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Everyone knows deep down you speak the cold hard truth. #Biology
That's why I fuck as many guys as I want and settle down with the ones I think are really chill. In an ideal world i'd want a man who wants just me but that's impossible lol every girl and guy knows it.
I agree, this excuse is old but I'm pretty sure he is a troll anyway.
Not really. Society would collapse if this were the case. Biology is far more complicated then you or he is presenting it as.
Your take is flawed. Women have sex drives too and can be just as polygamous as men. And you you are wrong when I have a girlfriend I don't think about other girls at all. I'm not out seeking more fertile women.
I have 0 problem dating 1 person, and when i am in a good relationship I hardly notice anyone else. So speak for yourself not all guys are pigs.
"Human biology doesn't apply to me!!" Don't be silly. You may be content with your relationship but you still look at other women and imagine doing lewd things to them. It's the same thing.
@Remonster do you think women do that too?
@Bards I will not pretend to know, but I suppose both sexes love to look at pretty humans. As far as I know, guys are more direct in their fantasies.
@Remonster when I'm into a guy, like reallly into a guy, I dont think about anyone else. Other than that everyone does notice an attractive person but they dont necessarily always think about anything sexual
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lmao!
So glad that its not going to happen. Only on the internet can lvl 99 retardation be agreed on.
Lmao. This is the same argument men use to justify raping women. YOU are in control of your body. You can just... not cheat. And you can just... not rape. It's not "in your biology." Social conditioning will ALWAYS trump "biology."
k get socially conditioned not to breath see how that works out.
Men have never used that as an excuse to rape. Rape is rare (4% of the entire male population are responsible for all of the sexual assaults and rape, the same percentage is true for women as well) Also social conditioning will not trump biology, hence transexualisim where some one is raised as one gender but identify as another despite society.(there was also a horrible human experiment that proved this point as well). While you may be able to respond to your desires diffrently then the way your body intended or find loopholes (celibacy/masterbation and contraceptive respectively) the biological urge is still there and cannot be erased with out altering the body itself, and some urges are so ingrained that you don't even realize there biological because they are so natural you don't even question them.
Now you know why so many women are becoming lesbians after relationships with men.
Lesbians don't cheat really?
Didn't say that. But, more women look more for long-term monogamous relationships. I know quite a few women who were once married and have kids who decided to try women because too many men cheat. You can like it or not, it happens. Even you said that men want this and women want that. Women know this and some give up on men. Not only is a woman less likely to cheat (not saying this is the case for all women), but they have more in common. There's also not as many other lesbian women available to lesbians, so it's a good bit safer. by the way, I am not a lesbian and have never been with a woman. I do understand why it's happening, though. Eventually, men will be screwed if society keeps progressing the way it is. Women are getting braver and more likely to say "eff men" when they have had enough of the disrespect and inconsideration. There's also a lot more women saying they don't want kids. Even if they do, sperm banks and adoption are a great option.
Turning lesbian for emotional support is never the solution
I'm sure they aren't just getting "emotional support". I hear women are much better in bed since they know exactly what a woman wants and what feels the best. Trust me, these ladies are definitely happy all around.
Lol so they aren't born that way after all, who knew?
@genuinelysensitive Lol. Heck if I know. I like men. Some of the lesbians I know are really butch and have always been lesbian. Most of their significant others were once married and have kids. Maybe some are and maybe some aren't.
@genuinlysensitive Sorry, I tagged you wrong.
Also a growing number of men have given up on women , the flip side of the same coin. I intend to stay single post divorce , I just want a peaceful life without moaning , complaining & foul moods polluting my life. Women & men just aren't compatible in so many ways , we want different things from life & we are wired so differently that misunderstanding followed by conflict are inevitable.
@GatherJack I think men and women are complementary to each other rather. And staying single is a recipe for a miserable life
@FatherJack
While I will say that staying single is not the recipe for a miserable life, I will say that it is a pretty peaceful one. Single for 6 years here and I have been happy. I just feel like I want a bit more, but I don't need a relationship or rely on it to make me happy. Men and women are definitely wired very differently. The problem with misunderstanding is communication. That's not something I have a problem with anymore, because I have learned to speak up over the last few years. I say exactly what I think instead of beating around the bush. Women don't know how to just be honest with men. We tend to say one thing, but want another. Men don't know how to speak up. Women always want to know what they are thinking/feeling and get frustrated when they say that they aren't thinking/feeling anything. Men avoid things, while women twist the truth because they want the man to just know what they want.
