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#songversions The Beach Boys sound better than The Del-ViKings.

We married in September of this year. We maybe have sex on average once a month. Not exaggerating.

I am growing concerned and somewhat frustrated. It isn't like I ask for it all day every day or even weekly for that matter. The lack of intimacy is worrisome.

There are many ways to top a Christmas Tree.

Which do you prefer?

Please vote in the poll.

How do you like the Christmas Tree to be decorated?

Please vote in the poll.

We all know what happened to Epstein, he's terrible and evil and should be executed and dead or in prison for eternity.

But if you are a woman, you can cry, say you are sorry and go free, just don't do it again. See video and read story. Sex acts w two underage dudes, age 16 and 17... walked!

Is it time for guys to learn to cry, confess, carry on, and promise not to "that" again?

Maybe it's nice be judged in a Republican state? Does that help?

https://www.daytondailynews.com/news/crime--law/kettering-sub-teacher-sentenced-today-for-sex-with-students/z7EVKSne1dbnxKNdU9uJDI/

Eating boogers at age 31

A common thread in mass shooters... grievances... leading to resentments. They become consumed in their negative emotions and plan and punish anyone and everyone. Makes them "feel good". What I wonder is why some people overcome grievances and others give into them.

"Grievance is not an emotion itself, but rather a feeling of resentment or complaint about a perceived wrong or hardship. It often involves emotions like anger, frustration, or sadness related to that perceived injustice."

I've felt that long ago and overcame it. Getting a good world view helps to see things clearly.

If you have wrong expectations of this world, feel powerless, leads to big problems in relating to the world.

I suspect grievance can turn into other social, subvertive ills as well...

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/world-news/man-reveals-spine-chilling-question-33059836

I have recently discovered the 5 C's of a relationship, though I'm sure we already use them without knowing about the rule.

How to use the 5 C's.

As a Checklist. Evaluate potential or current partners by seeing if they embody these traits.

As a Growth Tool. Intentionally practice these elements to strengthen your existing relationships.

Commonly Cited 5 C's.

Communication/Closeness: The ability to talk openly, listen actively, resolve misunderstandings, and revealing your true self.

Chemistry: The spark, attraction, and the emotional pull that makes you exited about the person.

Compatibility/Commonality: Shared values, goals, and a sense of fitting well together long term.

Commitment: A conscious decision to stick together through challenges, and build a future.

Compassion/Courtesy/Constructive Conflict: Showing care, and understanding, respect, kindness, appreciation, and managing inevitable issues.

The 777 Rule is a relationship guideline for couples.

How it works.

Every 7 days (Date Night) A dedicated, uninterrupted time to connect, which can be simply a movie at home, or a dinner out.

Every 7 weeks (Night Away) A short escape, like a staycation or a night in a new town, to break the routine, and focus solely on each other.

Every 7 months (Romantic Getaway) A longer vacation or trip to create lasting memories, and fully disconnect from daily stressors.

What do you think of a man who wears tighty whities?