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I've read this infidelity story before. I'll refer the names as Jane and Tom.

Jane was 19 and Tom was 20 at the time. They've been dating for 8 months or so when she got caught cheating. She cheated with Tom's good friend. Both got caught falling alseep in Tom's house, on his couch in a compromised position with the TV still running, an empty bottle of rum and empty snack bags. They had already finished the deed when Tom arrived. His friend was only in boxers and she dressed up with jeans but only had bra. Alcohol was involved and the cheating went on for nearly 3 months.

Tom somehow forgives that, reconciles and still marries her 5 years later. Jane changed for the better though, by her own admission never cheated again. Then 15 years into their marriage (and 20 years since her cheating took place) and with 3 kids, Tom begins coming home drunk and cheats for other reasons; midlife crisis. Tom briefly fell in love with the other woman, stole some of his wife's money to spend it on his affair, secretly gave his wife's meals to the other woman and was thinking about setting up a trip to France just to be with her for a bit, away from responsiblities, away from the kids, out of reality. Their ages by then are 39 and 40.

Would appreciate any reasons if possible

1. In YOUR own life. or

2. In general.

Basically, I’m torn between these hair colors. Which one do you personally prefer? (Girls are also welcome to answer haha)

We all know that death is inevitable. It awaits all and could happen at any moment, whether we wish for it or not. Have you comes to term that it's going to happen to you someday?

I really like men’s hairstyle, and in a way that I want my hair to look that way. But I am a quite tall woman and not necessarily the skinny&cute type and I don’t want people to think I am a lesbian. (not that anything is wrong with it)

Would you like it on a woman?

I've heard nightmare stories of people dating doctors, police officers, politicians, lawyers, etc. When their relationship is on the rocks, or they divorce or break up, that person puts them through absolute hell that they can't even compete with because the person has so much power.

For example, there was a police officer who was only caught because her son had a sleep over and the child sleeping over witness her brutally beating her husband. What were the odds anyone would have believed him if it hadn't been a stranger's child who witnessed the incident? Or, the incident where the girl was shot in the head by her husband who's a police officer. And, the police didn't even properly investigate the incident. There's the family of lawyers down south who were murdering people.

Doctors and lawyers can sue their partner into the ground. Politicians and lawyers know legal loopholes and have connections. Doctors can hit you medically.

The ways powerful partners can hurt you are pretty brutal.

I gained weight due to a lot of stress I have.

• I am 161 . And the lowest I been was 125 while this was the highest.

• That is me rn. At 161

Or does it mean my supervisors don't trust that I could do more complex and/or interesting tasks because I come off as stupid? I could of course ask them directly but they would never be honest with me because they are too nice. I feel like they hardly give me any work and if they do it's just simple tedious stuff that every monkey could do

Personally with my ex it would have been better to have never loved at all!

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