Polls

Hey there! Met a guy at work (same level as me, but in a different department and building). I'm used to guys being straightforward in asking for my number and to go on a date, so this one is throwing me for a loop. On the one hand, he hasn't done any of that, so I can see either cautious (because of work) or disinterest.

On the other hand, he's very regimented when he walks in to work. He walks in, goes in the bathroom, comes out, then makes a right at the turnstile. If I happen to catch him in the parking lot, he goes out of his way to walk me to where I turn to go to my building. We linger and talk, laugh, he'll drop a profound statement, then we go our separate ways.

The convos aren't deep, but they have helped us learn a little about each other. I couldn't tell you how old he is, where he's from, where he worked before our company (I know he's new to us), if he's been married before (he does have a kid), nothing. I have complimented him a couple of times but he hasn't complimented me physically.

I feel like asking him out would answer my questions, but what say you?

Have you ever stayed in a relationship because you were afraid no one else would want you?

go to sleep alone in your bed each day instead of a man

take care of yourself go to the doctor alone instead of a man taking care and driving you to hospital

talk to yourself in your head instead of talking calling a man 24/7 laughing

something scary happens and no man to hug for safety

You think it’s considered selfish to keep doing the things that your family was upset at your poor actions and they kept doing it because they would pick their own happiness over their family. Is this a sign of a selfish person? Why can’t they chose their family instead? Like if their family is upset about their poor choices and they kept doing it anyway because they won’t care if their family talks to them anymore they just got to do what makes them happy because they are an adult who can make their own decisions?

It was our turn to host the solar eclipse this year, and as usual, we did it better than anyone else. OK, it was only about 95%, but we still did it awesomely because that's what we do.

Unfortunately, with my phone, I couldn't capture the ring no matter what I tried. Perhaps I'll try again tomorrow.

Anywaysie, here's three attempts but which one is best. (None look anything like an eclipse)