Girls catering to guys

[lola4211]

As much as many girls don't want to hear this, I believe a woman should cater to her man's every need. Maybe not on demand right away, and they shouldn't demand you to preform a sexual act, if you don't want to. But everything else, like cooking for him, cleaning his dirty laundry, listening to him rant about how bad work was, raising your children (men should help with that too), and everything else.

You shouldn't do these things for a man whom doesn't appreciate them, but to a man who does and whom you love. He is your protecter, not only of your life but your heart. You will keep a man's heart when you show him your love. That's difficult to do if you aren't caring for him.

That's my opinion, what do you think?

[AleDeEurope]

I agree that a woman should do this things for her man, but just like her man should do all this things for her woman too.
Relationships/marriage are a two way street: you do for me, and I do for you. That's the beauty of it, in my opinion.
Making the other person, the person you love, happy, must be one of the best feelings in the world. I would love to cook for my future girl, see her enjoy my meals.
Men shouldn't "help" with the kids, they should take care of them too. It's not a woman's job with the occasional help of the father, but a 50-50 job. Both should give the same effort to raise the kids, but that's not something that you should tell a father, a real father should be willing to do that because he loves his kid/s. I know that when I'm a father I'm not gonna let the mother do all the job, I'm gonna be there just as much as her, cause I wanna see my kid grow up; I don't wanna be in the bench watching while my kid lives his life.

[Jxpxtxr]

I agree with some of what you say but just as a woman should cater to her man's every need, as you say, a man should cater to his woman's every need, too.
In my opinion relationships can't work if one part constantly gives and the other constantly takes, there has to be a good balance. Of course I will (try to) cook for my man and do the dishes but I would also expect him to do it on some days so that we both put equally much effort into the relationship. :) And honestly, I think if he helps me or takes over some of the tasks sometimes I'm sure he will appreciate it even more when I do it for him since he will know how exhausting it can be lol.

[kaylaS91]

I don't agree with women 'catering to her man's every need'. I can cook for him, help clean up. But EVERY need of his? I'm not his mother. Everyone should help each other out, no need to make a gender role out of it.
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[Azara]

why should a woman do these things for her partner, and a man not do these things for his partner. thats a one way street. caring requires two way connection.

everyone is their parents protector. when you love someone you protect them. this is not a mans domain. its the act of any person who loves you.

[inamorata]

He brings in money, he risks his life in danger (burglars, drowning, attack, then you won't be protecting shit) and he organizes your life together taking responsibility for the family. You pick up his socks.

[Azara]

i being in money i risk my life., WE organize our lives and take responsibility for OUR family he can pick up his own socks just like i can pick up mine.

you really think all women can do is pick up laundry? you do realize women fight in wars fight fires are police force start revolutions.

you have a demeaning view of women assumed are trying to make me look ungrateful bc i dont agree with your view. im not sitting here saying i expect him to do things i have no intention of doing. thats not the kind relationship i have., and choosing between fighting burglars and being a door mat. not a hard choice. but i font have to choose bc were a team.

[Azara]

what exactly;y do you do when you are not in a relationship? you do all the things you suddenly claim are mans work when you're in a relationship. its bullshit. somer people are single their entire lives. they still have to take care of themselves. so obviously there's no such thing as inherently being unable to protect yourself or pick up you're socks.

[Decemberxbluex]

Yessss...

https://youtu.be/juqws1LIH-I

Girls don't understand how it makes us men feel. As a man sometimes it feels like the world is trying to beat you down, and it feels good when you have a woman who can heal your body and mind. by the way, none of this is to say we as men don't/shouldn't cater our women too. :P

[Octavius]

I don't like people to cater to me and not too many women know how to cook anymore. I was spoiled by my mother growing up who was a great cook. So I'll just cook my own dinner since I'm getting fairly good at it now. Laundry is easy for me to do and doesn't take much time at all.

[JaysunFet]

Nothing wrong with me doing the dishes, washing cloths, preparing and cooking food, shopping, paying invoices, while she learns from me how to discuss cars or work on, build large structures, and organize humans, dance, sing or play musical instruments.

[FatherJack]

I do the housework in my house , my mrs sometimes cooks , but I do everything else ( cleaning , laundry ) partly my own fault as being ex British Army , I'm a bit regimental. The rest of my household are mostly messy clampits , however the garden is overgrown as I refuse to be a total slave , somethings got to give. You will get loads of female downvotes , sadly a lot of women in the West view men as beneath them , most of my female work colleagues hate men !!

[Nuqood]

I think I love you is what I think.

I also think you should get me a beer and give me a kiss, and then as you turn around I'll give your ass a spank.

[Bonnie12I27I12]

i agree with this. my mother has always done it for my dad and i plan on doing it for my husband.

[9mfeo]

Is he going to cater to my every whim as well? Because reciprocity is important to me.

[JuicyBrain]

I think it is just as important. Maybe in other ways? Like would you do the laundry while I finish the deck?
You know what? Why don't you go watch your favorite show tonight, I am gonna take care of dinner and the dishes. Tomorrow, there is football, you could bring the guys beers and snacks. I think if we can both take care of each other, in this context, her myTake makes a lot of sense

[9mfeo]

@JuicyBrain that's the set-up my parents have (though my father refuses to do anything that has to do with cooking or cleaning, but he will do all the yard work). It really all depends on what you're individually comfortable with and how you work together as a couple.

[phanindra554plus]

I like this take mainly the first line in the last paragraph, that is true I will act like a gentle if a girl appreciate my work for her😊. if she do all this then I rely die for her very proudly 😊

[PT1911]

You're a wonderful woman and will be blessed if you have this mentality :)

[Anonymous]

Usually, if she refuses to do it, she doesn't know how to do it, or doesn't do it well. So, they say "I shouldn't have to do that", meaning "I don't know how to do that" or "can you do it for me, I don't do it well enough"

[SilenRose]

I agree with this but more so on a give and take.

[Not_Helping]

I think this is convoluted shit.

[inamorata]

I agree. ¯\(◔‿◔)/¯