Questions

I (19f) have feelings for a guy (21m) who I met on a dating app. For more context we have been messaging everyday for almost exactly a month. Worth noting we also live in different countries. Over this time I have become more infrastructure with him.

Problem is I am not sure if he feels the same or not. Maybe he just sees me as a friend? I just value my connection with him and I don't want to sabotage it.

This is what I plan on sending him,

"Hey, I know this is sudden, but I just want to confess. Basically, I've gained romantic feelings towards you. Idc if you don't feel anything back or what not. Apologies if this came off as weird. I just think it's important for you to know. Still, I hope we still text since I genuinely value our conversations. I sincerely want the best for you. I'll always be here if you need help unless I'm dead 😎"

Wanted to keep things light and chill since I don't want him to feel and presume and the ending falls into the humor him and I use together. Also, it's worth noting I am willing and looking into everything we would have to deal with in our relationship due to the distance and I'm willing to deal with it, and if he feels the same him and I will have a conversation about it.

Any advice or encouragement would be appreciated.

Many Latino men in the US chase and marry white women. Meanwhile, most of their own men, white men, would be able to write a short story on their worship of Latinas (and many do in online chatrooms) The very same women that Latino guys look over. Why are we so undesirable to you yet pursued by almost every other group at the expense of their own? When others see curves, do you just see fat? When others see exotic features, do you see something you're bored with because it's similar to your own face? When they see our romantic ways, do think we're just needy? What is 'spicy' to them is overrated to you? What is a rich olive complexion to them is not the ideal white to you? Many white guys will tell you, with zero disrespect to our beautiful white sisters, that in general they are bony in the wrong places, have nonexistent lips, thin hair and skin that has begun to age noticeably so by 21 (not my opinion). Are white women easier/promiscuous? Do you want to be white yourself? Are our personalities unbearable? Is it because many Latinas don't look like J. Lo?