Polls

First of all it needs to be said that there are two different ways to approach this; from the definitional perspective and from the philosophical perspective. 'Stoicism' has two different meanings; it is both a way of life, a philosophy, and it has a common understanding that is used in everyday speech by ordinary folk, without reference to any famous Stoics like Marcus Aurelius.

It's the common understanding that I have in mind here, not the ancient philosophy. People think of Stoicism as a suppression of feeling, of neglecting one's mental and physical health, working oneself to death, and trying to "lift oneself up by the bootstraps" (which is, of course, an impossibility).

But wait, I thought WE were the ones who were lonely with tons of “cats” and no man. Surely there can’t be a MALE loneliness epidemic since apparently all men are wanted as soon as they turn 30 or have money? 🤣🤣🤣

I know I will NOT go back to my ex yet he said that the only reason he wanted to have sex with me was b/c he loved me. I thought men don't consider having sex when in love. Especially early on so what he said confused me b/c I was always taught that if a man loves you he won't have sex with you. I know he will think about it but may not wan't you to think that that is all he wants. He will wait as long as it takes even until marriage and definitely won't do anything sexual early on. But he said basically the opposite. So is there any truth to what my ex said or all lies. Only men that were or are in love answer please.

So I’ve had a secret crush on this guy at work for 2 years. He was 46 and I was 25. I thought to myself to keep the little crush to myself and it would go away but 2 years later the crush is still there. He’s single by the way and we get along well. I noticed that he acted more paternal towards me when I was 25. Now I’m 27 he treats me as though I’m more mature and doesn’t act paternal anymore. Does being 27 make that much difference?

Copied from my other account because I'm stupid and chose the wrong gender there:

Since the moment I've met him, he's had my undivided attention. If we weren't coworkers, I would have immediately asked him out.

At work, we constantly pick on and roast each other and laugh about inside jokes. A coworker noted our relationship as being obnoxiously sibling-like, but my boss was sure we'd end up dating.

Just recently though, I had to move away for work. At my going-away party, I became certain he treats me differently from others. We were all drinking so things are fuzzy, but I know he was glued to my side the entire night. And it was easy to catch eye-contact with him because he was looking at me a lot. At one point we had a conversation which became suggestive, and I was sure it was going somewhere, but then he said "i like ya, i love ya, but it would be weird". I dropped it because I didn't want to make him uncomfortable. After that it was back to picking on each other and having a good night with friends. Then, when we were the last two at the bar, he picked me up, carried me to the roadside, hugged me, said he'd miss me, and ran to his taxi. I was left confused on the sidewalk before heading home.

Then the night before I left, after saying goodbye to everyone, he drove me to my hotel. We hugged and said we'd miss each other, and just before I walked into the hotel lobby, he called out again to say he'd miss me. He sounded a little emotional.

I've been a wreck since then. Not knowing how he feels is messing with me. I can't figure out if we're just friends and he sees me as a sister, or if he feels the way I do. All I know is that I'm significant to him somehow.

Since I'm now a 4 hour plane trip away, I'm not sure if it's a good idea to confess. I'd get closure and, if he was open, I'd do long-distance in a heartbeat. But if he doesn't reciprocate, I've done something selfish and upset him with the burden of my feelings.

Maybe one of you can see this clearer.

Or do they not? 28F, getting matches on the apps aren’t the issue it’s just always the usual: convos fizzling out, ghosting, not a good match, weirdos etc. I usually don’t message guys first, I swipe right on profiles first once in a while but I usually match with them once they like me first. I used bumble before almost 2 years ago & never again, the guy seemed normal but he was one of the most annoying people I’ve met & I only knew him for 3 days. The point I’m trying to make is: do you all actually put yourselves out there when matching with guys on the apps/in person or do the quality matches just come your way? Asking since you’re attractive & it’s usually assumed the guys will come your way… or am I generalizing? Can’t help but feel like good looking women don’t have to work to find someone

Can I get my love to do more dirty talk and less flirting in bed?

Notice more people tend to just dirty talk and forget we love compliments in bed too!

Too many men are hypocrites who project their insecurities on to women. Like with the “being alone” crap. THEY are the ones who are less happy when single/alone. And THEY are the ones aging like milk BALDING before 21.

I dated a guy for about 2 months. He likes possibly every girls pictures from our hometown but not mine. Not one of my posts no nothing, but he is the first to watch. It takes him seconds to view it. but he reacts to EVERY random chicks posts

I feel like he does this on purpose?

Personally if I have my nails done, I prefer a long oval shaped nail. I like square ones too if done well and not too square. 💅

I'm just asking about the length so ignore the shape & design when you're voting. You could tell me more about your preference in the comments though.

When you want a crunchy coating on your food you have a choice between breadcrumbs or batter.

So whether it is chicken, fish, or just simple onion rings what do you prefer?