Wonder Why Men Cheat?
Many women who have been a victim of cheating wonder about this very same question. Men sometimes seem pre-programmed to be unfaithful, but are they programmed to cheat?
Warning many men here may have such low self-esteem that this maybe a trigger for them.
You guys might feel the need to whine, moan, bitch, even put me down by the end of this MyTake. But remember it's not me it's actually you. I could careless about your feelings this is a generalization topic ( your names not on it ).
Take it personal, be sensitive, knock yourself out I don't care . Now here is why most men cheat in relationships.
If he does not have a lot of experience in committed relationships, or if he doesn’t fully understand that his actions will inevitably have consequences like hurting his partner, he may think it is fine to have sexual adventures with others. He may see a relationship like a coat he can take on and off as he wants to.
He may have an ongoing problem with cheating in the past. He might have a problem with alcohol, or drugs that affect his decision-making, resulting in regrettable sexual decisions. Or maybe he even has a problem like sexual addiction. Simply put though he's a habitual cheater and a POS person.
He may feel as if he is too old (or too young), not handsome enough, not rich enough, not smart enough, etc. To have/stay with a girl in a relationship for very long period. So, using this sextracurricular spark of interest from some other person to feel wanted, desired, and worthy.
He may feel that his partner should meet his every whim and desire, sexual and otherwise, 24/7, regardless of how she feels at any particular moment. He fails to understand that she has a life of her own, with thoughts and feelings and needs that don’t always involve him.
It’s possible that his primary consideration is for himself and himself alone. He can therefore lie and keep secrets without remorse or regret, as long as it gets him what he wants. Basically he's a worthless hoe if put simply.
And last but not least, my personal favorite the It's Over excuse which can come in two versions.
It’s Over, Version 1:
He may want to end his current relationship. However, instead of just telling his partner that he’s unhappy and wants to break things off, he cheats and then forces her to do the dirty work. What a worthless little dick....!!!
It’s Over, Version 2:
He may want to end his current relationship, but not until he’s got another one lined up. So he sets the stage for his next relationship (sleeping with her ) while still in the first one. Then of course with his plan B ready he feels safe to leave. What a cowardly pussy..!!!
Hopefully this helped to understand a little about why some men cheat and their thoughts behind cheating. Thank you everyone for reading I appreciate you. And don't forget,,,,