If women have the confidence to say what they really want it would make things easier than us men have to guess all the time
I agree. It's not always about confidence, though. Women want men to just do things for them without having to tell the men. It means less if we have to say, "I want this". It makes a woman feel good to know that her man is just thinking of her and that he knows her well enough to not have to ask. It's all about emotions for women. Blame it on our damn hormones.
I forgot to tag @FatherJack in my last comment.
I have a few friends who cheat on their bfs all of the time. One of my friends who's a girl loves sex so much she slept with a women other night and then slept with a random man on way home and has a boyfriend. Also if I'm honest I don't really like the thought to settle down. but is that okay for me because I'm a woman. Probably not and it's probably a man who wrote this too. There's no excuse for cheating. If your going by God im sure there is something in the bible against cheating.
Don't bring the bible into this because almost every man in the Bible had multiple wives.
Even if polygamy was legal, I doubt many women would succumb to that kind of relationship. You're better off traveling to Uganda.
Only in the western civilization is it illegal so its doubtful and many women in America are open to it even with it being illegal its practiced in a lot of American subcultures
Sure but it is fair to say that if it became legal, many women would be asking equality for having many male partners :)
if it was legal there would be suprisingly more multi married couples than you think..
Even if polygamy were to be lawful here (it already is in some countries), I doubt you are one of those who can marry several 10s.
Men are not naturally polygamous. Women are naturally polygamous.
Women should be shared by multiple husbands. Men should never be allowed to marry multiple women, as that would be unnatural and wrong (and honestly, a woman having to share a man with another woman would be quite disgusting!).
When women cheat - its their right and feminism blah blah blah !! How hypocrite world it is where we live.
Women justify through relationship guidance politics
Re3ad elise sutton if you have brains. Women have inherent trait to put all blame on men while history is proof Helen of Troy , Cleopatra, Antonio and the list goes endless women always cheat their partners still get away with that
Lmfao
That was painful to even read lol
lol wtf
Maybe faithfulness and monogamy is a social construct.
Maybe it doesn't matter. All I know is the girl I like prefers monogamy, and that makes her happy. :)
The last thing I want is another woman in my life !!
Haha! Imagine 4 women bitching at you for whatever reason for the rest of your life. Even I have a headache and could see myself gagging them.
I've had more than enough of that...& I'm sure as hell no doormat ( I'm ex military & a bit of a bolshy bastard !! ) The scenario you have pictured , crystalt70 , is framed by the words " WELCOME TO HELL !! " I would probably undergo nuclear fission if I was put under all that stress !!!
Ok, I know for a fact that females have their own ways.
In some animals, mainly monkeys, a male may have a harem of females, but not all the children are his.
That's because some females mate with other (non alpha) males.
In humans, a woman may marry a provider, but may have children of a "genetically superior" man.
If this would be allowed then men must accept having multiple husbands under one wife otherwise it's not equal and will not work out because of jealousy.(which is extremely common among women, if you haven't noticed).
No man would accept that but I know plenty of gold diggers would. Men would be rare cases honestly. plus the guy usually is the one to proposes but if a girl wants to marry two men she'll have to waiT for both to ask her lol thats almost impossible. Men want variety of sex and he's willing to financially support both. The othee way doesn't wirk because what does the man gain from the women. That's why polygamy will just become something feminsts hate lol.
@Adenkay
Majority of women don't like that either. You don't have to ask around to know that, most women go crazy when another woman steals their man
I agree with u but what's im saying is there will be more occurrences of guys marrying MorE then one girl. I think it's western culture but dont forget how powerful the media is. Monogamy is the norm in society and if we did legalise it im pretty sure it woUld become a part of cultural norms like everything else is. The first step is always the hardest because it wasn't ever considered.
