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for 6 months we were texting everyday and for the past month we’ve kinda fell off after hanging out twice. Now his responses were every few days and our texts have gotten much much much shorter like we used to talk about everything and now we don’t after hanging out. So I’ve made my responses every few days too since he has long gaps. I asked how he was and told him about my update at work cause he asked about it the last time. It’s been over a week since he’s texted and I sent the last text over a week ago too. On my fb stories I did recently post a guy but it was my cousins friend and they wanted the opinion of others and I posted it to my acc because I have more followers to answer the poll. I don’t show he viewed it but maybe he saw the thumbnail for it on fb? Or maybe he genuinely doesn’t want to talk anymore? I don’t want him to think I’m talking to another guy but at the same time, If he really wanted to, he would make the effort more or wouldn’t back down if he really wanted me. And I’m just not getting the chase from him

1. We watched a Instagram video of a girl who was overweight chasing a man inside a car throwing money. Eventually the woman lost weight from doing that. So then my boyfriend says " you should try doing that" and laughed. I asked him what he meant by that and if it has anything to do with my weight and he said it's nothing and I'm overthinking.

2. One day we were talking and I said when I get a break from my child who drives me nuts I want to use that time to meditate and relax. He suggested that I use that time to exercise with him.

3. We had another discussion. This was about vertigo attacks and what causes them. He said his mom got vertigo attacks too but probably because she's in the heat. When it came to me he said the vertigo attacks could be from poor eating.

From all of this I'm convinced he doesn't accept me or like me but I'm a few pounds overweight. But he doesn't want me to leave him which is crazy. 🥴