Really confused. Mixed signals?

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I have a male friend who kept stroking my arms/legs, he'd give super long hugs and kiss my forehead. I told him I liked it. I didn't know if that actually meant he had feelings for me or he's just a tactile person. (he also once tried to kiss me but he was drunk and I was married at the time and swerved it) Anyway, on Sunday night, I messaged him and asked if he wanted a movie night the next evening to which he enthusiastically agreed.

The next evening came, I asked if it was still on and he's ignored my message. Any ideas what that's about? It's not like we're dating, we are friends or so I thought. No need to blank me, it wasn't a date! (Though I would secretly like to be more than friends..) Why would a friend do that? He did overhear me talking about going on a date with another guy. Could this have anything to do with it? But when he agreed to movie night, that was after he overheard. And like I said, I don't know if he actually has feelings for me. So confusing!

Really confused. Mixed signals?
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