Might I add you should go back to the kitchen and forgot about any career prospects because you clearly are incapable of coherent writing which you should have grasped at your age. You epitomize stupidity. Women like you were made to serve men sex and thats all. Other then that you have no worth to a man. I can already hear u shout "THERE ARE MORE GIRLS THEN BOYS AT UNI". But men are clearly more superior if 85% of the CEOS in the ftse 100 are men. We think mmore logically and dont use prostitution as a source of income. We are the main breast winners and we'd physically batter u. So dont forget this is a man's world. The only 2 places a women should be is in a kitchen/Brothel.
This doesn't include my mum or my sisters.
@AdenKay
You say that my English shows illiteracy, yet you have tons of spelling errors. The word "but" is a coordinating junction. I'm not going to even talk about how you use "2" instead of "two" OR "u" instead of "you"...
I always find it amusing when guys provide scientific evidence as to why the majority of them are sluts. And then they wonder why so many women are against marriage.
I'm a slut, am against marriage. I love women who are against marriage
Good for you. Do you want a gold star or something?
I find it amusing when women have no trouble calling men sluts but if a man used that term against a woman, you'd likely be all kinds of offended over it.
@casualweekday if a man called a girl a slut he wouldn't hear the end of it
@Take Owner
Exactly. The double standards need to go away. If the term is considered offensive to women, it's offensive to men as well. If you have no problem calling men sluts then you should also have no problem when men call women sluts either.
"And then they wonder why so many women are against marriage."
Uh what? You've go that backwards, it's men the world over who are dropping out not the women.
Amen!
Slut cannot be used to hurt a man. A) because all women are whores except mummy and sis. B) men high five eachother getting laid so your only supporting his new status c) only women can be sluts biologically. D) it would be a honor if I was called one because it'd mean im getting some. There's a reason slut shaming is so powerful because girls know being promiscuous is nasty for women. Biologically women are meant to be selective. But based on your profile pic u definetly look like you've been used. Guys can see a slut face from a mile away it's probably why nobody aappoaches you I mean your no Adriana lima lol. You need make up a lot more of it.
Men have control when it comes to marriage it's guys who dont want to be tied down to one chick lol. It's perpetuated in society that it's a girls dream to get married. And by the way girls have a stigma when it comes to marriage especially as they get older (bitter about looking ugly compared to hot younger girls) they become less desirable as they age. Guys want young girls and nobody wants a divorced mum with children that's anothe. stigma.
I don't get offended because some women are sluts just as some men are @casualweekday. Yes, men do have the power in a relationship when the girl is desperate for male attention. Most women who have experience with men don't want to get married because there aren't even eligible men to date exclusively, let alone get tied down to. Women have way more options and don't need some asshat to be happy.
@AdenKay - You must surround yourself with a very sad group of women.
but guys aren't asking why women are against marriage? if anything they are glad they are
I dont know, i just think its beautiful to think of two people just being meant for each other.
It seems less romantic to say "you are ALSO my soul mate"
Oh girl, inbox me if u wanna know why the soulmate thing is unfortunately not a real thing
Maybe because souls aren't real lol
Us straight white Christian men should just like important 10 wives each and then say we were born that way and demand a welfare check for each of our wives. That would really show those Liberals.
If the wives are tax paying why not
Interesting but what about women who are into casual flings and cheat too
I guess you didn't read the take
I did you said us women have a insecurity issue. I. e. if say a woman was married and found herself admiring another man - you said that is solely based on the fact they have some trouble in their marriage.
Maybe it might be true to some extent but I think it also depends on the individual's upbringing. Like for instance if a child was abused as a child then there is a likely chance they might become an abusive parent/spouse. Similarly if the individual grew up in a household where cheating was shown to be normal then they might end up cheating in future life regardless of gender
Upbringing plays a role in how an adult will turn out but if the women is decent and the man don't pays her attention then she will emotionally cheat
Again it depends on the individual. Even if someone women are neglected they don't cheat on their spouses
Men are not cheaters. Cheating is the act of doing something behind someone's back but men aren't like this. There are men like this, but men, in general, aren't like this. Men are polygynous.