auntie and some even said I looked like my grandma. I was practically walking around near blind just to avoid hearing that shit. I once switched to the transition glasses but then was told i looked like a hippie. Once I got to college, dudes seemed to be more into me wearing glasses. But the dude i’m with now kinda annoys me with his unwanted opinions. He’s constantly saying “You’re so fckin pretty with your glasses off. You’re just so fckin beautiful with your glasses off.” Like damn, what am i when I have them on? Chopped liver? Lol. I mean I’m not the biggest fan of his glasses either since they remind me of the serial killers in The Lovely Bones, but he's still a fckin hot peter parker whether they are on or off. He’s just gonna have to deal and I just have to accept the lack of his compliments when I have em on because a mf cannot see clearly 😂🤷‍♀️ Plus the only time he seemed to be into me with my glasses on was when i popped the lens out of my 3D glasses 😩 #FeelFreeToList

which is the prettiest/hottest bikini

Call me boring but I want a traditional life.
I want to go on dates & be asked to be someone’s girlfriend. I want to get engaged / married and build a family. I want to stay at home cooking / cleaning / taking care of the kids.
I want to find a man that is in his masculine energy so i can be in my feminine energy. I want a man who is happy to provide.
Does this mean i’ll milk him of every penny? Of course not. I can and want to have my own part time job or own business. But I want someone who makes me feel safe and secure.
It seem like these traditional values have become lost in todays society. Everyday I see grown men wanting to live off of women. They expect everything to be 50/50 due to “equal rights” but when it comes to any domestic stuff they don’t move a finger to help.
Feels like us women have just taken on the burden of more daily work / problems for ourselves. We don’t even get surprise dates / flowers or little love notes anymore 😭😭 !!

where are the men who want a traditional woman? Where are the gentlemen that arnt ashamed to “simp” over their girlfriend & shower her in love?

are these just stories from fairytales?

ps. Age isn’t a factor because I’ve dated 30/33 years olds & they all have this same modern man mentality. Everyone just wants to be nonchalant 👎🏼

And if yes, how would he act if he would reciprocate and why does he stare?

If so, what made her out of your league?

I had told my boyfriend that I invested in weight loss supplements and he seemed to be ok with it then as soon as I told his mom about it she was against it and since then my boyfriend is against me taking weight loss supplements and even said he would throw them out if he saw me taking them again cuz he thingks they’re going to make me “sick”….. im 20 pounds overweight and my bfs parents seem to make comments that me and my boyfriend should be going out for walks…..

so what’s the problem here? Why is my boyfriend so opposed to it?

I have started conversations with multiple people and they have all told me that the woman with surgeries and voluptuousness is the ideal woman, the meaning of a true woman. How true is that?

I am a woman without surgeries, I am not socially pretty or attractive, but I have never felt ugly, that's where my question comes from, is it possible to feel like a woman without having surgeries?

I was born a woman biologically, but I don't feel like one, the current beauty standards make it difficult, it makes me doubt myself, and at the same time it makes me feel bad since I don't feel feminine or that I have value as a person.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and it’s a serious committed relationship…. overall we hve a happy/ healthy relationship and I’ve met his entire family and his parents are always very welcoming and warm towards me - especially his mom.

His folks got a vacation house in the USA and I asked my bfs mom if I could come along with her son ( I have a valid passport and was going to pay my own air fare). His mom told me “not this time” cuz she’s still busy furnishing the house and she’s also very busy work-wise this time of the year and she’s also not inviting any of her friends either….

why would his mom say “no” to me if I’m always welcome to family gatherings and if she likes me so much and sees how happy I make her son?