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So I haven’t been official with my boyfriend for very long but he’s number one Snapchat best friends with the girl he was with before me.

To preface, I was told he liked me about 6 months ago but he never did anything about it. We were on and off number one snapchat best friends for months but he kept losing the heart and I got off the app because of it.

We were also texting for months and finally he asked me out. Come to find out he asked me out a week after the girl went back to school and was planning to hang out with her that weekend!

A few weeks go by and she asks him to make it official but he said no. We were consistently dating at this point. However, even after we were official she was his number one best friend.

I got really upset and he blocked her with no hesitation, but I still feel like he’s only using me as a placeholder. He keeps saying that’s obviously not true because he chose to be official with me and not her, but I don’t like how he had to wait to ask me out until she left. And I don’t like how they kept talking until it turned into a fight.

I don’t have any reason not to trust him as of now other than that, but my self esteem is still sort of in shambles.

What do you all think?

People describe 30 as being ‘old’ I know it’s not old old but you know what I mean. Would this apply to 27?

You know how lazy you have to be to date a man you GENUINELY find unattractive for money? 🤣 not to mention there’s a reason these weirdos have to pay for sex. Cause plenty don’t have to, old women don’t have to at all.

Even if you find her adorable and hot?

He kept texting with a female coworker for hours... I complained, he said he is not hiding anything. Then again and again did the same thing.

I continued to ask him if there is something I need to know. He continued to deny anything.

Then I realized that he is making me a fool and decided to leave a recorder in our office (we work together and there are cameras anyway).

Then I caught he talking trash about me to one of his friends. And then called him for an explanation.

He started yelling and calling me names, because he was secretly recorded. But didn't apologize for his behavior towards me.

Was I wrong?

Elon Musk was at least until recently the richest African American

He has lost a little or a lot lately

Is he still the richest African American today?

I have been at my employer for several years. In the last year, I’ve noticed the higher ups don’t smile at me anymore or say hi. Do they want me gone? My performance review exceeded expectations. Btw- they are kind of cliquey and this year I stopped volunteering at work because of how cliquey it had gotten and the time it took out of my day made it harder to get my work done. I’m always kind to them though and possibly volunteer (bring food to a potluck and such).

I usually won't

But for him... I am