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Even with no actual experience I still believe I fall under this category, I wonder if I need to manifest the law of attraction or something even though I do think that’s bs.

You know when you have a gut feeling? I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years, it’s come to the point where I’m not as interested & I swipe on matches/reply to msgs every few days. Dating apps are the only way I’ve tried dating as I dont have a social life but dating apps have been successful for quite a few people I know. I’ve never had a real relationship, I saw someone for a few months maybe 5 years ago & something told me after I saw him that’d I’d be single for a long time. With him it felt like settling & I refuse to ever be with someone that made me feel like that again.

I had to use dating apps bc I’m not very friendly & I don’t get approached in person. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & I will say I have a very low sex drive (haven’t masturbated or had sex in 5 years). I don’t think this is a huge deal considering this isn’t something that will be an issue that early on, a guy can’t just look at my profile/see me in person & know that right off the bat.

I get matches (never been the issue) but it’s always: ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest (can go both ways), feelings not reciprocated, just not a good match & some guys are just crazy. I just always have a gnawing feeling like guys aren’t attracted to me, I’d get told once in a while that some guy looked at me/found me cute but they never do anything about it. And I don’t either hence why I’m posting this

TLDR: based off the description, is this something that’s unlucky in love?

He smiles and seems comfortable about me flirting with him… he doesn’t look uncomfortable or anything… but he also doesn’t make any moves?

An English fish and chip shop has started to batter and deep fry sweet mince pies for Christmas. Thoughts?

Hoping they choose a education and career while being social! Like a doctor or nurse. Not computer engineer with her being the only woman in the class.

It's great them having a high paying job but we want grand kids soon and her to actually have a good husband not just another single bitter divorced mom!

Yes she is so still growing but a mom worries!

It has happened to me once and to my 2 female friends. We were 16 year-olds at the time but he was mature for his age. I actually did fell in love with him for both his looks and other traits such as a good, family-oriented boy, he was kind to others and liked reading and liked animals. He thanked me, said he felt flattered but wasn't interest in a romantic relationship, though we can be friends. I could tell he had a hard time saying all that.

If he would've rejected me harshly, called me bad names, acted grossed out or made a scene out of it, yeah I would've hated him forever or probably had self-esteem issues. It still hurt but much less than if he had been rude. We're still friends till this day and both of us dated others.

This happens to guys too. Who do you think gets hurts the most? The man or the woman?

Google has released it's most searched terms for 2023. So I'm going to pick the most searched recipes from a random country each day.

Today's recipes come from Ireland and surprisingly they're not based on potatoes.

The Top three are

Viking toast. A cheese and onion cheese toasty.

Porn star martini. Vodka and passionfruit

Marry me chicken. Chicken tomato cheese and cream

So which one do you like the look of best

I like working on weekdays cause it's better pay and gives an excuse to not see anyone😅😌 but I also work on weekdays (way less).

My lesbian peers have been pressuring me for a while now, absolutely insisting that I wear longer shorts that "at least fully cover my kneecaps or longer because shorts above the knee are just too feminine for a lesbian woman."

And like... just wow. I never thought I'd see the day where my shorts were considered "too short." I've been wearing shorts this length my whole life, and they were always considered "very long women's shorts." Among-st my straight female peers they still are, actually. However, among-st my lesbian peers they are definitely noticeably shorter, as their shorts all go below their knees while mine go above.

Hello, what type of jeans do you like on women? Skinny or straight/mom?

I got a DM from a guy asking me if I was 'Mashable'.

I had no idea so I researched it and now I know.

What do you think it is?

Use my Poll to take your best guess or tell us in your comments... good luck :)

My boyfriend works in merchandising retail and makes his own schedule. He tries to schedule his work when I am working but whenever he has to work when I am off he tells me I "have" to go to his work with him. I do not necessarily mind going because it is time with him but sometimes I am too tired and he says his reason is just wanting me there with him because it makes his work more pleasant and although he has said before that I do not "have" to go but then other times actually used the phrase "you have to" and just makes it feel like it is not really my choice but something that he is really pretty much set on. This is making me feel like he is untrustworthy and afraid of someone coming by our house to tell me something or me finding something while he is away or either that he does not trust me at all.

What do you want after the wedding?