I'd be fine being single if I knew I would have the opportunity to have a boyfriend one day. But it'll never happen because guys don't like ugly 19 year old virgins who have never dated before.
I'm sure you're wrong. You're not ugly and if it makes you feel any better I'm a virgin too. And I'm 21 Don't despair, I know that sounds cliche but you'll find that one person that will love you for who you are and will appreciate all of your qualities :)
If you see yourself as ugly then you need to work on your self esteem. Look at actresses in a T. V show or in a magazine: if we consider that some women are ugly, then half of them are more than ugly- and they just learn how to be confident- and we see some of them with really hot men.
The second point is age. Why are you pressuring yourself with the stereotype that '19 and a Virgin' is a bad combination? There are women who are virgin in their 30s. there is no problem with that.
19 Too still a virgin nothing wrong with that take a few minutes every morning and just stare at yourself try naming one thing you like about yourself and the next day try naming two things it's a slow process but it will help you feel better about yourself you don't need a dude to make you feel good just looking at your pic I can see you have beautiful eyes!
I don't trust you all because you're women. Women lie to each other about pretty they are all the time. I am ugly because men have told me I'm ugly. And men don't like virgins because they are inexpirenced.
@homper87 I applaud you for that! It is always good to hear that there are others who still think that way. I often feel like I'm the only one who believes in waiting for marriage (at least, the only MALE who does).
Oh dear. I don't know what to say if you read this and can't find something to do to enjoy your life more. No friends and nothing to keep your mind and body busy doing other things?
Trust me, you will after going through a couple of long term relationships - granted that you don't find one that will eventually last for most of your life. People never enjoy being single until they know what freedoms they've given up.
I'm not planning on "going through a couple of long term relationships". Then you say, "Nobody plans that." And that's where I say, "They do subconsciously. But I don't."
Ok well first, I never used the words "nobody plans that" - I'm just not wishing you or anyone failures in your relationship (s) to find out how nice it was to be single. It's always easier to think what you don't have is easier.
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I was born into this world alone and I will return to dust on my own.
I am learning to let go, because everyone is between is a blessing; so in with the new and out with the old.
focusing on yourself and doing your own thing is important in life. especially when finding the right man or woman
I'd be fine being single if I knew I would have the opportunity to have a boyfriend one day. But it'll never happen because guys don't like ugly 19 year old virgins who have never dated before.
I'm sure you're wrong. You're not ugly and if it makes you feel any better I'm a virgin too. And I'm 21
Don't despair, I know that sounds cliche but you'll find that one person that will love you for who you are and will appreciate all of your qualities :)
And there's nothing wrong with being a 19 year old virgin girl. Trust me ^^
If you see yourself as ugly then you need to work on your self esteem. Look at actresses in a T. V show or in a magazine: if we consider that some women are ugly, then half of them are more than ugly- and they just learn how to be confident- and we see some of them with really hot men.
The second point is age. Why are you pressuring yourself with the stereotype that '19 and a Virgin' is a bad combination? There are women who are virgin in their 30s. there is no problem with that.
19 Too still a virgin nothing wrong with that take a few minutes every morning and just stare at yourself try naming one thing you like about yourself and the next day try naming two things it's a slow process but it will help you feel better about yourself you don't need a dude to make you feel good just looking at your pic I can see you have beautiful eyes!
I don't trust you all because you're women. Women lie to each other about pretty they are all the time. I am ugly because men have told me I'm ugly. And men don't like virgins because they are inexpirenced.
I am single because I am just too damn busy and it's very hard to find myself a girl while I am constantly working.
I drink alcohol to ease the pain.
girl in never single. there is always at least one guy who is pounding her.
Definitely false! You have a faulty logic concerning this.
what was the longest time you've been without sex?
Swear to God I'm still a virgin and I'm 23. It's because Im a Christian and waiting until my wedding night
@homper87 I applaud you for that! It is always good to hear that there are others who still think that way. I often feel like I'm the only one who believes in waiting for marriage (at least, the only MALE who does).
It's ok to be anything as long as you're happy with where you are
I disagree I am single and it's lonely and depressing.
Oh dear. I don't know what to say if you read this and can't find something to do to enjoy your life more. No friends and nothing to keep your mind and body busy doing other things?
Besides work and a dog and the gym nothing. All of my friends have girlfriends so they rarely spend time with me anymore.
Sounds like you just need to make new friends? :/
I can't cuddle with my friends I can't express feelings and emotions to guy friends it gets lonely sitting in my bed late at night watching tv.
Exactly! Sometimes relationships provide you things that your friends, family etc can't :/
But I'm not enjoying being single.
Trust me, you will after going through a couple of long term relationships - granted that you don't find one that will eventually last for most of your life. People never enjoy being single until they know what freedoms they've given up.
I'm not planning on "going through a couple of long term relationships".
Then you say, "Nobody plans that."
And that's where I say, "They do subconsciously. But I don't."
Ok well first, I never used the words "nobody plans that" - I'm just not wishing you or anyone failures in your relationship (s) to find out how nice it was to be single. It's always easier to think what you don't have is easier.
Being single can get depressing and boring
Yes it can! lol
No its not. I hate it I hate it I hate it.
I hate it to but I have realised that there is no woman for me.
I totally agree it horrible been single
Think if it as a time to fall in love with yourself before you fall for someone else. No one will ever make you happy.
I really like the quote from the thoughtcatalog.
I love it. You put my thoughts into words...
This was beautiful 😁
It's ok to be in a relationship, too.
Nice take by the way :) <3
Means tgeres something wrong with you
the first quote is so true
Its better to be single
Both things have good and bad sides.
I am single because i am ugly
Same here